WEBVTT 00:00:01.131 --> 00:00:04.008 - Tell me where we have to go. - Wait. This is just a map. 00:00:05.677 --> 00:00:08.638 As a family, we are spinning wheels in different directions. 00:00:10.598 --> 00:00:13.184 I hope to get closer on this trip as a family. 00:00:13.810 --> 00:00:14.978 How do I look? 00:00:15.603 --> 00:00:16.980 We're getting there! 00:00:23.945 --> 00:00:26.114 So, we got all these pictures. Hey, Emma. 00:00:26.239 --> 00:00:27.532 So, are we gonna cut these, while... 00:00:27.615 --> 00:00:29.534 -Yep. Glue it on. -Do you have, like, markers, Mom? 00:00:30.034 --> 00:00:32.829 Yes. Yes, this is classic. 00:00:34.956 --> 00:00:37.041 Let me get that, guys. I'll get it. I'll get it. 00:00:37.208 --> 00:00:38.918 Hi, we're the Barker family. 00:00:39.127 --> 00:00:41.838 -Hi, I'm Dave, and I'm Dad. -I'm Lisa, and I'm Mom. 00:00:42.046 --> 00:00:45.675 -I'm Emma, and I'm 13 years old. -I'm Lola, and I'm 11 years old. 00:00:46.009 --> 00:00:49.012 Guys, look. We got something in the mail from Family Reboot. 00:00:49.137 --> 00:00:50.138 -Come look at it. -What? 00:00:50.221 --> 00:00:51.598 Come, look. Come, come, come. 00:00:52.056 --> 00:00:54.642 -All right, here. Ready? -Open the box already. Get on with it. 00:00:55.268 --> 00:00:58.396 Oh, it's a scrapbook. This is so fun! 00:00:58.730 --> 00:01:00.106 - Open it. - So, open it up. 00:01:00.315 --> 00:01:01.733 Let's see. Let's see. 00:01:01.941 --> 00:01:04.402 Oh, boy. The car ride. 00:01:04.486 --> 00:01:05.987 I remember struggling through that one. 00:01:06.112 --> 00:01:08.323 - Man, look at my face. - Yeah. 00:01:08.907 --> 00:01:10.658 I feel like we've come a long way since then, 00:01:10.742 --> 00:01:12.410 and it only was a couple of months ago. 00:01:12.577 --> 00:01:14.913 - We did great. It made us stronger. - Yeah. 00:01:19.250 --> 00:01:22.545 - Hold on. - Nice! 00:01:25.673 --> 00:01:27.717 The Barker family is really busy. 00:01:27.800 --> 00:01:29.636 We are constantly going from place to place. 00:01:29.802 --> 00:01:30.845 You guys have homework? 00:01:30.929 --> 00:01:31.846 -No. -No. 00:01:31.930 --> 00:01:32.931 No homework? 00:01:33.139 --> 00:01:36.851 I'm very lucky that I have the ability to stay home with the girls. 00:01:37.018 --> 00:01:38.102 Use the spoon, honey. 00:01:38.228 --> 00:01:40.688 With all the people in our family, it's time-consuming. 00:01:40.855 --> 00:01:42.023 I am busy all day long. 00:01:42.190 --> 00:01:44.234 Thank you. Good job. 00:01:44.442 --> 00:01:46.194 It's work, taking care of a family. 00:01:46.861 --> 00:01:51.532 We recently just moved to North Carolina from Pennsylvania for Dave's job. 00:01:51.699 --> 00:01:52.992 - Hello, hello. - Hey, babe! 00:01:53.409 --> 00:01:56.621 I just gotta finish a few things up. So, I'm just gonna fire up real quick. 00:01:57.205 --> 00:02:00.041 Work can be very demanding at times, continuously pulling me away. 00:02:00.250 --> 00:02:03.419 Sometimes it can be very hard to be at home as much as I'd like to be. 00:02:03.962 --> 00:02:06.714 Since we moved, I think everyone's been a little bit more isolated. 00:02:07.257 --> 00:02:09.133 Feels like we're on our own separate island, 00:02:09.342 --> 00:02:11.010 trying to figure out a whole new life. 00:02:11.094 --> 00:02:15.682 I'm always at school, but I also dance in my free time. 00:02:16.849 --> 00:02:21.604 When I moved here, I started karate, and it's really fun, 00:02:21.813 --> 00:02:24.691 and I usually just do that in my free time. 00:02:27.110 --> 00:02:28.778 Can you put that on the table? 