WEBVTT 00:00:01.214 --> 00:00:04.008 -Tell me where we have to go. -Wait, this is just a map. 00:00:05.552 --> 00:00:08.596 As a family, we are spinning wheels in different directions. 00:00:10.598 --> 00:00:13.184 I hope to get closer on this trip as a family. 00:00:13.810 --> 00:00:14.978 How do I look? 00:00:15.812 --> 00:00:17.021 We're getting there. 00:00:25.071 --> 00:00:26.114 Let's go, kid. 00:00:27.365 --> 00:00:28.491 Catch it, Griff. 00:00:28.575 --> 00:00:30.076 - Go, Tyler. - Go, Ty. Go, Ty! 00:00:30.160 --> 00:00:31.161 Holy! 00:00:31.244 --> 00:00:32.370 - Griff! - Whoo! 00:00:32.495 --> 00:00:33.371 Run! 00:00:33.496 --> 00:00:35.165 - Yes! Yes! - Aw, you let him make a home run. 00:00:35.248 --> 00:00:36.249 Whoo! 00:00:37.834 --> 00:00:40.044 - Hey, babe, doorbell. - Let me go check. 00:00:41.004 --> 00:00:43.339 Hi. We're the Marin family. 00:00:43.506 --> 00:00:46.050 -Hi, I'm Shawn and I'm Dad. -I'm Becki and I'm Mom. 00:00:46.134 --> 00:00:49.012 -Hey, I'm Tyler and I'm 18. -I'm Ryan and I'm 14. 00:00:49.137 --> 00:00:50.638 I'm Griffin and I'm ten. 00:00:50.805 --> 00:00:52.557 -Hey, you guys. Look, we got a package... -What's that? 00:00:52.682 --> 00:00:54.434 ...from Family Reboot. Come check it out. 00:00:54.517 --> 00:00:56.102 - Okay. - What do you think it is? 00:00:56.227 --> 00:00:57.812 -I don't know. -I think you need to open it up... 00:00:57.896 --> 00:00:59.481 -Well... You get to open it. -...and let's find out. 00:00:59.564 --> 00:01:00.440 Okay. 00:01:02.400 --> 00:01:04.777 Oh, wow. Look at that. 00:01:04.903 --> 00:01:06.404 - Cool. - Let's check it out. 00:01:08.823 --> 00:01:10.116 -Oh, my gosh! -Cool! 00:01:10.200 --> 00:01:11.826 That must've been when we were driving out there. 00:01:11.910 --> 00:01:13.411 - Yeah. - Yeah. Remember that huge map? 00:01:13.995 --> 00:01:16.039 - Tyler, your favorite hat. - Yeah. 00:01:16.247 --> 00:01:18.082 You know you still want that hat. 00:01:18.166 --> 00:01:19.834 Griffin did. Look at that smile. 00:01:20.043 --> 00:01:21.336 I wanted to keep that hat. 00:01:22.045 --> 00:01:23.880 - Oh, that was fun. - Oh, that was... that was fun. 00:01:24.005 --> 00:01:26.966 Crazy that that was just eight weeks ago. It feels like yesterday. 00:01:27.091 --> 00:01:29.511 - Yeah. - Yeah, but so much has happened. 00:01:29.594 --> 00:01:32.388 I mean, think of how crazy our life was. 00:01:32.472 --> 00:01:32.847 Yeah. 00:01:35.141 --> 00:01:38.603 Question four. "Which is a synonym for convince? 00:01:38.853 --> 00:01:41.981 "A, practice, B, volunteer, 00:01:42.148 --> 00:01:46.277 "C, trust, or D, persuade?" 00:01:46.402 --> 00:01:47.445 D. 00:01:47.570 --> 00:01:50.031 Everybody definitely has their own busy schedule. 00:01:50.198 --> 00:01:54.035 I homeschool Griffin, and then I'm kind of a one-man show 00:01:54.202 --> 00:01:57.372 in terms of making sure everything gets done at home. 00:01:57.455 --> 00:01:59.123 -That's it for that. -Okay. 00:01:59.249 --> 00:02:00.667 For your science... 00:02:00.833 --> 00:02:06.172 Being the mom of three boys is organized chaos. 00:02:06.422 --> 00:02:09.467 A typical day during the week, Ryan gets off to school, 00:02:09.634 --> 00:02:13.221 Tyler's off to work, and then Griffin and I get started with our school day. 00:02:13.346 --> 00:02:17.350 Either we are off to a co-op or we're doing some of our other subjects 00:02:17.433 --> 00:02:20.144 - that we do at home. - It's fun being the youngest, 00:02:20.270 --> 00:02:23.106 because I get to spend more time with my mom. 00:02:26.276 --> 00:02:27.318 - Hey, babe. - Hi, Dad. 00:02:27.527 --> 00:02:28.653 Hey, what's going on? 00:02:28.736 --> 00:02:30.613 - How was your day? - It was good. How was yours? 00:02:30.738 --> 00:02:32.865 - Good. - I run my own security business. 00:02:33.032 --> 00:02:34.617 So some weeks I spend here, 00:02:34.784 --> 00:02:37.203 some weeks I spend back at the office in Greenville. 00:02:37.370 --> 00:02:41.082 I spend a lot of time on the phone with vendors and customers, 00:02:41.165 --> 00:02:43.960 trying to get the operation side of the business flowing smoothly. 00:02:44.043 --> 00:02:48.047 I always wish there was more hours in the day that I could have for family, 00:02:48.131 --> 00:02:49.507 and to get all the things done. 00:02:49.674 --> 00:02:52.635 I've got to make a few calls and answer some emails. I'll be back. 00:02:52.760 --> 00:02:54.053 -All right. -All right. 