WEBVTT 00:00:01.172 --> 00:00:03.883 - Tell me where we have to go. - Wait, this is just a map. 00:00:05.635 --> 00:00:08.638 As a family, we're spinning wheels in different directions. 00:00:10.598 --> 00:00:13.184 I hope to get closer, on this trip, as a family. 00:00:13.977 --> 00:00:15.437 How do I look? 00:00:15.645 --> 00:00:16.980 We're getting there! 00:00:26.406 --> 00:00:27.615 Four. Four cards each. 00:00:29.367 --> 00:00:31.453 - Anything? No pairs? - Oh! 00:00:31.619 --> 00:00:33.204 - It's Papa's turn! - Okay. Ten. 00:00:33.288 --> 00:00:34.581 - Oh, oh. - There's a match. 00:00:34.706 --> 00:00:36.458 - There's a ten. - Make... Oh, I got this. Ready? 00:00:36.541 --> 00:00:37.709 It's Papa who has to do it. 00:00:37.792 --> 00:00:39.753 - No, no, no, no. I'm helping him. - No. Papa has to choose. 00:00:39.836 --> 00:00:42.338 - Okay. - I'm helping him because I... make him do. 00:00:43.506 --> 00:00:44.924 - No! You can't... - Hold on, guys. 00:00:45.008 --> 00:00:46.468 Wait, let me get the door. 00:00:46.676 --> 00:00:48.344 Saved by the bell. 00:00:48.720 --> 00:00:50.972 -Hi. We're the Sherr-Garcia Family. -Hi. We're the Sherr-Garcia Family. 00:00:51.097 --> 00:00:54.350 Hi, I'm William. In our family, I'm known as Dad. 00:00:54.517 --> 00:00:56.060 I'm Estevan, and I'm known as Papa. 00:00:56.186 --> 00:00:59.647 -I'm Miles. I'm 18 years old. -I'm Bette and I'm 14 years old. 00:01:00.231 --> 00:01:03.109 - I hope he's... Oh, it's... Okay. - It's from Family Reboot. 00:01:03.318 --> 00:01:05.820 - That's great. What have we got? - Okay. 00:01:06.404 --> 00:01:07.530 - Oh. - All right. 00:01:07.739 --> 00:01:08.781 - Okay. - Wow. 00:01:08.865 --> 00:01:09.866 Wow. 00:01:09.991 --> 00:01:12.035 "Family Reboot, The Sherr-Garcia Family." 00:01:12.118 --> 00:01:13.495 Well, they sent it to the right people so... 00:01:13.578 --> 00:01:15.705 Yes, they did. Oh! 00:01:15.830 --> 00:01:18.208 - Hey! - Look! Bette, your face! 00:01:18.291 --> 00:01:19.626 Oh, that is hilarious. 00:01:19.792 --> 00:01:21.002 You look so scared. 00:01:21.169 --> 00:01:23.880 I didn't know what to expect. 00:01:24.255 --> 00:01:27.425 And I'm holding a huge map. I didn't think we were gonna get there. 00:01:27.634 --> 00:01:28.968 -Right? It was a long drive. -No. 00:01:29.260 --> 00:01:32.013 Eight weeks ago, we were so busy with our lives. 00:01:32.472 --> 00:01:35.433 We needed to reconnect and have some time together. 00:01:35.517 --> 00:01:36.643 And now we've got to do this. 00:01:36.851 --> 00:01:38.186 - Yeah. - Wow! 00:01:41.981 --> 00:01:43.524 Guys, come down please. 00:01:43.608 --> 00:01:47.237 As a family, we certainly have lots of competing priorities. 00:01:47.528 --> 00:01:49.906 We're spinning wheels in different directions often. 00:01:50.573 --> 00:01:53.117 So, I'm a chief medical officer at a local hospital, 00:01:53.493 --> 00:01:55.995 and I'm also a pediatric emergency medicine physician. 00:01:56.162 --> 00:01:58.081 Both jobs are pretty intense, 00:01:58.248 --> 00:02:01.501 and require lots of my time and attention. 00:02:01.668 --> 00:02:03.628 Hi, it's Estevan. 00:02:04.170 --> 00:02:07.382 In our family, I'm the one that takes care of the kids. 00:02:07.507 --> 00:02:08.883 I'm there to take them to the doctors. 00:02:08.967 --> 00:02:11.219 I'm there to take them, you know, if there are any issues with school. 00:02:11.344 --> 00:02:13.846 We are always pulled every which direction. 00:02:14.055 --> 00:02:15.932 So, we kind of pass by each other at night. 00:02:17.684 --> 00:02:19.060 This is not our business. 00:02:19.769 --> 00:02:22.397 This coming year, I'm gonna be going to Marymount Manhattan College 00:02:22.480 --> 00:02:24.232 for an acting major. 00:02:24.315 --> 00:02:27.193 Theatre is really where my heart is. 00:02:27.485 --> 00:02:31.739 I have after-school theatre activities. So, I'm pretty busy. 00:02:31.948 --> 00:02:35.785 We reached out to the Reboot team, because we wanted to kind of reconnect 00:02:35.910 --> 00:02:40.289 and have some time and some moments with us before Miles goes off to college 00:02:40.373 --> 00:02:42.542 and really deepen our relationships together. 00:02:47.380 --> 00:02:49.173 It's gonna be a little scary to go somewhere... 00:02:49.549 --> 00:02:52.176 I don't know, we've never gone on a trip where we don't know where we're going. 