00:02:28.945 --> 00:02:30.989 - How was school today, girls? - Pretty good. 00:02:31.197 --> 00:02:32.448 How about you, Lola? What was up? 00:02:32.615 --> 00:02:34.117 What was going on in school today for you, honey? 00:02:34.409 --> 00:02:36.619 The more we establish roots, the busier we get. 00:02:37.161 --> 00:02:39.122 I reached out to Family Reboot 00:02:39.205 --> 00:02:42.792 because it is time for our family to be reset 00:02:42.875 --> 00:02:45.670 and get back to the basics. 00:02:49.590 --> 00:02:51.134 Where do you think they're gonna send us? 00:02:51.300 --> 00:02:53.177 -Somewhere in the state. -Maybe the mountains? 00:02:53.386 --> 00:02:54.679 Course we also have ocean. 00:02:55.138 --> 00:02:56.889 I don't know. See what happens. 00:02:57.015 --> 00:02:59.392 Over the last seven years, we've moved about four times. 00:02:59.892 --> 00:03:01.144 Each opportunity that's come up 00:03:01.227 --> 00:03:04.480 has always been in a different location, which have all been good for our family. 00:03:05.064 --> 00:03:07.692 Every time we move gets a little harder. 00:03:07.859 --> 00:03:10.820 This move has been hard on mine and Emma's relationship. 00:03:10.987 --> 00:03:13.364 I'm excited about this upcoming journey. 00:03:13.448 --> 00:03:15.700 I feel like this week will bring us closer together. 00:03:16.242 --> 00:03:19.287 I'm excited for this trip, but I don't know what to expect. 00:03:19.370 --> 00:03:22.206 Like, my mom and I were close when I was younger, 00:03:22.498 --> 00:03:25.418 and we don't spend as much time together as we used to. 00:03:25.918 --> 00:03:29.130 I'm looking forward to unplugging and spending time with my mom. 00:03:30.047 --> 00:03:31.591 - Put it in. - Let's go, girls. 00:03:31.716 --> 00:03:33.551 -Okay. -It's a whole week, though, without it. 00:03:33.801 --> 00:03:35.553 -All right, it's part of the adventure. -Yeah. 00:03:37.305 --> 00:03:39.724 - It's gonna be fun. Let's go. - Adventure begins. 00:03:39.807 --> 00:03:40.892 Yay! 00:03:41.184 --> 00:03:43.644 - Oh, my gosh. Great. A map. - Look, it says, "Map." 00:03:43.853 --> 00:03:46.147 I don't know if your mom and I even know how to read a map anymore. 00:03:46.647 --> 00:03:47.690 -Whoa. -Whoa. 00:03:48.399 --> 00:03:50.568 - And we're off. - Let's go. 00:03:52.111 --> 00:03:54.739 I feel kind of excited for the Reboot journey, 00:03:54.947 --> 00:03:58.659 a little bit nervous, 'cause, you know, I've never done anything like this before. 00:04:00.995 --> 00:04:02.455 I don't understand this map. 00:04:02.580 --> 00:04:05.958 Just, Em, why don't you get your phone out? We'll GPS it. Oh, wait... 00:04:06.292 --> 00:04:08.002 Dad, you're not funny. Stop. 00:04:08.127 --> 00:04:10.797 You know, girls, when Daddy was a little boy and people got lost... 00:04:10.963 --> 00:04:12.632 ...we just used our instincts. 00:04:14.342 --> 00:04:17.720 What would you hope that we're doing for the next few days? 00:04:17.845 --> 00:04:18.846 A spa. 00:04:19.388 --> 00:04:23.100 - You wanna get a massage... - With cucumbers and a hot tub. 00:04:25.394 --> 00:04:26.896 What's it say? "The property..." 