WEBVTT 00:00:01.089 --> 00:00:04.426 - Tell me where we have to go. - Wait, this is just a map. 00:00:06.010 --> 00:00:08.888 As a family, we are spinning wheels in different directions. 00:00:10.890 --> 00:00:12.058 Let's get loaded and go. 00:00:13.810 --> 00:00:16.354 I hope to get closer on this trip as a family. 00:00:17.605 --> 00:00:19.149 You're gonna bathe a pig. 00:00:19.357 --> 00:00:20.692 What? 00:00:22.152 --> 00:00:23.737 Oh! You got it, Te'vey. 00:00:24.946 --> 00:00:27.282 How do I look? 00:00:28.199 --> 00:00:29.743 We're getting there. 00:00:39.252 --> 00:00:41.963 - There we go. Oh, nice! - Where'd it go? 00:00:43.173 --> 00:00:45.967 Oh! One to zero. 00:00:46.050 --> 00:00:48.219 -Hi, we're the Hernandez family. -Hi, we're the Hernandez family. 00:00:48.303 --> 00:00:51.055 I'm Conisha, and these are my three lovely children. 00:00:51.431 --> 00:00:53.641 I'm Te'vean, I'm 17, and I'm the oldest. 00:00:54.017 --> 00:00:55.810 I'm Teyon, I'm 15, and I'm in the middle. 00:00:56.269 --> 00:00:58.563 I'm Trevon, I'm 12, and I'm the youngest. 00:00:58.897 --> 00:01:00.482 Hi, I'm Alonzo, and I'm Dad. 00:01:02.817 --> 00:01:04.277 Oh, you guys are cheating. 00:01:04.569 --> 00:01:07.030 Hey, guys. Look what just came from Family Reboot. 00:01:07.572 --> 00:01:09.449 -Oh, man. Awesome. What is it? -What is that? 00:01:09.532 --> 00:01:10.825 I don't know. Let's check it out. 00:01:11.159 --> 00:01:13.328 - All right, what is it? - All right, here we go. 00:01:13.411 --> 00:01:14.454 -Let's see what it is. -Drumroll. 00:01:14.871 --> 00:01:16.998 Come on, open it up. Open it up. 00:01:17.957 --> 00:01:20.376 -Oh, look. It's from our journey. -Oh, it's pictures from it. 00:01:20.543 --> 00:01:22.337 Oh, man. Awesome! 00:01:22.462 --> 00:01:23.963 It's like a scrapbook. 00:01:24.255 --> 00:01:26.508 Aw, remember? 00:01:27.717 --> 00:01:29.511 - This was right before... - Yes. 00:01:29.636 --> 00:01:31.137 ...we started the journey, right? 00:01:31.262 --> 00:01:33.723 Trey, look, you were like, "Where are we going?" 00:01:34.432 --> 00:01:36.601 Yeah, we had no idea what was gonna happen next. 00:01:36.684 --> 00:01:37.644 Yeah. 00:01:38.811 --> 00:01:41.940 This was very important to bring us together as a family. 00:01:42.398 --> 00:01:46.194 Just eight weeks ago, we were a little too separate 00:01:46.361 --> 00:01:47.987 even though we were under the same roof. 00:01:55.787 --> 00:01:57.914 Trey! 00:01:58.081 --> 00:02:00.375 I don't think that's how you're supposed to use them. 00:02:00.708 --> 00:02:04.587 We haven't utilized our dining room table together in so long. 00:02:04.879 --> 00:02:05.880 True that. True that. 00:02:07.048 --> 00:02:08.841 - I have to go. - Where are you going? 00:02:08.925 --> 00:02:10.843 I have drone club. We have a competition coming up. 00:02:11.010 --> 00:02:13.513 Let me drop you off, because I gotta go to class anyway. 00:02:14.097 --> 00:02:16.224 We were all so busy that it felt like, 00:02:16.307 --> 00:02:18.851 even if we did get together, it wouldn't last long. 00:02:19.227 --> 00:02:20.353 Have fun at school. 00:02:20.520 --> 00:02:22.730 -Bye, love y'all. -Love you, too. 00:02:23.273 --> 00:02:25.650 She left them rolls right there. I'll take those. 00:02:26.818 --> 00:02:30.822 This year was pretty busy for us, with school 00:02:30.989 --> 00:02:33.658 and different extracurricular activities that we do. 00:02:33.825 --> 00:02:35.368 I'm studying to be a paralegal. 00:02:35.785 --> 00:02:38.287 On top of that, I'm in the Navy reserves 00:02:38.371 --> 00:02:40.873 and Alonzo is active duty in the Navy. 00:02:40.957 --> 00:02:42.166 My schedule is so jam-packed. 00:02:42.375 --> 00:02:44.627 I... I never know when I'm gonna be deployed. 00:02:44.711 --> 00:02:46.879 There's been times he called at 9:00 a.m. and said 00:02:46.963 --> 00:02:49.632 he had to leave to go on a ship at 2:00. 00:02:49.799 --> 00:02:54.262 Also, on top of his high school classes, we've been preparing Te'vean for college. 00:02:56.222 --> 00:02:59.225 It's really important for me to spend time with my siblings now, 00:02:59.559 --> 00:03:01.811 especially since I'm gonna be moving on to college. 