00:02:52.719 --> 00:02:54.303 Which is exciting but a little nervous, right? 00:02:54.429 --> 00:02:55.430 -Yeah. -I think. 00:02:55.513 --> 00:02:56.889 It's been a long time since we've kind of 00:02:56.973 --> 00:02:58.808 spent time together as a family, so... 00:02:58.933 --> 00:03:00.560 We've been together 20 years. 00:03:00.643 --> 00:03:03.229 We met through friends, and very quickly after we got together, 00:03:03.312 --> 00:03:05.440 we decided we wanted to adopt children. 00:03:05.523 --> 00:03:07.567 Both of our kids were newborns. 00:03:07.900 --> 00:03:10.278 Miles was five days old when he came to us, 00:03:10.653 --> 00:03:12.697 and we were there for the delivery for Bette. 00:03:13.072 --> 00:03:15.199 When we lived in Brooklyn, things were different. 00:03:15.324 --> 00:03:17.243 We tried to always eat together as a family. 00:03:17.618 --> 00:03:20.163 But now, we're always on the go and always busy. 00:03:21.372 --> 00:03:24.167 I think this week is gonna mean something different to all of us. 00:03:24.375 --> 00:03:27.378 This is really important to me, to have fun with my family 00:03:27.545 --> 00:03:29.130 for a week before I go off to college. 00:03:30.548 --> 00:03:33.843 I don't really know what's, like, in store for us, 00:03:34.302 --> 00:03:35.678 but I'm really excited. 00:03:38.848 --> 00:03:39.932 - You ready to do it? - Yes. 00:03:40.016 --> 00:03:41.017 - Let's go. - Let's go! 00:03:41.517 --> 00:03:42.769 Let the journey begin. 00:03:43.519 --> 00:03:45.021 - You have your phone, Bette? - Mm-hmm. 00:03:45.146 --> 00:03:46.773 Doing great, phone and computer. 00:03:47.023 --> 00:03:48.566 - Here we go. - Thank you. Miles? 00:03:48.775 --> 00:03:50.151 - You got your iPad. - Yeah. 00:03:50.234 --> 00:03:51.444 - And your phone. - IPad and phone. 00:03:51.569 --> 00:03:53.070 All right, we're leaving this bag, guys. 00:03:53.196 --> 00:03:54.489 William, ready? Let's go. 00:03:55.406 --> 00:03:56.574 Onwards. 00:03:56.824 --> 00:03:57.825 Okay. 00:03:57.992 --> 00:03:59.410 - Ready. - Let's go. 00:04:02.371 --> 00:04:03.414 - All right, guys. - Yes! 00:04:03.581 --> 00:04:05.166 Y'all wanna go see where we’re going on the journey? 00:04:05.416 --> 00:04:06.626 Sure, where we dropping? 00:04:07.502 --> 00:04:08.544 Oh, goodness. 00:04:08.628 --> 00:04:09.837 -Oh, oh. -It's a big map. 00:04:10.463 --> 00:04:12.089 - It's the real deal. - I don't know... 00:04:12.173 --> 00:04:13.716 ...I don't know if I can open this map. 00:04:13.800 --> 00:04:15.176 Down in the front! 00:04:15.301 --> 00:04:17.261 You okay there, Dad? 00:04:17.386 --> 00:04:21.265 If we could just put it into a phone, that would be helpful. No? 00:04:21.807 --> 00:04:24.143 - If we had an address... - But we don't have our phones. 00:04:25.436 --> 00:04:27.230 - Round and round we go. - Oh, my God. 00:04:27.355 --> 00:04:29.106 Where do we stop? Nobody knows. 00:04:33.110 --> 00:04:34.403 Not knowing where we were going. 00:04:34.612 --> 00:04:36.948 Now that is pretty much not something that I'm comfortable with. 00:04:37.573 --> 00:04:38.783 Trusting that we're gonna get someplace 00:04:38.950 --> 00:04:41.244 and it's gonna be okay and it's gonna be a lot of fun. 00:04:42.245 --> 00:04:45.081 Do you guys remember the last time we were all together in one car? 00:04:45.206 --> 00:04:47.250 I don't remember. Besides road trips, 00:04:47.333 --> 00:04:48.793 we're not really all in the car together. 00:04:49.001 --> 00:04:51.921 What was your favorite, like, excursion we ever had on a trip? 00:04:52.004 --> 00:04:53.756 I liked it when we went to Cancún. 00:04:53.839 --> 00:04:55.424 What was your favorite part about Cancún? 00:04:55.550 --> 00:04:57.635 The resort. 00:04:58.386 --> 00:05:00.805 I think Miles was the tacos, the taco stands? 00:05:00.888 --> 00:05:02.181 - Well, I... - Yeah, I mean... 00:05:02.265 --> 00:05:03.891 -...he wants to stay there. -...if there's food anywhere, 00:05:03.975 --> 00:05:05.560 that's always gonna be my favorite part. 00:05:11.899 --> 00:05:13.401 -There's a goose. -No, that's a turkey. 00:05:13.484 --> 00:05:14.902 That's not a turkey. 00:05:15.027 --> 00:05:16.195 That's a wild turkey. 00:05:16.529 --> 00:05:17.822 - Here we are. - Right. 