00:04:26.979 --> 00:04:28.105 "The property is at the end 00:04:28.231 --> 00:04:29.565 -"of this road." -End of this road. 00:04:30.066 --> 00:04:32.235 - Ooh, pretty. - Whoa. 00:04:33.152 --> 00:04:34.320 -Oh! -That's... 00:04:34.612 --> 00:04:36.989 Oh, look at the cute cabin. 00:04:37.114 --> 00:04:38.991 -I love that cabin. -Yeah, how fun is this? 00:04:39.158 --> 00:04:40.201 It's so cute. 00:04:40.660 --> 00:04:41.994 I'm excited to stay at the farm. 00:04:42.370 --> 00:04:44.705 It's different than anything I've done before. 00:04:45.581 --> 00:04:46.749 -Wow. -All right. 00:04:49.293 --> 00:04:50.628 Look how cool that is. 00:04:51.254 --> 00:04:53.172 - Love it. How cute is this? - This is my bed. 00:04:53.297 --> 00:04:54.924 - Oh, look, and we can put our lu... - This is mine. 00:04:55.007 --> 00:04:56.592 - That's yours? Okay. - ...our luggage, like, right here. 00:04:56.676 --> 00:04:57.843 So, what do you guys think? 00:04:57.885 --> 00:04:58.970 - I like this place. - Yeah? 00:04:59.053 --> 00:05:00.012 - It's nice. - It's just cool. 00:05:00.012 --> 00:05:02.598 - Hello? Barker family? - Hey! 00:05:02.682 --> 00:05:03.307 - Hey! - Hey, everyone. 00:05:03.307 --> 00:05:04.350 - How are you? - It is good to meet you in person. 00:05:04.433 --> 00:05:05.601 - How're you doing? - Hi! 00:05:05.685 --> 00:05:07.061 - Arel. How you doing? - Hi. 00:05:07.144 --> 00:05:08.771 Pleasure. Good to see you. 00:05:09.063 --> 00:05:12.733 I'm Arel Moodie. I'm a motivational speaker and life coach, 00:05:13.025 --> 00:05:17.113 working to create positive dynamics within people and families. 00:05:17.697 --> 00:05:19.573 -So, how was the trip in? -Nice. Yeah. 00:05:19.699 --> 00:05:21.200 -It was great. -Yeah? So, was it the first time 00:05:21.367 --> 00:05:23.661 - you travelled without a phone? - Ever. 00:05:23.828 --> 00:05:24.829 -Ever. Yeah. -Ever? 00:05:24.954 --> 00:05:26.122 -How was it? Easy? Hard? -Nope. 00:05:26.289 --> 00:05:28.249 That's okay. What do you think about this place? 00:05:28.332 --> 00:05:29.709 - This is awesome. - It's awesome. 00:05:29.792 --> 00:05:31.460 - Yeah, really cool. - It smells like Christmas trees. 00:05:31.585 --> 00:05:35.798 So, I genuinely believe there is nothing more important in this world than family. 00:05:36.173 --> 00:05:39.093 We're gonna set you up so that this is not just a moment in time, 00:05:39.218 --> 00:05:42.346 it's gonna be a point that moves you to this new life. Sound good? 00:05:42.346 --> 00:05:44.682 Okay. Bring it in. Actually, you know what? Let's turn it around. 00:05:44.765 --> 00:05:46.183 Put your hands on top of each other. 00:05:46.267 --> 00:05:47.893 Yep. So, instead of pushing each other down, 00:05:48.019 --> 00:05:49.520 we're gonna lift each other up from now on. 00:05:49.729 --> 00:05:51.188 One, two, three. 00:05:51.272 --> 00:05:52.481 Let's do this! 00:05:52.773 --> 00:05:55.693 I'm excited about this farm. I think it's beautiful. 00:06:05.494 --> 00:06:09.457 All right. If you could each take a station by one of these plates, please. 00:06:09.915 --> 00:06:13.586 Now, I want you to write on that plate some things that might be affecting 00:06:13.669 --> 00:06:15.171 your quality time together. 00:06:15.796 --> 00:06:18.382 We need to transform it into something really powerful. 