00:02:54.470 --> 00:02:58.266 You remember how you were saying that we haven't been to that one museum? 00:02:58.474 --> 00:03:00.393 - Yeah. - I think we should... 00:03:00.560 --> 00:03:02.103 -Hey. -Hey. I'm off to work. 00:03:02.270 --> 00:03:04.022 Okay. I'll see you later. 00:03:04.147 --> 00:03:05.690 - Later. - All right. There'll be food for you 00:03:05.773 --> 00:03:07.358 - in the fridge when you get home. - All right. 00:03:07.775 --> 00:03:12.613 My days are pretty crazy. I go to work, and come home once everybody's asleep. 00:03:12.905 --> 00:03:15.491 So, I don't get to spend much time with anybody 00:03:15.700 --> 00:03:18.453 except for my coworkers, and that's kind of rough. 00:03:18.619 --> 00:03:20.997 So I'm pretty excited to see what you guys have planned for us. 00:03:21.205 --> 00:03:23.916 - Was it hard doing kayaking? - Yeah, it was. 00:03:24.000 --> 00:03:25.710 -Hey, Mom. -Yeah, babe? 00:03:25.835 --> 00:03:27.795 I'm gonna go ride my bike around with my friends. 00:03:27.879 --> 00:03:29.672 -Okay. I'll see ya later. -All right. 00:03:29.797 --> 00:03:31.591 Hey, there'll be a plate in the fridge for you 00:03:31.674 --> 00:03:34.218 - when you get home. Love you. - Okay. Love you, bye. 00:03:36.137 --> 00:03:38.598 So, because of their age difference, 00:03:38.681 --> 00:03:41.350 it's hard to get everybody to want to do the same thing. 00:03:41.559 --> 00:03:44.437 We kind of have different interests and schedules. 00:03:44.562 --> 00:03:46.397 I think we have a very close family, 00:03:46.481 --> 00:03:48.983 but we're very busy, and the boys, they're all kind of 00:03:49.108 --> 00:03:50.860 in different stages and doing different things. 00:03:53.529 --> 00:03:57.533 I called Family Reboot because we love adventure. Why not? 00:03:57.784 --> 00:04:01.162 But we never get to do things, the five of us, so it's gonna be awesome. 00:04:01.287 --> 00:04:02.789 I'm a little nervous. 00:04:02.997 --> 00:04:05.750 I'm not super excited to leave my phone behind. 00:04:08.294 --> 00:04:10.713 It's gonna be little strange, not having a phone on my hip. 00:04:10.797 --> 00:04:14.342 I can't imagine the business not calling you. 00:04:14.425 --> 00:04:17.512 It will be strange. It might... it might end up being a little bit nice. 00:04:18.137 --> 00:04:21.098 I figured, you know, we're in a crazy time in our life, 00:04:21.349 --> 00:04:23.768 and this would force us to get back 00:04:23.851 --> 00:04:27.021 to doing something all together instead of separately. 00:04:27.271 --> 00:04:30.191 The boys, like, do you think they're gonna do okay? 00:04:30.858 --> 00:04:33.486 They might lose their mind. We'll see. 00:04:40.201 --> 00:04:41.869 Slowly drive away. 00:04:49.919 --> 00:04:51.504 Where do you guys think we're going? 00:04:51.587 --> 00:04:53.130 -I think it's zip-lining. -Zip-lining. 00:04:53.297 --> 00:04:55.383 -Maybe a cabin. -A cabin in the woods? 00:04:57.510 --> 00:04:59.387 -Okay, we have a map. -All right. What's up? 00:04:59.595 --> 00:05:00.846 We have directions. 00:05:00.930 --> 00:05:03.349 So, this is a little different than we're used to. 00:05:03.474 --> 00:05:06.269 -This is, like, old school. -Getting lost would probably be 00:05:06.352 --> 00:05:10.022 -a little bit scarier than normal. -Technology has come a long way. 00:05:11.148 --> 00:05:14.110 I had no idea where we were going this morning when we left, 00:05:14.318 --> 00:05:16.153 but I was ready for the adventure. 00:05:16.279 --> 00:05:21.701 How long has it been since we all went somewhere together together? 00:05:21.784 --> 00:05:23.369 - The last time was the cruise, wasn't it? - You were... 00:05:23.452 --> 00:05:24.453 -Yeah. -Yeah. 00:05:24.578 --> 00:05:27.832 -That was two Christmases ago. -Yeah. Gosh, it's been so long. 00:05:28.833 --> 00:05:32.003 - This is very remote. - Yeah, a little bit. 00:05:32.086 --> 00:05:33.587 We're going off the grid. 00:05:33.963 --> 00:05:36.549 The drive in was kind of mysterious. 00:05:36.632 --> 00:05:39.927 It was full of what-ifs and what's gonna happen. 