00:03:02.061 --> 00:03:05.398 I might not have nearly as much time to do anything with them. 00:03:06.024 --> 00:03:09.318 We all felt like time was running out. 00:03:09.694 --> 00:03:12.155 We wanted to get together as a family under one roof, 00:03:12.363 --> 00:03:14.240 and forget about all of our daily schedules. 00:03:14.407 --> 00:03:16.409 And that's why we reached out to Family Reboot. 00:03:20.496 --> 00:03:21.748 Where do you think we're going? 00:03:21.914 --> 00:03:23.875 -They didn't tell you? -They told you? 00:03:23.958 --> 00:03:25.001 - Yeah. - Where we going? 00:03:25.084 --> 00:03:26.335 I'm just kidding, they didn't tell me. 00:03:26.753 --> 00:03:29.046 Alonzo and I met about ten years ago 00:03:29.130 --> 00:03:31.716 while we was deployed to Afghanistan. 00:03:31.841 --> 00:03:33.217 One day, I went to Salsa Night, 00:03:33.384 --> 00:03:37.430 and I saw this bald, green-eyed guy over there teaching salsa. 00:03:38.014 --> 00:03:40.475 And I instantly wanted to learn. 00:03:40.600 --> 00:03:42.518 About seven years ago, we got married. 00:03:42.977 --> 00:03:45.480 The kids' biological father wasn't part of their lives, 00:03:45.646 --> 00:03:47.148 so Alonzo has been Dad. 00:03:48.024 --> 00:03:51.694 I love Alonzo. We both love to cook. We both love sports. 00:03:52.320 --> 00:03:53.821 He's always been a father to us. 00:03:54.405 --> 00:03:56.073 I think we're gonna have lots of fun. 00:03:58.659 --> 00:04:00.870 All right, let's go. Let's do this. 00:04:01.245 --> 00:04:03.664 And don't fall down the stairs how you did last time. 00:04:03.790 --> 00:04:05.792 - Okay. - Kids! 00:04:06.083 --> 00:04:08.211 Everybody put all their cellphones in here. 00:04:08.377 --> 00:04:09.587 Do we have to? 00:04:09.754 --> 00:04:11.255 - Yes, you have to. - Yes, you have to. 00:04:11.422 --> 00:04:12.590 Dude! 00:04:13.090 --> 00:04:15.176 Why do you have that big old bag? 00:04:15.259 --> 00:04:17.553 We don't know where we're going, we might need it. 00:04:17.762 --> 00:04:19.555 -Hold on, I need to put mine in there. -Cellphones. See? 00:04:19.639 --> 00:04:20.681 Sorry about that. 00:04:20.806 --> 00:04:21.849 All right, here we go. 00:04:22.016 --> 00:04:23.434 What do you got in there, just socks? 00:04:23.518 --> 00:04:24.810 I bet you anything, it's probably just socks. 00:04:24.894 --> 00:04:26.854 No underwear, nothing else. 00:04:27.647 --> 00:04:29.398 Oh, my God. Where are we going? 00:04:29.690 --> 00:04:32.193 - Let me see. - Hurry up! 00:04:32.360 --> 00:04:35.112 - Wait, this is just a map. - It's just a... 00:04:35.321 --> 00:04:37.865 That's a huge map. 00:04:38.032 --> 00:04:39.242 We have to figure out the way to go there? 00:04:39.408 --> 00:04:40.451 Yeah. 00:04:40.535 --> 00:04:42.078 - Is that the only thing? - What is this? 00:04:42.370 --> 00:04:44.372 We don't have a GPS or anything either. 00:04:44.539 --> 00:04:46.707 Hey, Nisha, tell me where we have to go. 00:04:47.124 --> 00:04:51.712 In 100 yards, make a left on Birch Road. 00:04:53.047 --> 00:04:54.590 You're gonna be the navigation? 00:05:02.557 --> 00:05:04.392 Being in the middle of the desert, 00:05:04.559 --> 00:05:07.395 it's... it's exciting because it's something different. 00:05:07.937 --> 00:05:09.689 -Where are we going? -I don't know. 00:05:10.022 --> 00:05:11.232 We're in the middle of nowhere. 00:05:11.691 --> 00:05:14.151 I have no idea what to expect on this journey. 00:05:14.318 --> 00:05:16.153 I hope we don't get lost in the desert. 00:05:16.445 --> 00:05:17.530 All seriousness, 00:05:17.613 --> 00:05:20.616 whatever we do, I... I just hope my hair don't get messed up. 00:05:24.704 --> 00:05:27.290 - And here we go, you guys. - Oh, what is this? 00:05:28.207 --> 00:05:30.459 Oh, my gosh. Really? 00:05:35.548 --> 00:05:36.716 Do we just go inside? 00:05:36.966 --> 00:05:39.010 - It looks really nice, though. - Do we go in? 00:05:39.844 --> 00:05:41.262 - It's locked. - Hello? 00:05:41.345 --> 00:05:42.930 Ring the doorbell. 00:05:43.764 --> 00:05:44.765 Hello? 00:05:44.849 --> 00:05:45.933 - Nice try. - Hello? 00:05:46.017 --> 00:05:47.393 Did they give you a key or something? 00:05:47.476 --> 00:05:48.728 - No. - No. I don't... 00:05:48.811 --> 00:05:50.730 What's going on, Hernandez family? 00:05:50.855 --> 00:05:51.731 -How are you? -Hello. 