00:05:18.197 --> 00:05:19.198 Wow. 00:05:19.865 --> 00:05:22.076 The log cabin. It looks nice. 00:05:26.414 --> 00:05:27.665 Let's go inside, yeah! 00:05:28.499 --> 00:05:30.459 - Is it locked up? - It's not opening. 00:05:30.835 --> 00:05:32.044 Oh, well. 00:05:32.128 --> 00:05:33.546 - Hello? - Look for a key, maybe they left 00:05:33.629 --> 00:05:35.131 - it under the mat. - Did they give you keys? 00:05:35.256 --> 00:05:37.008 No one gave us any keys, so I don't know. 00:05:38.134 --> 00:05:40.219 - I don't see anybody in there. - Is there any, like, directions, 00:05:40.303 --> 00:05:41.220 how to get inside? 00:05:41.304 --> 00:05:42.847 - I don't know. - Maybe there's a back door? 00:05:43.014 --> 00:05:45.099 Sherr-Garcia family, how's it going? 00:05:45.349 --> 00:05:46.392 - Good! - Going great! 00:05:46.726 --> 00:05:48.686 I'm Mike, I am your Reboot guide. 00:05:49.145 --> 00:05:51.772 I'm Dr. Mike Dow. I'm a family therapist, 00:05:52.064 --> 00:05:55.026 specializing in relationships and strengthening bonds. 00:05:55.151 --> 00:05:56.944 Did you guys have a little fun on that drive here? 00:05:57.028 --> 00:05:58.821 - Yeah. - And we haven't used a map in... 00:05:58.988 --> 00:06:00.823 ...who knows when? 00:06:00.948 --> 00:06:02.825 We haven't been in the car together in forever. 00:06:03.325 --> 00:06:08.080 Well, this week is all about connection and having a lot of fun as a family. 00:06:08.247 --> 00:06:11.876 As you can see, this beautiful house, the door is locked. 00:06:12.126 --> 00:06:15.838 So to get the key, I have a fun little activity for you, 00:06:16.005 --> 00:06:17.089 so come with me. 00:06:17.840 --> 00:06:19.300 Where are we going? 00:06:26.307 --> 00:06:30.102 As you can see, we have these beautiful candy-colored gumballs. 00:06:30.311 --> 00:06:31.979 I'm going to have the four of you 00:06:32.313 --> 00:06:35.149 -get into these gumball spheres. -Oh, gosh. 00:06:35.566 --> 00:06:38.235 And your mission is to get that fifth gumball... 00:06:39.236 --> 00:06:42.990 - way over there, back onto this red... - Oh, no. 00:06:43.115 --> 00:06:44.950 ...gumball machine base. 00:06:45.618 --> 00:06:48.454 So, even though you're in separate gumball worlds, 00:06:49.205 --> 00:06:52.666 you'll need to work together towards the common goal to get that key. 00:06:53.793 --> 00:06:56.045 With that said, get into your gumball spheres 00:06:56.170 --> 00:06:57.213 - and get to it. - Yes. 00:06:57.296 --> 00:06:59.006 - Crazy! - You're going into that one? 00:06:59.089 --> 00:07:00.341 - I'll go in here. - Okay. 00:07:01.842 --> 00:07:03.135 You ready to be a hamster, Bette? 00:07:03.844 --> 00:07:07.681 If you told me that I was gonna become a hamster for the day, 00:07:08.390 --> 00:07:10.142 I would've told you, "You're crazy." 00:07:10.601 --> 00:07:12.394 All right, family, are you ready? 00:07:13.646 --> 00:07:14.647 Get set! 00:07:16.023 --> 00:07:17.066 Go! 00:07:17.274 --> 00:07:20.152 Come on, Bette. Come on! 00:07:26.242 --> 00:07:29.286 - Come on! - Let's get onto all sides of it. 00:07:29.995 --> 00:07:31.163 Go, Bette. Go! 00:07:32.081 --> 00:07:34.625 - What are we doing here, Bette? - I do not know. 00:07:34.834 --> 00:07:37.962 It won't move. 00:07:38.128 --> 00:07:42.091 So, this activity, The Gumball Gimme, it's not as easy as it looks. 00:07:42.258 --> 00:07:44.134 Bette, use your gymnast powers! 00:07:44.593 --> 00:07:46.053 But I'm hoping this shows... 00:07:46.136 --> 00:07:47.513 ...the family that even when they've got 00:07:47.596 --> 00:07:48.764 a million things going on, 00:07:49.265 --> 00:07:50.975 they can still find ways to have fun together. 00:07:53.561 --> 00:07:55.020 We have to work together. 00:07:56.188 --> 00:07:58.399 I should have gone to the gym. 00:07:58.607 --> 00:08:00.109 We're getting there! 00:08:01.402 --> 00:08:03.988 Oh, we're good! It's moving. 00:08:04.780 --> 00:08:07.533 And you know what? It did not take this family very long 00:08:07.741 --> 00:08:10.327 to figure out that the only way they were going to be successful, 00:08:10.661 --> 00:08:13.330 is to work together and communicate as a family. 00:08:13.998 --> 00:08:16.083 - We've almost got it! - Keep it going! 00:08:16.458 --> 00:08:17.668 We can do this! 00:08:17.918 --> 00:08:19.128 Whoo! 00:08:19.253 --> 00:08:21.547 - Push! Push! - Good work, Bette. 