00:05:40.511 --> 00:05:43.973 - What a cute house. - Wow! 00:05:44.181 --> 00:05:48.311 Look at all the moss. This is really cute. 00:05:50.438 --> 00:05:53.232 - What do you think? Are you excited? - Yes. 00:05:53.774 --> 00:05:56.027 - We're here. It's locked. - Here there'd be a key. 00:05:56.193 --> 00:05:57.862 - Oh, we've got to... - Is there a secret key? 00:05:57.945 --> 00:05:59.905 - It's under those... - Look under the floor mat. 00:06:00.364 --> 00:06:05.161 I thought the key was underneath the doormat, but it wasn't there. 00:06:05.411 --> 00:06:07.288 It's under the duck. It's got to be. 00:06:07.705 --> 00:06:08.706 Nope! 00:06:08.789 --> 00:06:11.625 I was expecting to just open the door and walk right on in, 00:06:11.751 --> 00:06:12.752 and that didn't happen. 00:06:13.586 --> 00:06:15.254 - This is crazy! - What's going on, Marin fam? 00:06:15.379 --> 00:06:16.839 -How are you? -Hey. 00:06:16.964 --> 00:06:19.592 My name is Arel. I'm gonna be your reboot guide. 00:06:19.967 --> 00:06:23.471 I'm Arel Moodie. I'm a motivational speaker and life coach 00:06:23.763 --> 00:06:26.724 specializing in creating positive dynamics within families. 00:06:27.183 --> 00:06:29.393 This adventure is all about you having fun, 00:06:29.727 --> 00:06:33.773 connecting, and having quality time with the people you love the most. 00:06:33.981 --> 00:06:36.400 But the first thing we have to do is get you into the house. 00:06:37.068 --> 00:06:38.861 And you've got to get that key. 00:06:39.195 --> 00:06:42.198 So we're gonna go on to our first activity where you'll figure out 00:06:42.281 --> 00:06:44.450 how to unlock your way into this beautiful home. 00:06:44.575 --> 00:06:46.285 - All right. - All right, come follow me. 00:06:47.787 --> 00:06:49.163 Here we go, another adventure. 00:06:49.330 --> 00:06:51.207 Which... we're always down for adventure, aren't we? 00:06:51.290 --> 00:06:52.374 -Absolutely. -Yeah. 00:06:55.419 --> 00:06:59.089 The whole point of this activity is for all of you to be together. 00:06:59.465 --> 00:07:03.177 So much, in fact, that you're not allowed to let go of each other 00:07:03.344 --> 00:07:05.054 - through the whole activity. - Oh, my gosh. 00:07:08.933 --> 00:07:11.560 So, here's how the game is gonna work. At each plate, 00:07:11.644 --> 00:07:14.647 you're gonna pick up a new hula hoop, and you're gonna hold each other's hands, 00:07:14.814 --> 00:07:19.068 pass the hula hoop through from the first person to the last person, 00:07:19.318 --> 00:07:21.403 and keep moving while you do it. 00:07:21.487 --> 00:07:24.198 But at third base, the goal's to get all the hula hoops 00:07:24.406 --> 00:07:27.701 back from the last person to the first person, 00:07:27.868 --> 00:07:31.664 and then get home so we can unlock the next step in this adventure. 00:07:32.498 --> 00:07:35.209 So, you know, when you play baseball, you just don't run around the bases 00:07:35.292 --> 00:07:36.293 without your head protected, 00:07:36.418 --> 00:07:39.046 so we have some hats-slash-helmets for you. 00:07:39.421 --> 00:07:41.757 You want to keep those hats on the whole time. 00:07:41.882 --> 00:07:43.092 Oh, my goodness. 00:07:43.175 --> 00:07:45.386 All right, so, put them on and head over to home plate. 00:07:45.719 --> 00:07:46.720 How y'all feeling? 00:07:46.804 --> 00:07:47.805 - Feel good. - Stylish. 00:07:47.888 --> 00:07:49.974 The most comfortable hat I've ever wore. 00:07:50.140 --> 00:07:54.979 The funniest person in the baseball hat was probably my dad. 00:07:55.229 --> 00:07:59.942 Seeing my dad in the hat was pretty funny, 'cause he's such a big dude. 00:08:00.484 --> 00:08:02.278 We probably need to go in height order. 00:08:02.361 --> 00:08:04.196 - Height order, okay. - Because if not, there's gonna be an 00:08:04.280 --> 00:08:05.406 -awkwardness of passing it. -All right. 00:08:05.489 --> 00:08:06.991 - Go stand next to dad. - So, start with little. 00:08:07.116 --> 00:08:08.200 You're first. 00:08:08.284 --> 00:08:10.494 - You're first. - Why do I have to be first? 00:08:10.786 --> 00:08:12.204 You're going to lead the show, kid. 00:08:12.663 --> 00:08:18.127 Here we go! Let's get started. One, two, three, go! 00:08:18.460 --> 00:08:19.503 -Come on, keep it moving! -Keep going. 00:08:19.587 --> 00:08:20.546 Step on the base. 00:08:20.713 --> 00:08:22.464 - Keep moving, keep moving. - Keep stepping. 