00:05:51.814 --> 00:05:52.773 -Hi. -Hey, how you doing? 00:05:52.898 --> 00:05:55.109 Hi. I'm Arel, I'm your reboot guide. Come on down. 00:05:55.693 --> 00:05:59.322 I'm Arel Moodie. I'm a motivational speaker and life coach, 00:05:59.530 --> 00:06:02.450 specializing in creating positive dynamics within families. 00:06:02.825 --> 00:06:04.869 So, how was the drive out here? 00:06:05.077 --> 00:06:06.370 - It was really good. - It was good. 00:06:06.454 --> 00:06:07.621 It was very suspenseful. 00:06:07.747 --> 00:06:09.248 Suspenseful? 00:06:09.582 --> 00:06:12.168 That's very good. And what do you think about the house? 00:06:12.334 --> 00:06:13.669 -It's pretty cool, huh? -Yeah, it's very nice. 00:06:13.753 --> 00:06:15.838 - Yeah. The door's locked. - We just can't get inside. 00:06:15.963 --> 00:06:17.465 There's a reason you can't get in, because this week 00:06:17.548 --> 00:06:19.300 is all about us having a lot of fun, 00:06:19.467 --> 00:06:21.594 and reconnecting, and getting back to being 00:06:21.677 --> 00:06:22.762 together as a family. 00:06:22.887 --> 00:06:25.556 And to start that off, we got a little activity for you 00:06:25.723 --> 00:06:28.601 to help you get the key so you can get inside. 00:06:28.684 --> 00:06:30.019 -All right. -Okay. 00:06:30.728 --> 00:06:32.229 This is totally unexpected. 00:06:32.396 --> 00:06:35.024 I thought he's coming to give us the key so we can come in. 00:06:35.566 --> 00:06:37.068 Where are you taking us? 00:06:37.526 --> 00:06:41.197 But then he surprised us and said we gotta figure out how to get in. 00:06:41.363 --> 00:06:43.324 - What's going on here? - Oh, Lord. 00:06:43.449 --> 00:06:46.410 - What is this? - Is that a ball pit? 00:06:49.955 --> 00:06:52.958 The key must be somewhere in there. 00:06:53.125 --> 00:06:56.378 -Is the key in here? -No, the key is not in here, 00:06:56.462 --> 00:06:58.088 but this is super important 00:06:58.214 --> 00:06:59.799 - for you to actually get the key. - Okay. 00:06:59.924 --> 00:07:02.384 So, let me break down what's gonna go down for this fun activity here. 00:07:03.427 --> 00:07:06.931 Inside of this ball pit, there are 30 different blocks. 00:07:07.556 --> 00:07:10.851 All different sizes. But only five of them 00:07:11.435 --> 00:07:15.189 are the right pieces to fit into that box over there 00:07:15.356 --> 00:07:16.941 to release the key. 00:07:17.107 --> 00:07:18.275 - So, your goal... - Wow. 00:07:18.359 --> 00:07:21.987 ...as a family is to get in here and find the right pieces 00:07:22.154 --> 00:07:24.490 before you can get yourself into the house. 00:07:24.615 --> 00:07:25.658 Oh, man. 00:07:25.950 --> 00:07:27.076 I'm very excited. 00:07:27.243 --> 00:07:29.119 We don't really work together like this usually, 00:07:29.203 --> 00:07:30.704 so this will be something very different. 00:07:31.330 --> 00:07:33.415 So, with that said, jump on in. 00:07:39.547 --> 00:07:42.550 - I got one, yeah! Oh, that's your leg. - That's my leg, dude. 00:07:44.218 --> 00:07:47.429 First activity is all about them working together as a team. 00:07:47.596 --> 00:07:48.847 I found one. 00:07:49.431 --> 00:07:51.350 Not it. They gotta be smaller. 00:07:51.892 --> 00:07:54.603 When they unlock the access to the key, 00:07:54.728 --> 00:07:57.064 it's because they did it together as a family. 00:07:57.231 --> 00:07:59.066 There's one. That one's gonna fit in there. 00:07:59.316 --> 00:08:00.401 It fits. 00:08:02.611 --> 00:08:05.781 - Alonzo! - Trey! 00:08:05.948 --> 00:08:06.949 We're losing bodies. 00:08:13.831 --> 00:08:15.958 Only two more to go. We're almost there. 00:08:16.208 --> 00:08:19.044 We gotta have somewhere to sleep tonight. 00:08:20.087 --> 00:08:21.755 -Where is Alonzo? -He's right here. 00:08:21.964 --> 00:08:24.675 - Huh? What? - Come on, y'all. We got this. 00:08:26.427 --> 00:08:27.803 We need one more. 00:08:28.679 --> 00:08:31.974 - One more? Oh, wait. I think that's it. - We got it. 00:08:32.099 --> 00:08:33.684 - Come on. - Is it? 00:08:37.855 --> 00:08:39.189 -No, it's too big. -No, straight. 00:08:39.356 --> 00:08:41.233 -Flip it upside down. -Oh, it's too big. 00:08:41.358 --> 00:08:42.901 Oh, no, that's it. 00:08:43.068 --> 00:08:44.486 So, everybody get a block. 