00:08:21.964 --> 00:08:23.048 - All right... - Come on! 00:08:23.132 --> 00:08:24.717 ...you did it, you are there! 00:08:24.800 --> 00:08:25.843 Yes! 00:08:26.468 --> 00:08:27.928 Woo-hoo! We did it! 00:08:28.679 --> 00:08:30.848 I thought it was going to be really easy to push the ball 00:08:31.515 --> 00:08:33.767 but it was honestly, like, really, really hard. 00:08:34.226 --> 00:08:35.644 But I mean, it was really fun. 00:08:36.895 --> 00:08:39.773 Family, fantastic job! I saw a lot of laughter, 00:08:40.232 --> 00:08:41.567 -having a good time! -Yeah, great! 00:08:41.859 --> 00:08:45.279 So, I just want to give you a lot of credit for communicating, 00:08:45.362 --> 00:08:47.906 coming together as a family. Good job! 00:08:48.073 --> 00:08:51.201 So of course, as promised... 00:08:51.327 --> 00:08:52.661 - ...the key to your house. - Nice. 00:08:53.287 --> 00:08:56.206 So, why don't you head on into the house, check it out, 00:08:56.290 --> 00:08:57.374 and I'll catch up with you later. 00:08:57.541 --> 00:08:58.667 -Thank you. -Let's go! 00:08:59.376 --> 00:09:00.377 We did it. 00:09:00.461 --> 00:09:02.421 - Took a lot, took a lot. - Yeah. 00:09:02.629 --> 00:09:05.215 The ball activity made us work together as a team. 00:09:05.424 --> 00:09:06.425 And I would do it again. 00:09:06.508 --> 00:09:08.093 And you felt really successful at the end. 00:09:08.302 --> 00:09:09.553 -Bette, do you have the key? -Yeah. 00:09:09.636 --> 00:09:10.679 -Ready? -Yeah, okay. 00:09:10.846 --> 00:09:13.724 And also, the key was a nice gesture. 00:09:14.016 --> 00:09:15.100 -Right, welcome in. -Okay. 00:09:15.184 --> 00:09:16.185 - Go, go, go. - Whoo! 00:09:16.310 --> 00:09:17.770 Wow! 00:09:18.604 --> 00:09:20.230 -Okay. Cool place! -Look at this. 00:09:22.983 --> 00:09:25.319 Let's go see what our gumballs got us. 00:09:25.611 --> 00:09:28.572 -Oh, wow. Nice. -Make some good meals with this. 00:09:28.947 --> 00:09:30.491 They brought pickles, they got pickles. 00:09:31.742 --> 00:09:32.951 I love it. 00:09:33.577 --> 00:09:36.914 All right, guys. Well, here we are in this beautiful cabin. 00:09:37.206 --> 00:09:39.917 Tell me a little bit about what your routine at home is like. 00:09:40.250 --> 00:09:42.961 Every day is kind of the same pattern, over and over again. 00:09:43.045 --> 00:09:44.671 Mm-hmm. - And everybody is running 00:09:44.755 --> 00:09:45.881 in their separate directions. 00:09:46.131 --> 00:09:49.301 So with gymnastics, acting, your job, 00:09:49.551 --> 00:09:52.471 that there is just maybe not enough time for you 00:09:52.679 --> 00:09:54.098 to spend with Miles, 00:09:54.264 --> 00:09:55.891 - and this is also a really critical time... - Yeah. 00:09:55.974 --> 00:09:56.975 - ...right? - Yeah. 00:09:57.059 --> 00:09:59.144 He's going to an acting school in Manhattan, 00:09:59.228 --> 00:10:01.063 so that's going to be a big change for us 00:10:01.230 --> 00:10:04.399 in just a couple of months. You know, I think Bette's going to... 00:10:04.525 --> 00:10:06.902 I know she's going to miss him more than she lets on. 00:10:07.111 --> 00:10:11.031 So, it'd be nice to have some quality time over the next few months before he leaves. 00:10:11.490 --> 00:10:14.827 And then our daughter does gymnastics competitively, 00:10:15.202 --> 00:10:18.747 and so with that schedule, she trains about 20 hours a week, so... 00:10:18.831 --> 00:10:20.707 -And who's sort of taking care of Bette? -I'm taking her. 00:10:20.833 --> 00:10:21.875 - That's you? - That's me. 00:10:21.959 --> 00:10:25.045 My daughter and I usually leave about three or four o'clock every day 00:10:25.128 --> 00:10:26.672 and then we get home about ten o'clock at night. 00:10:26.880 --> 00:10:30.384 -Wow, it's a long day. -It's a long day, and so then our son, 00:10:30.509 --> 00:10:33.387 Miles, doesn't really, like, he doesn't see much of me at night, 00:10:33.470 --> 00:10:34.721 because if he was at school, 00:10:34.847 --> 00:10:38.308 then he would get home and his sister and I were already gone out the door. 00:10:38.517 --> 00:10:40.644 And then what about you and Bette? Tell me about that. 00:10:40.894 --> 00:10:42.813 I think we have a great relationship, 00:10:42.938 --> 00:10:45.899 but I all...You know, don't see her nearly as much as I would like to. 00:10:46.149 --> 00:10:48.986 I think the takeaway here is that we want to soak up 00:10:49.111 --> 00:10:53.282 every precious moment of time you have left 00:10:53.407 --> 00:10:54.825 before your son goes to college. 