00:06:18.674 --> 00:06:20.676 And I wanna see some love with it, okay? 00:06:20.760 --> 00:06:22.261 It seems since this last move, 00:06:22.470 --> 00:06:24.346 the Barkers have had a lot on their plates. 00:06:24.889 --> 00:06:27.224 They've been focused on how they feel individually, 00:06:27.308 --> 00:06:30.394 but it's important to remember how they affect one another 00:06:30.728 --> 00:06:33.814 to help them rediscover their family connection. 00:06:33.939 --> 00:06:35.274 I don't like that color. 00:06:35.566 --> 00:06:38.736 You can draw a picture, you can use symbols. 00:06:39.737 --> 00:06:43.032 I wrote that sometimes I'm, like, disrespectful, 00:06:43.157 --> 00:06:45.576 and I don't really engage in conversations. 00:06:45.701 --> 00:06:48.621 - Lola? - I just wrote, "Not helping." 00:06:49.080 --> 00:06:51.707 - What would be helping? - Like, just around the house. 00:06:51.832 --> 00:06:55.127 - Dad, what'd you write? - Probably not engaged enough. 00:06:55.252 --> 00:06:57.171 Uh, I think, part of it is finding the right mix 00:06:57.254 --> 00:06:58.798 of work-life balance. 00:06:58.923 --> 00:07:01.884 Is that you with fire hair? 00:07:02.134 --> 00:07:03.260 I'm going, I'm going, I'm going. 00:07:03.344 --> 00:07:04.595 -That's pretty good actually. -Yeah. 00:07:05.262 --> 00:07:09.058 Um, I wrote, "Not flexible." I like to be effective. 00:07:09.141 --> 00:07:10.810 So, I like things to get done 00:07:10.976 --> 00:07:13.312 in the right way so we don't have to do it again. 00:07:14.313 --> 00:07:16.690 I know how you can be more flexible. 00:07:16.899 --> 00:07:19.652 You can, like, get one of those rope things. 00:07:19.819 --> 00:07:21.529 Oh, the joker in the family. 00:07:21.821 --> 00:07:22.863 Little Daddy. 00:07:23.239 --> 00:07:26.033 Mine are actually funny, though. 00:07:26.325 --> 00:07:28.160 Now, there's another part to this. 00:07:28.953 --> 00:07:31.372 Grab one of those. We gotta let go of the past. 00:07:31.580 --> 00:07:35.292 So, what we're gonna do is totally obliterate what we've been doing, 00:07:35.459 --> 00:07:38.420 and I want you to smash these plates as best you can. 00:07:38.671 --> 00:07:40.214 Okay. Here we go. 00:07:42.174 --> 00:07:43.843 - In with the goodness. - Good. 00:07:47.388 --> 00:07:48.472 - Oh! - There we go! 00:07:48.556 --> 00:07:49.932 - Oh, great job! - Whoo! 00:07:50.099 --> 00:07:52.518 -All right. You're up, Lola. -Show us how you do it, Lo. 00:07:55.604 --> 00:07:57.314 - Go, girl! - She ain't giving up. 00:07:59.149 --> 00:08:00.150 Get it! Get it! 00:08:02.903 --> 00:08:05.030 Smashing plates is the best. 00:08:05.239 --> 00:08:06.198 Ooh! 00:08:06.282 --> 00:08:07.825 - Whoa! - Wow. 00:08:08.117 --> 00:08:09.994 It broke a lot more than I thought it would. 00:08:10.077 --> 00:08:12.871 Like, I didn't think it would turn into so many small, little pieces. 00:08:12.955 --> 00:08:14.248 I thought we'd get, like, big chunks. 00:08:14.415 --> 00:08:16.375 It was fun. I think the girls had fun with it, too. 00:08:17.293 --> 00:08:18.669 - Great job. - Is it good? 00:08:18.752 --> 00:08:20.754 -You did great. You did great. -Good job. 00:08:31.682 --> 00:08:34.393 Y'all are looking good in them overalls I left for you. 00:08:34.476 --> 00:08:37.104 -Yeah. -Looking like a family Barker farm. 00:08:37.521 --> 00:08:40.983 So, every farm needs to be taken care of. 00:08:41.317 --> 00:08:44.111 -So, we have a chore list for you. Okay? -All right. 