00:08:44.570 --> 00:08:45.446 All right, okay. 00:08:45.696 --> 00:08:47.573 -Three, two, one. -Three, two, one. 00:08:49.450 --> 00:08:51.535 -There it is! -Get the key, Teyon. Get the key. 00:08:52.161 --> 00:08:54.913 -Yes! -Now we got somewhere to sleep. 00:08:54.997 --> 00:08:57.166 Good job. That looked like a lot of fun. 00:08:57.374 --> 00:08:59.460 You worked together, had some fun doing it, 00:08:59.626 --> 00:09:01.503 and now you get to see how cool... 00:09:01.587 --> 00:09:03.714 - Finally get in the house. - ...the inside of this house actually is. 00:09:03.881 --> 00:09:05.090 Yes. 00:09:05.257 --> 00:09:07.384 Why don't you go check out your new place, and I'll see you later? 00:09:07.468 --> 00:09:08.510 Have a great time, y'all. 00:09:08.677 --> 00:09:10.512 - All right. - Let's go. 00:09:10.637 --> 00:09:12.389 This is great because this just reminds me 00:09:12.473 --> 00:09:16.310 of how much we were just having fun together as a family, coming together. 00:09:16.477 --> 00:09:17.728 And just being silly. 00:09:17.811 --> 00:09:20.272 This makes me look forward to the journey ahead. 00:09:20.481 --> 00:09:22.358 Woah! 00:09:22.608 --> 00:09:25.319 - Oh, my God. - It's so big in here. 00:09:25.444 --> 00:09:27.780 Let me see. There's a telescope. 00:09:28.364 --> 00:09:31.241 Baby, the one with the bunk beds, that's mine and yours. 00:09:32.701 --> 00:09:33.952 I got the top, though. 00:09:34.036 --> 00:09:36.205 I like... I really like this house. It's really nice. 00:09:36.288 --> 00:09:37.498 - It's spacious. - Really spacious. 00:09:37.664 --> 00:09:40.167 And it got the most important thing in it. 00:09:40.793 --> 00:09:41.877 -Us? -Coffee pot. 00:09:41.960 --> 00:09:43.712 Oh. 00:09:45.255 --> 00:09:46.840 -What's going on, y'all? -Arel! What's going on? 00:09:46.924 --> 00:09:48.175 - How is it going? - Really nice. 00:09:48.300 --> 00:09:50.135 Yes. So, why don't you two, 00:09:50.344 --> 00:09:54.181 if you want to grab a sweatshirt and let's have a chat, meet me outside? 00:09:54.348 --> 00:09:55.849 -All right. -Okay. Sounds good, man. 00:10:00.187 --> 00:10:01.730 I just wanna check in 'cause I know, 00:10:01.814 --> 00:10:03.690 you know, your son's going off to college... 00:10:03.816 --> 00:10:05.192 -Yeah. -...and things are gonna be changing, 00:10:05.317 --> 00:10:06.902 but you wanna keep that family unit. 00:10:07.069 --> 00:10:10.489 So, what do you hope to get out of your experience here this week? 00:10:10.864 --> 00:10:13.075 Of course, we wanna make sure that we have that bonding time, 00:10:13.158 --> 00:10:14.952 -you know, without any interruptions. -Yes. 00:10:15.119 --> 00:10:17.371 And just, you know, enjoy each other, 00:10:17.454 --> 00:10:19.206 especially with Te'vey going off to college. 00:10:19.414 --> 00:10:21.041 - Just have fun. - There we go. Wonderful. 00:10:21.416 --> 00:10:22.417 Anything else? 00:10:22.543 --> 00:10:26.672 Well, now that you mentioned that, I definitely got a surprise 00:10:26.755 --> 00:10:29.758 that I want to tell the kids, and I would like for you to help... 00:10:29.842 --> 00:10:31.301 - Okay. - ...me with that surprise. 00:10:31.385 --> 00:10:35.681 - But you gotta keep it a secret. - Okay, now I'm interested. What's up? 00:10:36.348 --> 00:10:39.977 So, I'm thinking about, uh, adopting the kids. 00:10:41.103 --> 00:10:43.063 I'm not the biological father, 00:10:43.146 --> 00:10:46.692 but I think the love that we have for each other is definitely... 00:10:46.775 --> 00:10:50.028 I mean, it's definitely there, you know? And I just wanna make that complete. 00:10:50.112 --> 00:10:52.865 So, I just look forward to telling the kids. 00:10:53.031 --> 00:10:54.575 I think they're gonna be excited. 00:10:55.450 --> 00:10:57.327 It's amazing. How do you feel about that? 00:10:57.536 --> 00:11:01.498 It warms my heart to know I've found someone that loves me 00:11:01.623 --> 00:11:05.627 and he took my children as his own with no issue. 00:11:05.961 --> 00:11:09.131 He is the father, and their bond is awesome. 00:11:09.381 --> 00:11:12.634 This is really exciting. Why does now feel like the right time for this? 00:11:12.759 --> 00:11:16.096 Because before, you know, it was just a busy schedule, deployments. 