00:08:22.548 --> 00:08:24.508 He's helping you. What a sweet boy. 00:08:24.633 --> 00:08:26.719 - Go under. - There you go. Keep it moving. 00:08:26.802 --> 00:08:28.053 You control the pace, Griff. 00:08:28.137 --> 00:08:29.597 - There you go. - Don't forget the base. 00:08:29.680 --> 00:08:31.223 - Oh, no! - Oh, guys, don't let his hat fall! 00:08:31.390 --> 00:08:33.142 -Help him out there! Oh. -I'm fine. I'm fine. 00:08:33.267 --> 00:08:34.268 Y'all keep moving. 00:08:34.351 --> 00:08:36.603 The hula hoop challenge was definitely very hectic. 00:08:36.687 --> 00:08:38.981 I'm used to figuring my own things out 00:08:39.273 --> 00:08:42.359 versus it being a jumbled mess of people. 00:08:42.526 --> 00:08:43.861 - I'm trying. I got it. - Great job. 00:08:44.111 --> 00:08:47.072 But I feel like my family definitely makes a great team. 00:08:47.281 --> 00:08:48.198 Now, you gotta get that... 00:08:48.365 --> 00:08:50.534 All of those hula-hoops back before you get to home plate. 00:08:50.617 --> 00:08:51.869 - Oh, wait! - All in one. 00:08:51.952 --> 00:08:53.495 - All right. Ready? - How you gonna do it? 00:08:53.620 --> 00:08:55.748 - Don't move. We're still moving. - There we go. Keep it moving. 00:08:55.831 --> 00:08:57.166 -Don't stop. There you go. -We're still moving. 00:08:57.249 --> 00:08:58.584 -Keep moving, keep moving. -Go, go, go. 00:08:58.667 --> 00:08:59.877 -Keep moving. -Before we get to the base. 00:08:59.960 --> 00:09:01.420 -There you go, Dad. -Keep moving. 00:09:01.503 --> 00:09:03.589 - All right, get on home now... - Home plate! 00:09:05.549 --> 00:09:06.550 There we go! 00:09:06.633 --> 00:09:07.926 -Give each other some love. -Yes! 00:09:08.052 --> 00:09:10.262 High fives and chest bumps all around. 00:09:10.429 --> 00:09:12.681 Good job, kiddo. 00:09:13.098 --> 00:09:16.643 That was awesome! Congratulations! You worked as a team, 00:09:16.727 --> 00:09:19.938 you figured out how to move together, but most importantly, 00:09:20.064 --> 00:09:22.775 you stayed together. So, if you actually look under home plate... 00:09:22.858 --> 00:09:24.610 - Tyler. - ...you'll find your key. 00:09:24.985 --> 00:09:28.864 And that key lets you get into the house, so go head on inside. 00:09:29.114 --> 00:09:31.784 Great job, y'all! Enjoy the house. I'll see you later. 00:09:31.867 --> 00:09:33.327 - Thank you. - Thank you. 00:09:34.286 --> 00:09:37.372 Wearing some sort of costume-y thing and playing games, 00:09:37.581 --> 00:09:39.708 really, we haven't done that kind of stuff in a long time. 00:09:40.334 --> 00:09:43.378 I'm gonna have to research how to get some of those baseball hats. 00:09:43.587 --> 00:09:46.715 I think I could see all of us at some point 00:09:46.840 --> 00:09:49.718 - wearing them again. - I want one. 00:09:52.096 --> 00:09:53.180 There we go. 00:09:53.597 --> 00:09:55.015 -Wow. -Ooh, nice. 00:09:55.307 --> 00:09:57.976 - Wow. What do you think? - How pretty! 00:09:58.102 --> 00:09:59.353 - Wow. - Fireplace. 00:09:59.520 --> 00:10:01.355 Okay, what do you notice missing? 00:10:02.106 --> 00:10:03.774 -No TV. -No TV. 00:10:04.274 --> 00:10:07.903 Oh, look at the floors. These are, like, original floors, right? 00:10:07.986 --> 00:10:09.571 Look, you can see the creek from here. 00:10:09.738 --> 00:10:11.782 - You can see the river? - Look at the view. 00:10:11.907 --> 00:10:16.078 We can have dinner, hang out. This'll be awesome. 00:10:17.704 --> 00:10:19.998 I really appreciate you joining me on this journey. 00:10:20.249 --> 00:10:23.794 One of the things that I was noticing is that you got a great age kind of gap... 00:10:23.961 --> 00:10:25.170 - Oh, yeah. - ...between the kids. 00:10:25.254 --> 00:10:27.464 From youngest to the oldest, there's eight years. 00:10:27.881 --> 00:10:30.634 So, finding things that they all relate to is... 00:10:30.759 --> 00:10:31.760 is a challenge. 00:10:32.219 --> 00:10:34.596 And a lot of times, Tyler, being 18, isn't even around anymore. 00:10:34.721 --> 00:10:36.598 -So, then it's like... -Starting to spread his wings a little. 00:10:36.765 --> 00:10:39.434 Yeah, we're missing a member of the family sometimes. 00:10:39.852 --> 00:10:41.311 -A lot of times. -A lot of times. 