00:08:44.278 --> 00:08:47.364 However, the people in charge are Emma and Lola. 00:08:47.489 --> 00:08:48.532 Oh, no. 00:08:53.203 --> 00:08:56.498 I set up this challenge because I wanna change the power dynamic. 00:08:56.707 --> 00:09:00.586 Big transitions, like moving, can make kids feel out of control. 00:09:00.753 --> 00:09:04.298 This activity is not only a fun way to change perspectives 00:09:04.465 --> 00:09:09.136 but also allows Emma and Lola to experience responsibility 00:09:09.219 --> 00:09:10.346 within their family. 00:09:10.888 --> 00:09:12.723 This is your chance to get 'em. Okay? 00:09:12.806 --> 00:09:14.350 So, let's go, we're gonna have some fun with it. 00:09:14.767 --> 00:09:15.893 They're gonna give us all the dirty stuff, 00:09:15.976 --> 00:09:17.269 - I think. - They are. 00:09:17.353 --> 00:09:18.896 That's a good one. That's funny. 00:09:18.979 --> 00:09:20.481 Good luck. 00:09:22.483 --> 00:09:24.193 - They're plotting. - They're plotting. 00:09:26.320 --> 00:09:27.321 Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. 00:09:29.323 --> 00:09:31.325 -Dad. -Girls, remember, Daddy loves you. 00:09:31.408 --> 00:09:32.826 - Okay. - But I love you the most. 00:09:32.910 --> 00:09:35.662 Okay. Mom, you're gonna feed the chickens. 00:09:35.829 --> 00:09:36.789 Yes! 00:09:36.872 --> 00:09:39.833 -Dad, you're gonna bathe the pigs. -What? 00:09:40.000 --> 00:09:41.168 -Lola picked that out, not me. -Ew. 00:09:41.251 --> 00:09:43.837 Mom's too small. You're bigger. 00:09:45.839 --> 00:09:48.300 - And there's two. - Oh, come here, guys! 00:09:48.383 --> 00:09:49.676 Do you want some? Come get it. 00:09:49.760 --> 00:09:52.054 Come get it. There you go, guys. 00:09:54.056 --> 00:09:56.266 No, come back, you. Go, eat some more. 00:09:56.350 --> 00:09:58.310 Listen to you. 00:09:58.644 --> 00:10:00.270 The moving around a lot has been hard. 00:10:00.479 --> 00:10:02.940 It was nice to have just one-on-one time with Emma. 00:10:03.023 --> 00:10:06.652 Me and her, no other distractions, aside from the chickens. 00:10:06.860 --> 00:10:08.070 And I liked it a lot. 00:10:08.821 --> 00:10:12.282 -Is that good, Miss? -No. They need to be well-fed. 00:10:12.533 --> 00:10:16.036 I liked deciding who got to do what chores, and I liked feeding 00:10:16.120 --> 00:10:17.996 the chickens with my mom 'cause I thought they were cute. 00:10:18.163 --> 00:10:20.833 Here, piggy, piggy, piggy, piggy. Come get it. 00:10:21.416 --> 00:10:22.876 Am I doing a fantastic job? 00:10:23.168 --> 00:10:25.587 Put it closer over here, not just in the middle. 00:10:26.213 --> 00:10:28.215 - Right here? - Get where that pig is. 00:10:28.382 --> 00:10:32.010 I really liked being in charge today. It was fun watching my dad wash the pigs. 00:10:32.302 --> 00:10:34.263 I don't think he's ever done something like that before. 00:10:34.346 --> 00:10:35.430 Need more water. 00:10:35.597 --> 00:10:37.683 These are gonna be the cleanest pigs ever, Lo. 00:10:38.308 --> 00:10:40.769 Lola was the one kinda directing me on what to do. 00:10:40.894 --> 00:10:43.772 But I was really proud of her, you know? She had no problem telling Dad what to do. 00:10:44.022 --> 00:10:46.525 But it was a lot of fun. I'm glad we got to do it. 00:10:46.859 --> 00:10:47.943 I want it down there. 