00:11:16.221 --> 00:11:18.599 When we was overseas, we weren't able to do it... 00:11:18.724 --> 00:11:20.058 -Yeah. -...but now that we're back, 00:11:20.225 --> 00:11:21.643 we just wanted to make it official. 00:11:22.269 --> 00:11:26.273 They're a little bit older now, so I think they're just at a better age 00:11:26.440 --> 00:11:27.566 of understanding it all. 00:11:27.649 --> 00:11:30.402 And I just... I feel like it's the perfect time 00:11:30.569 --> 00:11:31.653 to tell the kids. 00:11:46.710 --> 00:11:49.921 - You're a cowboy now? - It's about to go down. 00:11:50.213 --> 00:11:53.759 So, I hear that with your busy lives, 00:11:53.967 --> 00:11:56.887 going to school, deployment, nursing, all that, 00:11:57.095 --> 00:11:59.306 it's hard to wrangle the whole family. 00:11:59.473 --> 00:12:00.474 I like that. 00:12:00.849 --> 00:12:04.311 I thought it would be a really good idea for us to wrangle some cattle. 00:12:04.394 --> 00:12:05.771 -Okay. -Okay. 00:12:08.607 --> 00:12:11.318 So, we got some hats for you, we got some bandanas for you. 00:12:11.401 --> 00:12:12.569 Yes. 00:12:12.736 --> 00:12:14.738 This is awesome. 00:12:14.988 --> 00:12:16.907 Now, we wanna get the loop-de-loop going. 00:12:17.115 --> 00:12:21.119 Bring your lasso loop above your head and rotate your wrist. 00:12:22.412 --> 00:12:24.623 Yee-haw. 00:12:24.706 --> 00:12:27.709 There you go. There it is. Damn, y'all looking good. 00:12:30.295 --> 00:12:31.963 All right. So now we're ready for the next step. 00:12:32.172 --> 00:12:33.507 We rope it, okay? 00:12:33.673 --> 00:12:37.302 We're gonna be wrangling these steer, representing bringing the family back. 00:12:37.386 --> 00:12:40.263 Okay? What you wanna do is get it over the top, get the loop. 00:12:40.389 --> 00:12:43.016 -All right. All right. -Then you wanna throw it like a baseball. 00:12:43.183 --> 00:12:44.351 Give it a yee-haw. 00:12:44.601 --> 00:12:46.103 -Yee-haw! You got it. -Bam! 00:12:46.228 --> 00:12:48.146 Te'vean, let's go. 00:12:49.106 --> 00:12:51.066 You are going off to college. 00:12:51.691 --> 00:12:55.487 How would you like to make sure that your family stays wrangled together 00:12:55.570 --> 00:12:57.239 even though you're going to this new phase of life? 00:12:57.489 --> 00:12:59.658 I'd like everybody to stay connected, 00:12:59.741 --> 00:13:01.952 you know, back each other up once I'm not there. 00:13:02.160 --> 00:13:03.703 All right. Let's see what you can do. 00:13:08.125 --> 00:13:10.877 Whoa! That was close, though. 00:13:11.128 --> 00:13:12.295 All right, let's go. 00:13:12.420 --> 00:13:13.839 All right. Here we go, Te'vey. Come on. 00:13:13.964 --> 00:13:15.799 -You got it. You got it. -Come on, Te'vey. Come on. 00:13:15.966 --> 00:13:17.008 -Here we go. -There you go. 00:13:17.175 --> 00:13:18.385 Yes! you got it, Te'vey! 00:13:18.552 --> 00:13:20.387 - Yes! - Awesome, man. 00:13:20.512 --> 00:13:21.763 Tell me that doesn't feel good! 00:13:21.930 --> 00:13:23.849 It feels really good. 00:13:24.182 --> 00:13:28.520 What's a way that you would like to wrangle your family together? 00:13:29.146 --> 00:13:33.191 I would love for us to have dinner at least three times a week together. 00:13:34.442 --> 00:13:36.194 You got it, baby. Don't forget the yee-haw. 00:13:38.280 --> 00:13:40.282 -Yee-haw! Oh, my gosh. -Oh, my God! 00:13:40.365 --> 00:13:41.366 Almost. 00:13:41.992 --> 00:13:43.243 It hit the ear. 00:13:43.410 --> 00:13:44.953 - There you go, Trey. - All right, Trey. 00:13:45.162 --> 00:13:47.873 Before you go, what's something you would like 00:13:47.956 --> 00:13:49.416 to make sure the family does? 00:13:49.791 --> 00:13:52.711 -Going to the movies more. -All right. You're up, brother. 00:13:52.961 --> 00:13:55.255 - There you go. - Come on, Trey. 00:13:57.591 --> 00:13:59.843 Yee-haw. 00:14:00.719 --> 00:14:02.470 - Teyon, you got it. - Let's go, Teyon. 00:14:02.554 --> 00:14:03.555 Come on, cowgirl. 00:14:03.722 --> 00:14:07.100 What do you wanna do to make sure the family is staying connected? 00:14:07.267 --> 00:14:10.145 Just schedule more time to spend together as a family. 00:14:10.437 --> 00:14:12.522 - All right. Let's get it done. - You got it. 00:14:12.606 --> 00:14:14.608 - There you go, Teyon. - Here we go, Teyon. 