00:10:41.395 --> 00:10:42.396 - 'Cause he works a lot. - Yeah. 00:10:42.688 --> 00:10:44.439 I mean, Tyler graduated school a year early, 00:10:44.565 --> 00:10:46.984 taking a year off of school and trying to figure out what he wants to do. 00:10:47.067 --> 00:10:48.777 I mean, we're proud of him for everything he's doing. 00:10:48.902 --> 00:10:51.822 One of the things that a lot of people can miss, 00:10:51.989 --> 00:10:54.533 and I don't think your family misses at all, which is great, 00:10:54.616 --> 00:10:56.326 is that everyone can play a different role. 00:10:56.493 --> 00:10:59.246 So it's not about the activity being fun, 00:10:59.413 --> 00:11:01.623 it's about how do I find fun within the activity. 00:11:02.082 --> 00:11:05.168 What do you want to make sure that no matter how old they get, 00:11:05.294 --> 00:11:07.921 no matter where they go, no matter how busy you are, 00:11:08.088 --> 00:11:10.591 this is what our dynamic is always going to be like? 00:11:11.049 --> 00:11:14.970 We will be there for each other, no matter what. We are home base, 00:11:15.178 --> 00:11:17.014 -much like the game we played. -I see what you did there. 00:11:17.097 --> 00:11:18.015 Yeah, right? 00:11:18.098 --> 00:11:20.642 So, we want to continue this beautiful connection, 00:11:20.726 --> 00:11:22.603 this, "No matter what happens in the world, 00:11:22.686 --> 00:11:24.896 "we got each other's back." And this whole week 00:11:24.980 --> 00:11:27.816 is about just forgetting all the outside distractions and focusing 00:11:27.899 --> 00:11:30.152 on what matters most, which is family and love. 00:11:30.485 --> 00:11:32.279 - Yeah. - So I'm looking forward to this week. 00:11:32.571 --> 00:11:35.240 Enjoy the evening and have some fun, get some rest, 00:11:35.365 --> 00:11:36.783 'cause we got a lot of cool things planned. 00:11:36.908 --> 00:11:38.160 -Absolutely. -Cool. Thank you. 00:11:44.958 --> 00:11:48.337 Marin fam! Marin fam! 00:11:48.670 --> 00:11:50.714 What's going on, family? How are you feeling? 00:11:50.797 --> 00:11:52.215 - Hey. - Feeling good. 00:11:52.299 --> 00:11:53.967 When I was speaking with Becki and Shawn, 00:11:54.051 --> 00:11:55.636 they told me one of the challenging things 00:11:55.802 --> 00:11:58.055 is just finding activities that all the boys love. 00:11:58.305 --> 00:11:59.973 These boys love being active, 00:12:00.098 --> 00:12:03.810 so I thought it would be really fun to position a Slip 'N Slide 00:12:03.977 --> 00:12:07.147 in a really unique way that will push them outside their comfort zones 00:12:07.272 --> 00:12:10.984 but still let them have fun together, regardless of their ages. 00:12:14.821 --> 00:12:17.449 Now, as you can see, we have a wonderful Slip 'N Slide here, 00:12:17.783 --> 00:12:19.993 and we've got some fantastic bowling pins. 00:12:20.077 --> 00:12:22.621 Now, you might notice there is no bowling ball. 00:12:22.871 --> 00:12:24.706 That's because if you look next to each other, 00:12:25.457 --> 00:12:27.542 - you're gonna be the bowling ball. - Yeah. 00:12:27.709 --> 00:12:30.170 I did not expect to be a bowling ball today. 00:12:31.546 --> 00:12:33.423 So, you know how when you go bowling, you have one frame 00:12:33.507 --> 00:12:36.385 and you throw two balls each frame. We're gonna give you 15 frames. 00:12:36.593 --> 00:12:40.347 The highest score you can get is 90. That's knocking them all down 00:12:40.639 --> 00:12:44.893 every single time. I want to see how many points you can get 00:12:45.102 --> 00:12:47.104 as a family together. 00:12:50.107 --> 00:12:51.483 -I'm ready. -Let's get started. 00:12:51.900 --> 00:12:54.403 -One, two, three, let's go... -Go, Ryan, go! 00:12:54.486 --> 00:12:56.238 - Whoo! - Oh. 00:12:56.696 --> 00:12:59.157 - Oh, yeah! - There we go. 00:13:01.493 --> 00:13:02.911 - All right. - Let's go, Dad! 00:13:03.120 --> 00:13:04.579 Whoo! 00:13:05.956 --> 00:13:07.332 Yay! 00:13:07.582 --> 00:13:09.167 - That's how it's done. - You've got to jump! 00:13:09.251 --> 00:13:10.752 - I have to jump? - You've got to dive. 00:13:11.002 --> 00:13:13.505 Okay, this is the most terrifying thing of my life right now. 00:13:13.839 --> 00:13:15.507 Come on. Everyone cheer on Mommy. 00:13:15.590 --> 00:13:17.634 - Get it, get it, get it. - Keep going. 00:13:18.927 --> 00:13:20.262 All right. 