00:10:48.569 --> 00:10:50.529 - Just like that? - And what about this? 00:10:50.737 --> 00:10:52.531 -Which one? -I want the rock right there. 00:10:53.448 --> 00:10:55.450 - Where? Right here? - On the other bark. 00:10:55.534 --> 00:10:58.745 Yep. Drop it. Good. Is it pretty enough? 00:10:59.580 --> 00:11:00.581 Eh, yeah. 00:11:00.831 --> 00:11:02.332 I mean, it's wood. 00:11:10.549 --> 00:11:11.633 Ooh! 00:11:12.342 --> 00:11:14.469 What about you and Emma? How are you guys getting along? 00:11:14.595 --> 00:11:16.638 It's nice that we got to hang out more this week. 00:11:17.014 --> 00:11:18.515 - Yeah? - It feels different 00:11:18.599 --> 00:11:20.225 because it's been so long 00:11:20.726 --> 00:11:26.023 since we've actually... played together or spent time together. 00:11:27.024 --> 00:11:28.859 I think we gotta make sure that when we get home, 00:11:28.942 --> 00:11:30.152 we try and keep this up. 00:11:30.485 --> 00:11:35.115 What if each of us could pick an activity each week? 00:11:36.575 --> 00:11:39.202 - Yeah. I think that'd be great. - I go first, of course. 00:11:39.328 --> 00:11:41.788 Oh! I was gonna say, "I get to go first." Okay. 00:11:41.913 --> 00:11:42.998 - No. - Fine. 00:11:48.003 --> 00:11:49.004 Attagirl. 00:11:51.757 --> 00:11:53.050 Remember, hold it. 00:11:53.967 --> 00:11:55.552 So, let's try. Let's see here. 00:11:56.928 --> 00:12:00.223 All right. And then just whip it back, turn your body, though, for me. 00:12:00.599 --> 00:12:02.601 All right, let's see what you got. 00:12:04.519 --> 00:12:07.147 Hearing that my dad wants to spend more time with the family 00:12:07.230 --> 00:12:09.524 makes me feel actually better. 00:12:09.733 --> 00:12:13.403 Because knowing that I'm not the only one that really enjoys this. 00:12:23.205 --> 00:12:27.834 Emma has taken this last move a lot harder than any of the previous moves. 00:12:28.085 --> 00:12:32.172 In the last few days, I have taken a better look at Emma's point of view. 00:12:32.255 --> 00:12:35.592 And really important that Emma knows that she can come to me 00:12:35.801 --> 00:12:37.260 with any problem, ever. 00:12:38.303 --> 00:12:41.431 You know, it's like, really, I honestly never wanted 00:12:41.598 --> 00:12:43.266 to move you when you got to middle school. 00:12:43.892 --> 00:12:45.435 I knew it would be hard. I did it 00:12:45.519 --> 00:12:47.396 when I was in sixth grade. I didn't... That's why... 00:12:47.479 --> 00:12:50.023 Part of the reason why I didn't want you having to move in sixth grade, but... 00:12:50.941 --> 00:12:53.443 you're more social than I am, so I knew you could handle it. 00:12:54.319 --> 00:12:55.278 And you have. 00:12:56.488 --> 00:12:59.407 I was just, kind of, like, taken aback almost. 00:12:59.533 --> 00:13:00.909 Yep. I understand that. 00:13:01.618 --> 00:13:03.078 It was a really fast thing. 00:13:03.203 --> 00:13:04.579 - I wish you could've... - Yeah. 00:13:04.746 --> 00:13:06.540 ...like, stood up and been like, "Oh, 00:13:06.623 --> 00:13:08.959 "like, can we maybe not move or something?" Or, like, 00:13:09.251 --> 00:13:10.794 try to find other ideas. 00:13:11.962 --> 00:13:15.090 But I feel like if I would have said, "Nope, we're not moving," 00:13:15.632 --> 00:13:17.717 then it would've crushed your dad's dreams too. 00:13:17.843 --> 00:13:20.387 I mean, he's worked hard to get where he's gotten. 