00:10:54.950 --> 00:10:57.369 So I think we have some things to look forward to. 00:10:57.661 --> 00:10:59.162 So, that being said, 00:10:59.413 --> 00:11:00.664 I'll see you guys tomorrow. Bright and early. 00:11:00.747 --> 00:11:01.957 - Bright and early, okay. - Okay. 00:11:02.082 --> 00:11:03.083 We'll be ready. 00:11:13.719 --> 00:11:14.886 Is this food? 00:11:15.178 --> 00:11:18.390 Yes, you are correct, this is a food activity. 00:11:18.599 --> 00:11:20.267 - Oh. - So, the first thing I have 00:11:20.475 --> 00:11:22.686 for all of you are blindfolds. 00:11:22.811 --> 00:11:25.105 - No! - No! 00:11:29.359 --> 00:11:32.529 Food can be such a fun bonding experience. 00:11:32.946 --> 00:11:35.532 We really gather over food for so many of our best moments. 00:11:35.741 --> 00:11:39.620 So for this activity, these foods will spark memories of together time 00:11:40.037 --> 00:11:42.581 and remind the family of their amazing connection. 00:11:43.081 --> 00:11:44.207 So, you're gonna work in teams. 00:11:44.666 --> 00:11:47.336 You're going to describe what is underneath this food cover 00:11:47.544 --> 00:11:51.381 to your team member without saying the name of the food. 00:11:52.341 --> 00:11:53.842 William, you'll be with Miles. 00:11:53.967 --> 00:11:55.802 -Estevan, you'll be with Bette. -Yes! 00:11:56.178 --> 00:12:00.182 Because William is usually taking Bette to gymnastics 00:12:00.390 --> 00:12:02.643 and therefore Estevan is usually with Miles, 00:12:02.809 --> 00:12:06.438 I wanted to place Miles with William and Estevan with Bette, 00:12:06.897 --> 00:12:10.275 forming new bonds in this family through the power of food. 00:12:10.609 --> 00:12:11.860 -Does everyone understand? -Yeah. 00:12:11.943 --> 00:12:13.320 -Yes. -All right. So, William, you're up first. 00:12:13.445 --> 00:12:14.446 Come up here. 00:12:15.614 --> 00:12:19.618 William and Miles, blindfolds on. And here is the first food. 00:12:20.619 --> 00:12:21.995 - What have you got? - There you go. 00:12:22.079 --> 00:12:23.663 Oh! 00:12:25.665 --> 00:12:30.379 We... make these and put chili and cheese on top. 00:12:30.879 --> 00:12:32.798 -Oh, tots! Tots! -Correct! 00:12:33.382 --> 00:12:34.508 Yes! 00:12:34.674 --> 00:12:35.884 -I want tater tots! -That was fun, right? 00:12:36.009 --> 00:12:37.386 Miles, you're up next. 00:12:37.552 --> 00:12:38.887 - Come up here. - Okay, let's go! 00:12:39.429 --> 00:12:40.555 - Okay, Miles. We got it. - Okay. 00:12:40.639 --> 00:12:42.474 - All right, you got this! - Come on, Miles. 00:12:43.058 --> 00:12:46.686 - Oh, that's... Oh, that's clumpy. - Describe it. Clumpy and what else? 00:12:46.895 --> 00:12:47.979 Uh... 00:12:48.980 --> 00:12:51.400 Oh, oh... Um... 00:12:52.609 --> 00:12:54.277 I make this from the box all the time. 00:12:54.569 --> 00:12:55.570 Macaroni and cheese? 00:12:55.654 --> 00:12:56.738 - Ding! Ding! Ding! - There we go! 00:12:58.490 --> 00:13:01.076 Oh, I don't know what this is. 00:13:04.412 --> 00:13:07.624 There's green ones and red ones, they're on a vine. 00:13:08.166 --> 00:13:09.626 - A grape? - I think. Am I close? 00:13:09.876 --> 00:13:11.169 -You got it! -All right! 00:13:12.587 --> 00:13:14.297 He doesn't even know what it is. 00:13:14.506 --> 00:13:16.383 Well, they were peeled or something. 00:13:16.508 --> 00:13:17.634 - Yeah. - Right? 00:13:17.717 --> 00:13:19.177 I think they were peeled grapes. 00:13:19.261 --> 00:13:20.512 - They were peeled. - They're peeled grapes. 00:13:22.013 --> 00:13:24.432 Okay, Bette, you're up. Here, my dear. 00:13:24.516 --> 00:13:26.643 I don't like eating things when I can't know what they are. 00:13:26.726 --> 00:13:27.894 Blindfold's on. 00:13:28.395 --> 00:13:30.730 Can I touch it? No, I don't want to touch it! 00:13:30.814 --> 00:13:32.899 I got you. The spoon is right here. There you go. 00:13:33.483 --> 00:13:35.610 Ew! What is that? 00:13:35.777 --> 00:13:37.362 I don't want to eat it! 00:13:38.113 --> 00:13:39.781 - Help me out. - You can do this! 00:13:41.283 --> 00:13:42.701 - I'm scared. - Slurp it up, come on! 00:13:44.411 --> 00:13:45.495 Soup! No! 00:13:45.662 --> 00:13:46.872 A little higher! 