00:13:20.428 --> 00:13:23.390 It's really amazing to watch everybody 00:13:23.473 --> 00:13:25.809 really get into cheering each other on... 00:13:25.934 --> 00:13:28.687 Tyler! Tyler! Tyler! 00:13:28.937 --> 00:13:31.565 ...and being competitive, and... and just having a great time. 00:13:33.817 --> 00:13:35.861 That's a victory walk right there. 00:13:39.072 --> 00:13:43.952 - Go, Griffin! Oh, keep going. Keep... - All right, we get a do-over. 00:13:44.035 --> 00:13:45.370 Get a do-over, that's a mulligan. 00:13:45.620 --> 00:13:48.039 All right. I need to try that again. 00:13:48.248 --> 00:13:49.374 - Full speed. - And... 00:13:49.583 --> 00:13:51.126 you can get a little on the tarp, babe. 00:13:51.334 --> 00:13:53.086 -All right, you ready? -Griffin, just jump. 00:13:53.253 --> 00:13:55.338 Don't... don't, like, get down on your knees and go. 00:13:55.422 --> 00:13:57.424 Just jump, just jump onto it. 00:13:58.008 --> 00:13:59.509 -Let's go, Griff! -Go, Griff! 00:13:59.593 --> 00:14:02.012 Let's go, Griff! Let's go, Griff! 00:14:02.095 --> 00:14:03.346 - Go, Griff! - Yeah! 00:14:05.056 --> 00:14:08.143 Yeah! Yes! That's my boy! 00:14:08.435 --> 00:14:12.731 The main part of being a big brother is to show them the right from the wrong. 00:14:12.981 --> 00:14:15.901 So, being able to teach him, and guide him, and help him, 00:14:16.151 --> 00:14:19.863 especially as a family all together, is really cool. 00:14:20.196 --> 00:14:21.239 Whoo! 00:14:21.615 --> 00:14:23.992 -Go, Mom! -Whoo! 00:14:24.075 --> 00:14:26.536 What I really loved about the way the family interacted 00:14:26.661 --> 00:14:29.831 with this particular activity is they just threw themselves into it. 00:14:29.915 --> 00:14:31.416 Go! Whoo! 00:14:33.251 --> 00:14:36.171 Each one of the boys is learning that they can have new roles 00:14:36.254 --> 00:14:38.298 in everyday activities within their families. 00:14:38.548 --> 00:14:40.842 No matter how old or how young you were, 00:14:41.092 --> 00:14:43.345 you could have fun in a simple, awesome activity. 00:14:43.511 --> 00:14:45.597 -Come on! Go, Ty! -Whoo! Go, Ty! 00:14:46.014 --> 00:14:47.515 - Oh, yeah. Right down the middle. - Yes! 00:14:51.895 --> 00:14:56.066 That was amazing! Congratulations! I loved seeing the smiles on your faces. 00:14:56.358 --> 00:15:00.236 It didn't matter the age, you figured out how to have fun together. 00:15:00.612 --> 00:15:02.572 -All right, so, you ready for your score? -Ready, cap. 00:15:02.697 --> 00:15:03.907 Out of a possible 90, 00:15:04.282 --> 00:15:07.160 you were able to come together and figure out how to make it to... 00:15:07.786 --> 00:15:09.537 seventy-eight. Congratulations! 00:15:09.621 --> 00:15:11.247 - That's what I am talking about. - Team Marin. 00:15:11.331 --> 00:15:14.417 So, I think we kind of got that we are all on a team. 00:15:15.001 --> 00:15:16.419 So it taught us something important 00:15:16.503 --> 00:15:18.338 that we probably didn't really have before. 00:15:18.463 --> 00:15:21.800 It felt amazing to see my family helping me. 00:15:22.592 --> 00:15:24.719 Go dry off, and I'll see you for our next adventure. 00:15:25.303 --> 00:15:26.846 Okay, all right. Let's go, boys. 00:15:26.930 --> 00:15:28.223 -Good job. -Nice job. 00:15:28.348 --> 00:15:29.349 Ow! 00:15:29.516 --> 00:15:31.810 - Does everyone have to hit me? - That was awesome. 00:15:35.480 --> 00:15:38.733 I wanna go fishing while we're here. I haven't gone fishing in a while. 00:15:43.947 --> 00:15:46.908 Look at your friend up there. The seagull is checking you out. 00:15:48.201 --> 00:15:49.244 There's three of them. 00:15:49.661 --> 00:15:50.662 You have to come closer. 00:15:52.539 --> 00:15:53.998 Weirdo. 00:15:56.042 --> 00:15:59.421 There we go. This is the sunset I've been waiting for all night. 00:16:07.470 --> 00:16:08.888 Griff, you wanna reel this one in? 00:16:09.013 --> 00:16:11.474 - Um... - Come on. Grab this one. 00:16:13.184 --> 00:16:14.227 And then just... 00:16:14.310 --> 00:16:19.190 Just slowly reel it in, nice and slow. And just see if we can catch anything. 00:16:19.524 --> 00:16:21.985 It was fun teaching Griffin how to cast a line. 00:16:22.152 --> 00:16:24.946 It's something I think I've taught all of them at one point in time, 00:16:25.363 --> 00:16:27.991 and he's the youngest one, so I think it was his turn. 00:16:28.408 --> 00:16:31.119 And it's special any time I get a chance to spend the day 00:16:31.202 --> 00:16:32.495 with all the boys. 00:16:32.704 --> 00:16:35.540 -We caught a crab. -Oh, awesome! Look at that. 00:16:36.332 --> 00:16:39.586 Being by the water is super nice because we just went fishing. 