WEBVTT 00:00:34.873 --> 00:00:39.836     2 00:00:39,281 --> 00:00:40,537 So you're asking her tonight? 00:00:41.254 --> 00:00:42.922 Yeah. Any advice? 00:00:43.048 --> 00:00:44.507 Go for the grand gesture. 00:00:44.632 --> 00:00:47.010 I used to do stuff like that all the time. 00:00:47.135 --> 00:00:48.386 He never did anything like that. 00:00:48.428 --> 00:00:49.721 It was totally out of character. 00:00:49.846 --> 00:00:51.181 40,000. Do I have 45? 00:00:51.306 --> 00:00:54.434 Actually, David's proposal was probably 00:00:54.559 --> 00:00:56.644 the only time he ever surprised me. 00:00:56.770 --> 00:00:58.646 We dated all four years she was in college. 00:00:58.772 --> 00:01:00.899 I had a spot in the master's program for architecture, 00:01:01.024 --> 00:01:03.443 so I was definitely staying in Chicago. 00:01:03.568 --> 00:01:05.111 Then out of nowhere, I get an offer 00:01:05.236 --> 00:01:06.946 from a great gallery in L.A. 70,000? 00:01:06.946 --> 00:01:07.363 - 70. - 70,000. 00:01:07.489 --> 00:01:08.948 So, the night before graduation... 00:01:09.074 --> 00:01:10.825 and she springs it on me she's leaving. 00:01:10.950 --> 00:01:13.244 And I'm calm. You know, happy for her. 00:01:13.369 --> 00:01:15.455 He freaks out completely. 00:01:16.498 --> 00:01:19.375 So, the next morning, at the ceremony, 00:01:19.501 --> 00:01:22.629 I'm up there walking towards the dean and my diploma, 00:01:22.754 --> 00:01:26.091 and suddenly, there's David, 00:01:26.216 --> 00:01:28.510 right next to me, down on one knee. 00:01:28.635 --> 00:01:30.720 And she starts crying. 00:01:30.845 --> 00:01:33.098 I'm so embarrassed. 00:01:33.223 --> 00:01:34.432 The whole place erupts. 00:01:34.557 --> 00:01:36.101 Everybody's clapping and shouting. 00:01:36.226 --> 00:01:38.228 Except her parents. They thought she was too young. 00:01:38.311 --> 00:01:39.646 They thought I could do better. 00:01:39.813 --> 00:01:42.398 But who ever listens to their parents? 00:01:42.524 --> 00:01:44.359 Sold to Georgia Cotton. 00:01:46.277 --> 00:01:49.531 Long story short, she didn't move to California, 00:01:49.656 --> 00:01:51.616 and a month later, we were pregnant with Lily. 00:01:51.741 --> 00:01:53.034 That's amazing. 00:01:53.159 --> 00:01:54.410 Wait, how long ago? 00:01:54.536 --> 00:01:57.372 Let me do the math. 00:01:57.497 --> 00:02:00.416 March 7th, it'll be 25 years. 00:02:00.583 --> 00:02:02.544 Incredible. 25 years of marriage. 00:02:02.669 --> 00:02:04.838 God. We're not married. 00:02:04.963 --> 00:02:06.756 God, no. 00:02:06.881 --> 00:02:09.384 We divorced five years later. 00:02:09.509 --> 00:02:11.553 And it's not one of those amicable divorces 00:02:11.678 --> 00:02:13.346 you see on TV. 00:02:13.471 --> 00:02:15.640 I try not to be in the same time zone if I can help it, 00:02:15.682 --> 00:02:17.851 but Lily's graduating tomorrow, so here I am. 00:02:17.976 --> 00:02:19.435 Wow, that's got to be awkward. 00:02:19.561 --> 00:02:21.354 What? No. Ancient history. 00:02:21.479 --> 00:02:22.647 Yeah. 00:02:22.772 --> 00:02:24.649 Nightmare. 00:02:24.774 --> 00:02:26.401 Check, please. 00:02:30.446 --> 00:02:32.073 What are you doing? 