00:13:46.997 --> 00:13:49.082 - Thank you. - Come on, Bette, you got this! 00:13:50.250 --> 00:13:53.378 Oh! Um, it's... I don't know. 00:13:54.129 --> 00:13:55.505 -It's... -Pudding! 00:13:55.964 --> 00:13:57.465 -Yeah! -Pudding? 00:13:59.843 --> 00:14:00.927 Good job! 00:14:01.011 --> 00:14:03.096 I didn't even have to explain the pudding to Papa. 00:14:03.430 --> 00:14:05.181 -I didn't even say anything. -I thought me and William 00:14:05.265 --> 00:14:07.642 had a connection, she didn't even have to say anything. 00:14:09.185 --> 00:14:10.770 We're on the same level. 00:14:13.023 --> 00:14:14.065 And she's eating more. 00:14:16.151 --> 00:14:18.904 Oh, we used to go to stands of them in Mexico. 00:14:20.071 --> 00:14:21.740 -Tacos! -Ding. Ding. Ding. 00:14:21.823 --> 00:14:22.866 Yes! 00:14:23.158 --> 00:14:24.701 This family really knows each other. 00:14:24.868 --> 00:14:27.537 It only took them a few seconds to describe the... 00:14:27.787 --> 00:14:31.082 "Oh, that's your favorite food! Oh, this is what we usually do on Tuesdays." 00:14:31.291 --> 00:14:33.293 And they knew exactly what they were talking about. 00:14:33.543 --> 00:14:35.170 Hmm. Come on, Bette. 00:14:35.337 --> 00:14:37.255 - Come on, you got this. - It's like stringy. And... 00:14:37.339 --> 00:14:40.425 - Stringy cheese? - Miles makes it in the boxes 00:14:41.176 --> 00:14:42.969 for lunch sometimes. 00:14:43.094 --> 00:14:44.095 - In the cups. - Ramen? Ramen! 00:14:44.220 --> 00:14:45.597 - Yeah! - There you go! 00:14:45.680 --> 00:14:46.931 -Good job. Good job! -Nice. 00:14:47.015 --> 00:14:49.225 What was the best part of this activity for all of you? 00:14:49.351 --> 00:14:53.313 It was really nice when you ate it and then you knew exactly 00:14:53.438 --> 00:14:55.774 how to best describe it to the specific person. 00:14:55.982 --> 00:14:57.567 -Uh-huh. -William said, 00:14:57.901 --> 00:14:59.486 "We put cheese and chili on it." 00:14:59.736 --> 00:15:01.905 I knew he said tater tots, 00:15:02.030 --> 00:15:03.573 - 'cause Bette does that all the time. - Right. 00:15:03.698 --> 00:15:05.533 Even though I placed them on different teams, 00:15:05.659 --> 00:15:09.120 they actually know each other quite well and they have an incredible bond. 00:15:09.245 --> 00:15:12.832 So that tells me, it's just really about creating that quality time 00:15:13.041 --> 00:15:14.542 for them to have with each other. 00:15:14.626 --> 00:15:15.710 I think you got it easy. 00:15:15.794 --> 00:15:17.837 - And the tater tots! - With the taco and the tater tots. 00:15:23.385 --> 00:15:25.595 This is what I see them doing at the pizza shop. 00:15:25.720 --> 00:15:27.931 - So we're going to try it. - We're just imitating 00:15:28.014 --> 00:15:29.099 and hoping it works. 00:15:29.933 --> 00:15:32.352 This reminds me of when we tried to make homemade tortillas. 00:15:32.602 --> 00:15:34.813 We had no clue what we were doing. 00:15:35.230 --> 00:15:37.565 This reminds me of when we lived in Brooklyn 00:15:37.690 --> 00:15:39.526 and the meals that we've shared. 00:15:39.734 --> 00:15:42.862 Life moves so fast now, but sitting together feels great. 00:15:43.446 --> 00:15:44.531 - Oh! - Miles! 00:15:44.614 --> 00:15:45.824 It's okay. 00:15:45.907 --> 00:15:47.075 Party foul. 00:15:47.200 --> 00:15:49.244 Doing gymnastics, I never really get 00:15:49.327 --> 00:15:50.787 to eat dinner with my brother, 00:15:51.037 --> 00:15:53.331 so it was nice to be able to just sit down and talk 00:15:53.832 --> 00:15:55.250 and eat dinner all together. 00:15:55.708 --> 00:15:57.210 Can I taste it? 00:15:57.710 --> 00:15:58.753 I can't taste yours? 00:15:58.878 --> 00:15:59.879 -Oh, mine? -Yeah. 00:16:00.380 --> 00:16:01.673 - No? - There's plenty. 00:16:02.006 --> 00:16:03.591 Fine. 00:16:11.516 --> 00:16:13.351 Miles, Bette, come over to this side. 00:16:13.435 --> 00:16:15.645 - Okay. - We're going in to see the goats. 00:16:15.728 --> 00:16:17.063 You guys gotta stay inside. 00:16:17.230 --> 00:16:19.858 Here we go. Stay inside, mister. 00:16:19.941 --> 00:16:22.026 - Are they as bad as butterflies? - Hi! 00:16:23.528 --> 00:16:25.029 Little Hopper here. 00:16:25.155 --> 00:16:27.907 Aw. His ears look just like Miles. 