00:16:39.711 --> 00:16:41.671 - Let him go, let him go. - Yeah, let him go. 00:16:41.921 --> 00:16:44.924 It was... It was a little bit challenging, but it was fun overall. 00:16:45.091 --> 00:16:47.218 They caught a crab. We need to catch something better. 00:16:47.385 --> 00:16:50.305 - Yeah, we need to catch a fish. - We need a fish or a ray. 00:16:50.763 --> 00:16:53.474 The most exciting thing that's happened so far is 00:16:54.058 --> 00:16:57.520 us all getting to, like, go to the backyard and onto the dock. 00:16:57.729 --> 00:17:03.234 and fish, and hang out, and just have fun together. 00:17:03.484 --> 00:17:05.570 -You guys getting hungry? -Yeah, I'm ready for lunch. 00:17:05.653 --> 00:17:07.530 All right. Let's head back to the house and grab some lunch. 00:17:07.614 --> 00:17:08.615 All right. 00:17:09.032 --> 00:17:11.826 I'm glad we got to do that. I hope we get to do this again soon. 00:17:11.951 --> 00:17:12.994 Yeah. 00:17:19.626 --> 00:17:24.797 -All right, come on in, Marin family. -What is with the giant cupcake? 00:17:25.298 --> 00:17:26.382 Why? 00:17:30.136 --> 00:17:32.722 So, let me explain what's gonna go down in this next activity. 00:17:32.805 --> 00:17:34.974 All of you are in line, and each one of your lines 00:17:35.099 --> 00:17:38.478 has a specific color. One at a time, you're gonna come up 00:17:38.770 --> 00:17:44.067 and grab one sprinkle and throw it to the person's color. 00:17:44.233 --> 00:17:45.735 So, if you pick up a blue one, 00:17:45.902 --> 00:17:47.612 you throw it to the blue side. If you pick up a purple one, 00:17:47.737 --> 00:17:49.781 you throw it to the purple. Your job is to catch it 00:17:49.948 --> 00:17:52.033 and put it into the pan behind you. 00:17:52.200 --> 00:17:55.286 So, your goal is to fill your pan 00:17:55.370 --> 00:17:58.081 with all of these sprinkles. And just for fun, 00:17:58.206 --> 00:18:01.960 you have to get all the sprinkles off in less than five minutes. 00:18:02.043 --> 00:18:03.002 Mm-hmm. 00:18:03.127 --> 00:18:05.505 You got to work as a team, and you got to work quickly. 00:18:09.384 --> 00:18:10.510 All right, here we go. 00:18:10.885 --> 00:18:13.763 -One, two, three, let's go! -Yeah! 00:18:13.930 --> 00:18:14.931 Whoo! 00:18:17.058 --> 00:18:18.559 - There we go. - Got it! Okay. 00:18:18.643 --> 00:18:20.561 - Mom, you're up. - We're on the clock. Run. 00:18:20.645 --> 00:18:22.021 Sorry, sorry. 00:18:22.939 --> 00:18:24.649 - Got you. - There you go. 00:18:26.776 --> 00:18:27.777 - Dude! - Gentle. 00:18:28.194 --> 00:18:29.862 I mean, just trying to hurry up. 00:18:30.488 --> 00:18:32.115 Probably should have thrown it a little bit lighter. 00:18:32.281 --> 00:18:33.282 Here we go. 00:18:34.742 --> 00:18:38.663 This activity really only works if they work together. 00:18:38.830 --> 00:18:39.831 I go. You, back. 00:18:39.914 --> 00:18:41.499 - Come back, back! - Oh, oh! Oh, oh, oh! 00:18:41.833 --> 00:18:43.876 When they first started, they were individuals 00:18:44.001 --> 00:18:45.545 - playing within a team... - Come on, guys! 00:18:45.753 --> 00:18:47.130 -There you go. -There we go. 00:18:47.296 --> 00:18:49.340 - You're up, buddy. Go, Griff. - Go, Griff, go! 00:18:50.800 --> 00:18:52.844 - Yeah, yeah, you got it, Griffin. - Who's red? 00:18:52.969 --> 00:18:54.137 - I am, buddy. - Got it. 00:18:54.929 --> 00:18:55.972 Yeah. 00:18:56.723 --> 00:19:00.727 But as the activity developed, they became team members working together. 00:19:00.977 --> 00:19:02.186 All right, all the reds are done. 00:19:02.770 --> 00:19:03.855 Yellow. 00:19:04.313 --> 00:19:05.356 Good throw. 00:19:05.857 --> 00:19:08.443 They came up with strategies, they were cheering each other on... 00:19:08.609 --> 00:19:09.861 - Purple. - Let's go, Ryan. 00:19:09.944 --> 00:19:12.488 - Easy. - Ooh, one hand. 00:19:12.655 --> 00:19:14.323 ...they were communicating, and that's why 00:19:14.407 --> 00:19:16.117 they were able to be so successful with this. 00:19:16.576 --> 00:19:19.162 - There you go. - Ooh, there we go! 00:19:19.579 --> 00:19:21.038 Fifteen seconds starts now. 00:19:21.164 --> 00:19:23.749 Here you go. Give it a soft toss. Soft toss. 00:19:25.793 --> 00:19:28.504 - The war of cupcakes. - So, it was pretty fun. 00:19:28.629 --> 00:19:30.631 Our family learned how to make plans, 00:19:30.840 --> 00:19:34.260 how to guide, how to lead and follow. It was an experience. 