00:14:14.774 --> 00:14:16.359 - Come on. - Come on. Come on. 00:14:16.484 --> 00:14:18.945 Yay! You got it! 00:14:20.238 --> 00:14:23.533 - Damn! - Yes! That was amazing. 00:14:23.950 --> 00:14:26.369 Alonzo, you're the anchor, you gotta hold it all down now. 00:14:26.953 --> 00:14:29.372 What's important to me is just that they all love each other, 00:14:29.581 --> 00:14:31.625 be there for one another, no matter what. 00:14:31.708 --> 00:14:33.835 But you know you gotta give me a yee-haw before you go. 00:14:34.002 --> 00:14:35.754 Okay. Yee-haw! 00:14:35.879 --> 00:14:38.298 All right. That was very Texas. That was very Texas. 00:14:38.465 --> 00:14:40.258 -Wrangle that bull, baby. -All right. 00:14:42.802 --> 00:14:44.012 - All right. - Come on. 00:14:44.095 --> 00:14:45.138 You good. 00:14:45.305 --> 00:14:47.641 - Come on. Come on, baby. - All right. Yee-haw! 00:14:47.766 --> 00:14:50.352 - Get it. There you go. - Here we go. 00:14:50.602 --> 00:14:51.811 -Yes! -Oh. Come on, now. 00:14:51.895 --> 00:14:54.147 Yeah, that counts! Get it by the *. 00:14:54.689 --> 00:14:56.024 It won't come up... There we go. 00:15:00.028 --> 00:15:03.031 Listen, it's all about the effort, doing life, family stuff. 00:15:03.156 --> 00:15:04.532 We're not gonna do everything perfect, 00:15:04.699 --> 00:15:07.243 but we gotta stay focused on the process and you did a great job with that. 00:15:07.410 --> 00:15:09.537 Appreciate it, man. Thank you. Couldn't do it without the family. 00:15:09.621 --> 00:15:12.916 - That's right. That's right. - Good job, baby. 00:15:13.958 --> 00:15:16.628 I think it's really important for us when we get back home 00:15:16.836 --> 00:15:19.339 to find some time to just spend together and connect, 00:15:19.422 --> 00:15:20.924 and have fun like we just did. 00:15:21.174 --> 00:15:24.552 - That was so fun. - That was so much fun. Awesome. 00:15:29.599 --> 00:15:32.686 You know, what I really can tell about your family is that 00:15:32.769 --> 00:15:34.270 you genuinely like being around each other. 00:15:34.396 --> 00:15:35.814 -You know? And it's really beautiful. -Yes. 00:15:35.897 --> 00:15:39.109 A lot of people can love their family, it don't mean they like their family. 00:15:39.234 --> 00:15:40.443 - Right? - Exactly. 00:15:41.027 --> 00:15:45.740 Alonzo, you ready to make the official stamp of dad-hood? 00:15:45.990 --> 00:15:49.244 Yes. Tonight will be the perfect time to tell the kids 00:15:49.452 --> 00:15:52.122 and making that promise that I'm gonna adopt them. 00:15:52.205 --> 00:15:53.581 Oh, man, I'm just excited. 00:15:53.790 --> 00:15:58.128 Telling the kids that you want to move from just something that's in your heart 00:15:58.211 --> 00:16:00.547 to making it something that's in the world and official is the first step 00:16:00.630 --> 00:16:01.840 in a... in a beautiful process. 00:16:02.257 --> 00:16:03.508 It's gonna be great. 00:16:11.266 --> 00:16:12.517 Thank you for adding that. 00:16:12.642 --> 00:16:14.853 I'm glad we did this. This is really nice. 00:16:15.186 --> 00:16:17.730 Together as a family in this beautiful place 00:16:17.897 --> 00:16:21.067 and this warm fire... 00:16:21.359 --> 00:16:24.988 I know sometimes, with our work schedule, you know, your school schedules, 00:16:25.071 --> 00:16:27.574 sometimes we just don't really get a chance to... 00:16:27.907 --> 00:16:30.076 interact with each other, doing something different. 00:16:30.618 --> 00:16:32.996 When I married your mother, it was the greatest feeling, 00:16:33.246 --> 00:16:37.834 but knowing that you guys were a part of that was even better. 00:16:38.376 --> 00:16:42.589 The love that you guys showed me made this being a father stuff, 00:16:42.755 --> 00:16:44.090 you know, really easy. 00:16:44.257 --> 00:16:47.051 Te'vean, I know I'm not your biological father, 00:16:47.177 --> 00:16:50.930 but I see everything in you that I would want 00:16:51.055 --> 00:16:52.724 my biological son to have. 00:16:52.932 --> 00:16:56.603 When you're away to college, I want you to just know that 00:16:57.270 --> 00:16:59.856 you can do anything that you want. I know that sounds cliché, 00:17:00.023 --> 00:17:04.652 but I really see that, you know, like, you're intelligent, you're talented. 00:17:04.903 --> 00:17:07.071 I mean, you just got a great personality. 