00:16:30.201 --> 00:16:35.081 And then this one is Hopper's momma, Cinnamon Toast. 00:16:35.331 --> 00:16:39.669 I like Cinnamon Toast, 'cause it looks like she's got a little heart on her side. 00:16:40.587 --> 00:16:44.257 Hi! We had a good time hanging out with the goats. 00:16:45.008 --> 00:16:47.552 About to leave, gonna finish the rest of our walk. 00:16:58.062 --> 00:16:59.230 Think someone's coming to say hi. 00:16:59.856 --> 00:17:03.193 Hopper. Hopping along. Hey, Crème Brûlée. 00:17:04.986 --> 00:17:08.364 So, as you know, I'm leaving for college in a few months. 00:17:08.823 --> 00:17:10.867 What do you think it's gonna be like once I'm gone? 00:17:11.159 --> 00:17:13.578 - Peaceful. - Peaceful? 00:17:14.162 --> 00:17:15.997 I'll have more chores probably. 00:17:16.080 --> 00:17:19.000 - Yeah, more chores, yeah. - Yeah. I'll miss you. 00:17:19.208 --> 00:17:20.752 I'm gonna miss you too, yeah. 00:17:21.628 --> 00:17:25.506 Yeah, I hope you know that if anything's happening, 00:17:25.590 --> 00:17:27.800 if you have any problems, you can always talk to me. 00:17:27.884 --> 00:17:28.927 Hmm. 00:17:29.010 --> 00:17:31.304 I'm gonna miss Miles when he goes to college. 00:17:31.387 --> 00:17:34.015 Back home, we kind of just, like, go our separate ways. 00:17:34.140 --> 00:17:36.559 So it was nice to, like, spend time with him this week. 00:17:36.726 --> 00:17:39.938 Um, are you nervous about going off to college, like... 00:17:40.772 --> 00:17:44.442 I feel like elementary school through high school, it's one thing. 00:17:44.984 --> 00:17:49.238 You always go home at the end of the day. So, I think it'll be hard, 00:17:50.073 --> 00:17:53.368 when I first get there, to be able to figure things out on my own 00:17:53.493 --> 00:17:55.286 and find people that I can talk to. 00:17:55.578 --> 00:17:59.332 My time with Bette is really limited, I'm gonna miss her. 00:17:59.999 --> 00:18:03.503 And I think it's very important to, like, 00:18:03.670 --> 00:18:07.298 forge that bond so then later on in life, you know you have someone 00:18:07.423 --> 00:18:09.550 you can always trust and depend on. 00:18:16.641 --> 00:18:19.310 - Hello, family! - I see bumble bees. 00:18:22.563 --> 00:18:24.524 Family, if there's one thing I learned about the four of you, 00:18:24.607 --> 00:18:27.568 it's that you all are busy bees. 00:18:28.695 --> 00:18:31.823 And so this activity is all about slowing down 00:18:31.989 --> 00:18:34.075 and taking time to smell the flowers. 00:18:34.242 --> 00:18:37.286 You'll be donning those beautiful bee costumes. 00:18:38.204 --> 00:18:43.084 The object of this activity is to pick up all of the pollen 00:18:43.710 --> 00:18:46.003 in the middle of all these flowers, 00:18:46.629 --> 00:18:50.550 and you'll bring the pollen, which will be attached to your bee body, 00:18:51.300 --> 00:18:54.095 over to the hive, and you're gonna scrape the pollen off 00:18:54.637 --> 00:18:55.680 into the hive. 00:18:56.389 --> 00:18:59.308 Without further ado, let's get started. Are you ready? 00:18:59.475 --> 00:19:00.768 -Yeah. Let's go. -All right. 00:19:02.603 --> 00:19:03.938 I cannot "bee-lieve"... 00:19:04.230 --> 00:19:06.023 ...how good you guys look in those costumes. 00:19:07.316 --> 00:19:10.111 I do not think we have ever dressed up as a bumblebee. 00:19:10.778 --> 00:19:12.697 But I do think we have our Halloween costume for next year. 00:19:13.281 --> 00:19:14.574 Are you ready, family? 00:19:14.657 --> 00:19:15.658 Yes. 00:19:15.741 --> 00:19:18.953 One, two, three. Get buzzing! Go! 00:19:19.203 --> 00:19:20.538 Let's go! 00:19:23.875 --> 00:19:26.294 I'm gonna fall. They don't stick... 00:19:27.003 --> 00:19:31.340 The Sherr-Garcia Family, like so many of us, are all busy bees. 00:19:31.549 --> 00:19:34.010 What I love about this activity is that initially, 00:19:34.135 --> 00:19:36.512 they think they have to move fast to achieve their goals, 00:19:36.929 --> 00:19:41.559 but it actually works much better when they slow down and work together. 00:19:42.351 --> 00:19:43.561 Here, Bette, you want to help me? 00:19:44.103 --> 00:19:47.064 So the point is for them to take some time to connect. 00:19:47.148 --> 00:19:48.274 Oh. 00:19:48.399 --> 00:19:49.984 - Miles, you got two. - Aw, I lost one! 00:19:50.067 --> 00:19:51.152 - Anybody help? - How many? 00:19:51.694 --> 00:19:53.488 You have none! 00:19:54.155 --> 00:19:56.866 Oh, it is so much harder than it looks. 