00:02:33.074 --> 00:02:35.034 - I'm packing. - You're packing work. 00:02:35.160 --> 00:02:36.452 Don't pack work. 00:02:36.578 --> 00:02:37.871 Why would you pack work? 00:02:37.996 --> 00:02:39.164 Because it's a short vacation 00:02:39.247 --> 00:02:40.540 and a very long life afterwards. 00:02:40.582 --> 00:02:41.749 Yeah, I've been thinking about that, 00:02:41.791 --> 00:02:43.209 and I really don't think this whole 00:02:43.334 --> 00:02:45.211 "being an adult" thing is gonna work out for me. 00:02:46.921 --> 00:02:49.966 Yeah, well, I don't really have a choice. 00:02:50.091 --> 00:02:51.176 Hey, Mom. 00:02:51.301 --> 00:02:53.136 So I'm just steaming my outfit, 00:02:53.261 --> 00:02:55.305 and I am wondering where I'm sitting. 00:02:55.430 --> 00:02:57.599 Not that it matters. To me, I mean. 00:02:57.765 --> 00:02:59.601 Just... I mean, it doesn't matter to me at all. 00:02:59.726 --> 00:03:01.019 Then why did you... 00:03:01.144 --> 00:03:03.104 Hang on. It's Dad. 00:03:04.647 --> 00:03:06.774 Hey, Dad. Mom's on the other line. 00:03:06.900 --> 00:03:08.610 Don't say hi from me. 00:03:08.735 --> 00:03:10.195 You're not sitting together, okay? 00:03:10.320 --> 00:03:11.905 You're on opposite sides of the auditorium, 00:03:11.905 --> 00:03:13.364 which is the size of Rhode Island. 00:03:13.489 --> 00:03:14.991 That's the smallest state. 00:03:16.326 --> 00:03:18.036 So you promise? 00:03:18.161 --> 00:03:22.040 No mean comments, no arguing, no passive aggression? 00:03:22.165 --> 00:03:24.626 What about aggressive aggression? Is that okay? 00:03:24.751 --> 00:03:27.378 I love you. I love you. 00:03:28.421 --> 00:03:30.798 This is gonna be an unbearable day. 00:03:30.924 --> 00:03:32.383 Come on. 00:03:32.508 --> 00:03:34.719 We shake an old guy's hand and wear a dumb hat. 00:03:34.844 --> 00:03:37.430 What could possibly go wrong? 00:03:37.555 --> 00:03:39.557 They're sitting together. 00:03:44.145 --> 00:03:45.313 Good afternoon. 00:03:45.438 --> 00:03:47.148 Excuse me. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 00:03:47.273 --> 00:03:50.610 On behalf of the faculty and staff of Pullman University... 00:03:50.735 --> 00:03:52.195 - Big day. - Yeah. 00:03:52.320 --> 00:03:54.822 It is my privilege to welcome the parents, 00:03:54.948 --> 00:03:57.867 family and friends of our graduating seniors. 00:03:57.992 --> 00:03:59.661 You got to be kidding me. 00:03:59.786 --> 00:04:01.204 Guess this is my seat, 00:04:01.329 --> 00:04:03.581 as you haven't had a date since Lily was in braces. 00:04:03.706 --> 00:04:05.667 At least when I do date, it's age-appropriate. 00:04:05.792 --> 00:04:08.920 You just don't like him because he's French. 00:04:09.087 --> 00:04:10.505 I like the French. 00:04:10.630 --> 00:04:12.048 I like their fries, their toast. 00:04:12.173 --> 00:04:13.466 I specifically asked Lily 00:04:13.591 --> 00:04:15.093 - not to seat us together. - Their mustard. 00:04:15.093 --> 00:04:16.386 What? You called her? That's so pathetic. 00:04:16.427 --> 00:04:17.720 - Shh. It's starting. - Don't shush me. 00:04:17.720 --> 00:04:19.264 - Shh. - Don't shush me. 00:04:19.430 --> 00:04:23.434 So, without further ado, let's begin the roll call. 00:04:23.559 --> 00:04:25.770 Wren Butler. 00:04:25.895 --> 00:04:27.563 Yes! 00:04:28.606 --> 00:04:30.525 Wrenny! 