00:17:07.322 --> 00:17:11.743 Just know that we love you and we support you in whatever you do. 00:17:12.452 --> 00:17:14.829 Teyon, you're very special to me. 00:17:15.038 --> 00:17:19.834 I love your attitude, I love your free spirit. You're so creative. 00:17:20.084 --> 00:17:23.379 And I see you not doing stuff for yourself, 00:17:23.671 --> 00:17:25.798 but doing stuff for the world. 00:17:27.258 --> 00:17:29.385 And my little Trevon. 00:17:30.303 --> 00:17:32.221 I see a lot of myself in you. 00:17:32.388 --> 00:17:36.059 You're great, you're awesome, and I love you very much. 00:17:36.768 --> 00:17:39.354 I just want you guys to know that 00:17:40.271 --> 00:17:44.275 I wanna make a promise to adopt you guys. 00:17:45.610 --> 00:17:46.986 So, what do you guys think? 00:17:47.904 --> 00:17:48.988 I'd like that. 00:17:49.489 --> 00:17:52.408 Yeah, I think it's really exciting that you would do this for us. 00:17:53.284 --> 00:17:56.955 You've always been there for us. All three of us really love you. 00:17:57.288 --> 00:18:01.626 You felt like a father to all three of us, whether or not, like, you had adopted us. 00:18:01.834 --> 00:18:04.170 I think it's awesome that you would do this. 00:18:05.213 --> 00:18:06.714 You've always been a father to us. 00:18:08.091 --> 00:18:12.470 I can confidently and truly say that he loves you 00:18:12.637 --> 00:18:14.180 just as much as I love you. 00:18:14.263 --> 00:18:16.265 I'm just really thankful for you guys. 00:18:16.516 --> 00:18:19.310 And I really love you guys, you know, from the bottom of my heart. 00:18:19.894 --> 00:18:23.898 Telling the kids that I want to adopt them was just a great feeling. 00:18:24.190 --> 00:18:26.609 For them to just really know, like, how much I love them 00:18:26.734 --> 00:18:28.820 and how much they mean to me has been amazing. 00:18:29.070 --> 00:18:30.571 Maybe you can buy a ball pit. 00:18:30.738 --> 00:18:33.825 Yeah, and I'll throw the Wi-Fi password in there every day, y'all can find it. 00:18:40.331 --> 00:18:42.333 The Hernandez family clearly loves each other. 00:18:42.792 --> 00:18:45.294 They like being around one another. They like playing together. 00:18:45.378 --> 00:18:46.421 They like getting silly. 00:18:46.587 --> 00:18:47.922 They're like cactuses. 00:18:48.089 --> 00:18:51.926 And because Alonzo's got big plans to formally adopt his children, 00:18:52.135 --> 00:18:55.513 this next activity is all about them working towards one goal 00:18:55.680 --> 00:18:57.598 together as a family unit. 00:18:57.765 --> 00:18:59.809 -Hello. -Come on in. 00:18:59.976 --> 00:19:02.061 I'm super excited about this one. 00:19:05.022 --> 00:19:06.441 Here's what's about to go down. 00:19:06.607 --> 00:19:09.152 Each one of you are gonna choose a different station. 00:19:10.319 --> 00:19:12.196 You're gonna go ahead and put your cactus helmet on. 00:19:12.864 --> 00:19:14.449 Under your helmet, you're gonna have a bucket. 00:19:14.657 --> 00:19:17.201 - All right. - Your job is to throw 00:19:17.285 --> 00:19:21.080 the water balloons at the helmet. Break the water balloons. 00:19:21.164 --> 00:19:24.792 When the water pops, you wanna catch it in your bucket. 00:19:25.960 --> 00:19:28.963 Fill the bucket up that you have, and then come to the center 00:19:29.130 --> 00:19:31.382 and get it past this red line. 00:19:32.884 --> 00:19:34.385 It's gonna be awesome. 00:19:34.469 --> 00:19:36.345 - Go ahead, grab your spot. - Let's do this. 00:19:38.055 --> 00:19:40.349 It's a water balloon fight, but it's different. 00:19:40.600 --> 00:19:43.811 This is all about them communicating and having fun together. 00:19:49.859 --> 00:19:55.489 Let's get it going on the count of three. One, two, three. 00:20:02.914 --> 00:20:05.625 Wait, that's mean. Wait, I wasn't ready. 00:20:05.750 --> 00:20:07.418 -Ready, Mommy? -Go, go, go. Go. 00:20:07.960 --> 00:20:11.130 Oh, look at that. There you go, Trey. You're doing great. 00:20:11.255 --> 00:20:12.798 - There you go. - I dig it. 00:20:13.424 --> 00:20:17.094 - Okay. Ready, Trev? - Don't bring your head down too much. 00:20:17.178 --> 00:20:18.679 -All right. Go. -Just slightly. 00:20:18.804 --> 00:20:20.348 - There you go. - There you go. 00:20:21.807 --> 00:20:26.103 Come on. Trey got all these balloons in there, not water. 