00:19:34.802 --> 00:19:35.887 Good job. Back up. Back up. 00:19:35.970 --> 00:19:37.388 You got one more, one more. There's one more. 00:19:37.472 --> 00:19:39.932 We're so close. Come on, guys. Come on, Daddy, go! 00:19:40.391 --> 00:19:41.601 - Oh! - That's it! 00:19:41.767 --> 00:19:45.104 - You did it! Congratulations! - Yes! Come on, come on. Up high, 00:19:45.396 --> 00:19:47.148 up high. 00:19:48.691 --> 00:19:49.775 -Up high, I did it. -You're blue. 00:19:49.901 --> 00:19:50.902 Whoo! 00:19:51.027 --> 00:19:53.821 We were all covered. Some of us more than others. 00:19:53.946 --> 00:19:57.783 Yes. I think least covered is probably me, because I didn't miss many of them. 00:19:57.867 --> 00:19:59.493 -I think I caught them all. -Yeah. 00:20:00.369 --> 00:20:01.996 That was absolutely amazing. 00:20:02.121 --> 00:20:05.374 I love the way you were working together. I like the systems you were coming up with 00:20:05.458 --> 00:20:08.336 and figuring out how to get better, figuring out the toss velocity. 00:20:08.461 --> 00:20:09.879 That was absolutely amazing. 00:20:10.046 --> 00:20:12.924 This week showed us how well we work together as a family. 00:20:13.007 --> 00:20:15.551 Even though we're so far apart in age, 00:20:16.052 --> 00:20:20.556 we found out that we can still do things together and have fun with it. 00:20:20.723 --> 00:20:23.809 It was really fun spending time with my big brothers this week. 00:20:23.976 --> 00:20:27.563 Hopefully it was not as vigorous as baking in your own kitchen. 00:20:27.647 --> 00:20:28.731 I'm not normally out of breath 00:20:28.814 --> 00:20:30.274 when I'm baking in the kitchen. 00:20:30.399 --> 00:20:36.364 Time flies. So, this week we've learned to slow down and make time for activities. 00:20:36.822 --> 00:20:37.865 Yeah. 00:20:38.241 --> 00:20:42.203 You can just do something so simple and have so much fun together. 00:20:42.286 --> 00:20:46.582 It didn't matter the age, it just was easy for all of us to get into it. 00:20:47.500 --> 00:20:50.711 This week has taught me that I need to spend more time 00:20:51.003 --> 00:20:53.756 with the people that I have at home and the people that I love. 00:20:54.298 --> 00:20:57.343 You are covered in blue chalk. Am I as bad as you are? 00:20:57.468 --> 00:20:59.929 Yep. 00:21:06.978 --> 00:21:08.437 We should do this again, actually. 00:21:08.521 --> 00:21:09.647 -That was fun. -That was really fun. 00:21:09.730 --> 00:21:11.023 Slip 'N Slide bowling. 00:21:11.190 --> 00:21:15.277 Eight weeks ago, we were really scattered. Everybody was in different directions. 00:21:15.528 --> 00:21:19.657 Now I feel like we're more connected, and when we're struggling, 00:21:20.282 --> 00:21:24.120 because our days do get chaotic, we find ways to reconnect. 00:21:24.286 --> 00:21:26.580 Oh, my gosh! Do you guys remember this? 00:21:26.664 --> 00:21:28.374 - That was cool. - I think it's pretty obvious 00:21:28.541 --> 00:21:30.334 -what color I am. -Well, you were definitely blue, 00:21:30.418 --> 00:21:32.003 'cause you got blue all over your apron. 00:21:32.086 --> 00:21:34.088 Oh, my gosh. You had blue up your nose. 00:21:34.422 --> 00:21:38.592 Since the Family Reboot journey, I have taken a little bit more time 00:21:38.676 --> 00:21:42.722 out of each day to spend some time with Ryan and Griffin. 00:21:42.888 --> 00:21:45.182 I ended up with colors everywhere. That was a fun time. 00:21:45.307 --> 00:21:48.644 We've decided that it doesn't have to be anything major or big, 00:21:48.811 --> 00:21:52.106 that spending time together, even as simple as just playing kickball 00:21:52.189 --> 00:21:55.693 in the backyard, just brings everyone together and we have a good time. 00:21:56.068 --> 00:21:59.572 Speaking of which, uh, we were in the middle of a kickball game. 00:21:59.739 --> 00:22:01.198 I think it was my turn to pitch. 00:22:01.323 --> 00:22:02.908 - Let's do it. - All right, let's do it.