00:13:21.721 --> 00:13:24.516 And... I knew you could do it. 00:13:25.976 --> 00:13:29.563 It just seemed like the best to move, for everybody. 00:13:31.940 --> 00:13:32.941 Yeah. 00:13:33.859 --> 00:13:36.236 It felt good to tell my mom my side of the story 00:13:36.319 --> 00:13:37.696 and hear her side of the story, 00:13:37.863 --> 00:13:39.239 because it helped me to see the big picture. 00:13:39.322 --> 00:13:41.908 And now, I feel like we can get through anything together. 00:13:42.576 --> 00:13:43.577 I love you. 00:13:43.952 --> 00:13:45.078 Love you, too. 00:13:52.377 --> 00:13:53.461 Barker family! 00:13:54.671 --> 00:13:57.591 You might be wondering, "Arel, why are you standing by this tree?" 00:13:57.757 --> 00:13:58.758 Fantastic question. 00:13:58.842 --> 00:14:04.014 This tree represents the roots that you're gonna plant as a family. 00:14:04.598 --> 00:14:09.769 Write down a few words of hopes or dreams so that we can hang it from the tree 00:14:10.186 --> 00:14:13.315 and be a visual reminder for what you want for your family. 00:14:13.857 --> 00:14:14.983 I know my word. 00:14:16.651 --> 00:14:21.781 All right. Why don't we start with Lola? What do you want and hope for your family? 00:14:22.157 --> 00:14:24.910 To believe in yourself and your family. 00:14:25.368 --> 00:14:27.287 I wrote, "Being together." 00:14:27.704 --> 00:14:30.040 I put, "Respectful to each other." 00:14:30.248 --> 00:14:31.458 And what about you, Dave? 00:14:31.791 --> 00:14:33.835 "Communicate." Penmanship's not the best, but... 00:14:34.169 --> 00:14:36.630 You know what? It's authentic. And that's what matters the most. 00:14:37.213 --> 00:14:39.633 So now, why don't you go ahead and choose your branch 00:14:39.841 --> 00:14:42.427 -and tie your ribbon to it? -I want the one with an apple. 00:14:43.053 --> 00:14:44.679 - Do you need help, Lo? - Yeah. 00:14:45.221 --> 00:14:46.765 We signed up for this journey, 00:14:46.890 --> 00:14:49.434 hoping that we could somehow come closer as a family. 00:14:49.559 --> 00:14:50.935 And I definitely think we've achieved that. 00:14:54.981 --> 00:14:57.359 That was fun. Oh, the tree. 00:14:57.651 --> 00:14:59.027 All hands on deck. 00:14:59.235 --> 00:15:01.321 -And then we wrote on those ribbons. -Oh, there it is. 00:15:01.696 --> 00:15:07.494 So cute. Oh, my gosh! Look at Lola going smash crazy. 00:15:08.119 --> 00:15:11.790 Emma, you were just laughing at everybody. Look at her face. 00:15:11.915 --> 00:15:14.959 Since the journey, we really have been communicating more, acting as a family. 00:15:15.335 --> 00:15:17.587 And the goal is to sustain it. 00:15:17.671 --> 00:15:19.798 -It looks like you're spray... -This is hilarious, right? 00:15:19.881 --> 00:15:21.675 You're spraying her in the head. 00:15:21.883 --> 00:15:23.468 We want to stay close as a family. 00:15:23.677 --> 00:15:26.096 Not just for the next couple of months, but forever. 00:15:27.430 --> 00:15:29.265 No, we have to br... Lola! 00:15:31.184 --> 00:15:37.440 The thing that stays with me the most is probably the connection we had. 00:15:38.191 --> 00:15:41.236 - Great one here. That's all I'm gonna say. - That one's my favorite. 00:15:41.444 --> 00:15:44.572 At the end of the day, I think the journey for all of us 00:15:45.198 --> 00:15:49.869 has really set in stone that home is just wherever the heart is. 00:15:50.245 --> 00:15:51.371 So fun.