00:20:26.437 --> 00:20:28.397 Ready? 00:20:30.274 --> 00:20:32.902 Yeah! 00:20:33.819 --> 00:20:35.529 Ready? 00:20:35.905 --> 00:20:37.031 There you go. 00:20:37.198 --> 00:20:38.324 Let me pour mine in. 00:20:45.289 --> 00:20:47.333 - Where'd that come from? - I don't know. 00:20:47.917 --> 00:20:49.335 I was feeling a lot of body shots. 00:20:49.502 --> 00:20:51.671 All right. Ready? 00:20:51.921 --> 00:20:54.256 - The cactus are on the helmet. - Okay, just stay like that. 00:20:57.468 --> 00:21:00.513 Go ahead, honey. We're almost there, we're almost there. 00:21:00.638 --> 00:21:02.223 - Let's see. - It's quite a lot. 00:21:02.348 --> 00:21:04.475 - Here we go. Here we go. - Let's see. 00:21:04.558 --> 00:21:05.601 That's it. 00:21:05.810 --> 00:21:07.144 Yes! Finally! 00:21:07.436 --> 00:21:08.729 Good job, Te'vey! 00:21:08.813 --> 00:21:10.147 - Awesome. Good job, Trey! - Good job! 00:21:10.272 --> 00:21:12.400 I wish that the red line 00:21:12.483 --> 00:21:14.360 was a little bit higher so we could keep going. 00:21:14.735 --> 00:21:19.323 -Good job! -Great job! That was... amazing! 00:21:20.032 --> 00:21:22.493 I'm glad you could see, you can get silly with each other, right? 00:21:22.702 --> 00:21:23.703 -Yes, yes. -Oh, yes. 00:21:23.911 --> 00:21:25.538 Life doesn't have to be so serious. 00:21:25.663 --> 00:21:27.623 You can find time to just throw water balloons 00:21:27.707 --> 00:21:29.250 and have some fun. 00:21:29.333 --> 00:21:31.043 You know, I gotta tell you. The cactus helmets, 00:21:31.127 --> 00:21:32.670 they look good on y'all. You're making it look good. 00:21:32.753 --> 00:21:34.130 -I really appreciate that. -Looking pretty sharp. 00:21:34.296 --> 00:21:37.008 I'm feeling it. I'm feeling it. This is what it's all about. 00:21:37.174 --> 00:21:39.427 - Yeah. - It's about just cutting loose, having fun 00:21:39.510 --> 00:21:42.722 and being able to enjoy these really, really silly moments. 00:21:42.847 --> 00:21:43.931 You know what I mean? 00:21:44.390 --> 00:21:45.850 What I hope our family takes from this 00:21:46.016 --> 00:21:49.562 is that we're always growing closer together, we're always connected, 00:21:49.687 --> 00:21:52.189 and having a lot of fun together. That's what matters. 00:21:53.065 --> 00:21:56.110 Just watching the kids just have fun and just bond together. 00:21:56.193 --> 00:21:57.403 I mean, it was awesome. 00:21:58.070 --> 00:22:00.865 This journey has been nothing short but amazing for us. 00:22:01.031 --> 00:22:02.575 This is something we'll always remember. 00:22:02.908 --> 00:22:03.993 You definitely got the wettest. 00:22:04.243 --> 00:22:05.953 - Yeah. - You took one for the team, baby. 00:22:06.078 --> 00:22:08.289 - That's what it's all about. - Yeah. 00:22:12.251 --> 00:22:14.128 Oh! Remember this? 00:22:14.211 --> 00:22:15.755 - Yeah, that was fun, man. - When we put 00:22:15.880 --> 00:22:17.882 - those cactuses on our heads. - Trey, look. 00:22:18.007 --> 00:22:20.760 I think you guys were just throwing water balloons at me at one point. 00:22:21.844 --> 00:22:26.056 Time is so important. Memories are so important. 00:22:26.348 --> 00:22:28.851 Especially since you guys are getting older 00:22:29.018 --> 00:22:32.646 and will be leaving soon. Te'vey going off to college, you know? 00:22:33.063 --> 00:22:35.733 Things like this is really important. 00:22:38.986 --> 00:22:40.821 Oh, look at this picture of you, Trey. 00:22:41.697 --> 00:22:44.408 This journey was much needed for our family. 00:22:44.617 --> 00:22:46.952 We actually sit down at the table more. 00:22:47.203 --> 00:22:49.872 Without any electronics. Nobody being on their phone. 00:22:50.331 --> 00:22:51.499 Man... 00:22:51.999 --> 00:22:54.752 I realized how important it is to spend time with my siblings. 00:22:54.877 --> 00:22:56.754 And it's really important to maintain that connection. 00:22:56.921 --> 00:22:58.464 Put one more bun on there. 00:22:59.215 --> 00:23:02.176 I feel like everyone is being more social and interactive. 00:23:02.259 --> 00:23:03.302 Go like this. 00:23:04.970 --> 00:23:06.847 Who wants their buns toasted? 00:23:09.517 --> 00:23:10.935 Can we do this again? 00:23:11.143 --> 00:23:12.645 Of course, man.