00:19:57.116 --> 00:19:59.410 You can't see it when it's behind you. 00:19:59.911 --> 00:20:00.912 Papa, do I have any? 00:20:01.078 --> 00:20:02.580 - You got a bunch, Miles. - Okay. 00:20:03.206 --> 00:20:08.419 And then just trying to get them on and then stay on is impossible. 00:20:09.045 --> 00:20:12.089 - I got a newfound respect for bees. - Anything? 00:20:12.340 --> 00:20:14.550 - One... or two. - Okay, okay, thank you. 00:20:14.634 --> 00:20:16.886 - Almost done, pollinating that hive. - Here, put yours in. 00:20:16.969 --> 00:20:18.346 Keep on going. Keep on going. 00:20:18.429 --> 00:20:19.972 - Bette, come over. - I think it fell off. 00:20:20.056 --> 00:20:21.432 - It fell off. - Yeah. Yep. 00:20:22.141 --> 00:20:23.476 - And you did it! - Whoo! 00:20:23.601 --> 00:20:24.602 Finally. 00:20:24.727 --> 00:20:25.978 - Good job! Good job! - We did it! 00:20:26.062 --> 00:20:27.355 - Yeah! - We did it! 00:20:28.606 --> 00:20:29.649 - Yes! - Good job, Miles. 00:20:29.732 --> 00:20:31.067 - All right. - Good job, Bette. Good job. 00:20:31.150 --> 00:20:33.277 - Making all that honey! - That's right. 00:20:33.527 --> 00:20:34.987 So you 00:20:35.071 --> 00:20:37.198 should "bee" very proud of yourselves. 00:20:37.490 --> 00:20:40.993 Look at this, you got all that pollen into the hive. 00:20:41.744 --> 00:20:45.581 This week, being unplugged has really brought us closer together. 00:20:45.998 --> 00:20:48.125 A lot of times we just kind of hide behind our devices, 00:20:48.417 --> 00:20:50.711 and so we haven't had a device to hide behind, so we've 00:20:51.212 --> 00:20:54.131 just been together and communicated 00:20:54.215 --> 00:20:55.216 and had fun and played. 00:20:55.633 --> 00:20:57.051 - But it was fun. - It was fun? 00:20:57.218 --> 00:20:58.302 Yeah. 00:20:58.386 --> 00:21:01.180 Well, fun and spending that quality time together 00:21:01.430 --> 00:21:05.434 is what this week is all about. So, you guys, fantastic job. 00:21:05.977 --> 00:21:08.771 Having this opportunity to spend with Bette was really important for me. 00:21:08.854 --> 00:21:10.106 We've been together on a team now. 00:21:10.189 --> 00:21:12.608 And that's made, I think, a big difference in her. 00:21:12.817 --> 00:21:15.152 Kind of seeing me, kind of doing silly things. 00:21:15.319 --> 00:21:16.320 I'm gonna help you. 00:21:16.570 --> 00:21:18.280 It was nice to just, like, this whole week, 00:21:18.364 --> 00:21:19.949 spend some quality time with him. 00:21:20.825 --> 00:21:22.827 I definitely feel like it's been a nice reset 00:21:23.244 --> 00:21:26.122 and we've realized what being a family is actually about. 00:21:26.664 --> 00:21:28.332 You know, I never thought I'd become a bee. 00:21:28.499 --> 00:21:29.542 True. 00:21:34.296 --> 00:21:36.799 -Oh, no! -Oh, the bees! 00:21:36.966 --> 00:21:40.261 - Look at me. - Okay, Miles, that is classic. 00:21:42.138 --> 00:21:43.848 - Look at Papa. - Look at Papa Bumblebee. 00:21:43.931 --> 00:21:47.059 And there's Bette over there. Yeah, now, that one's a good one, Miles. 00:21:47.184 --> 00:21:48.519 You know, after the reboot, 00:21:48.644 --> 00:21:50.104 experiencing the journey that we went through, 00:21:50.354 --> 00:21:54.775 we came back a happier, more in-tuned and more in-touch family. 00:21:55.025 --> 00:21:56.444 - Ah! - Look at your tongue sticking out, 00:21:56.527 --> 00:21:57.778 waiting to taste it. 00:21:58.195 --> 00:21:59.447 - Bette, you were so... - No! 00:21:59.572 --> 00:22:01.157 ...you were so scared to try the pudding. 00:22:01.449 --> 00:22:05.077 We've learned that it's really just important to, like, take a step back 00:22:05.161 --> 00:22:07.663 and to just like, hang out with each other as a family. 00:22:08.330 --> 00:22:10.708 I really appreciate this time with the family 00:22:10.875 --> 00:22:11.917 before I go off to college. 00:22:12.376 --> 00:22:14.587 I appreciate the memories that we were able to make. 00:22:14.754 --> 00:22:17.298 It really as marking, kind of, the next wave for us 00:22:17.423 --> 00:22:20.259 as Miles moves forward and it's a way to celebrate that. 00:22:20.593 --> 00:22:22.470 Any chance you want to run around in a bumblebee costume?