00:04:33.569 --> 00:04:34.904 This is so like you. 00:04:35.029 --> 00:04:36.531 - Take, take, take. - It is not a metaphor. 00:04:36.572 --> 00:04:38.032 It is an armrest. Wilson Chang. 00:04:38.199 --> 00:04:40.368 Give me half, please. I would like half. 00:04:42.287 --> 00:04:43.579 Just give me half. 00:04:43.705 --> 00:04:44.998 What is wrong with you? I just want half! 00:04:45.039 --> 00:04:47.125 Lily Cotton. Hey. 00:04:50.420 --> 00:04:51.963 - Take a picture. - You take a picture. 00:04:52.046 --> 00:04:53.756 - I'm in the moment. - Why do you need a picture? 00:04:53.798 --> 00:04:54.716 So I don't forget the moment. 00:04:56.426 --> 00:04:58.094 I can't believe my baby's a lawyer. 00:04:58.219 --> 00:04:59.679 You and me both. 00:04:59.804 --> 00:05:01.306 Can everyone please stop shouting? 00:05:01.431 --> 00:05:03.474 - Who's shouting? - There you go again. 00:05:03.599 --> 00:05:06.561 Some of us maybe had seven too many Jägerbombs last night. 00:05:06.686 --> 00:05:08.104 Just one too many. 00:05:08.229 --> 00:05:10.606 The other six were perfection. 00:05:10.732 --> 00:05:12.692 Well, it's a long flight to Bali. 00:05:12.817 --> 00:05:15.278 You can sleep on the plane. 00:05:15.403 --> 00:05:17.613 Lily can work on the plane. 00:05:18.156 --> 00:05:19.866 You know, for once, you could back me up. 00:05:19.991 --> 00:05:21.743 I could, but then I'd be wrong, too. 00:05:21.868 --> 00:05:23.411 Okay, we should go. 00:05:23.536 --> 00:05:25.496 Do you see what you did? You blew the goodbye. 00:05:25.538 --> 00:05:26.581 - I did that? - Huh. 00:05:26.706 --> 00:05:28.666 It wasn't just him. Bye. 00:05:28.833 --> 00:05:30.960 - See, it wasn't just me. - I love you. 00:05:31.085 --> 00:05:32.670 - Hey. Bye. - Bye, Dad. 00:05:32.795 --> 00:05:34.589 DAVID and-Bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye, bye. 00:05:35.673 --> 00:05:37.300 Bye, Lily's dad and mom. 00:05:37.425 --> 00:05:40.219 'Cause my dad and mom don't even know I'm going. 00:05:41.179 --> 00:05:42.597 I love you. Be safe. 00:05:42.722 --> 00:05:43.806 Make good choices. 00:05:43.931 --> 00:05:45.516 Always. 00:05:45.683 --> 00:05:47.643 Rarely. 00:05:48.686 --> 00:05:50.188 And she's gone. 00:05:51.189 --> 00:05:52.732 See you again never. 00:05:52.857 --> 00:05:54.525 Hopefully not that soon. 00:06:04.577 --> 00:06:06.746 Where's the boat? 00:06:08.956 --> 00:06:11.292 Shit. They forgot us. 00:06:11.417 --> 00:06:12.919 No, no, no. 00:06:13.044 --> 00:06:14.295 It's fine. 00:06:14.420 --> 00:06:15.797 We're good swimmers. 00:06:15.922 --> 00:06:18.007 How far do you think that is? 00:06:18.132 --> 00:06:19.926 A mile? 00:06:20.051 --> 00:06:22.011 A hundred miles? 00:06:22.136 --> 00:06:24.055 - Who can ever really tell? - Okay. 00:06:24.180 --> 00:06:26.766 Let's go. Come on. 00:06:26.974 --> 00:06:28.184 - Help us! - It's us! Hey! 00:06:28.351 --> 00:06:29.644 - Come over here! - Over here! 00:06:29.769 --> 00:06:31.437 - Hello? Hey! - Help! 00:06:32.397 --> 00:06:35.191 See? It's gonna be okay. 00:06:37.235 --> 00:06:39.904 All I see is one superhot boat guy. 00:06:46.494 --> 00:06:48.371 You're a long way out for a swim. 00:06:48.496 --> 00:06:51.082 The boat forgot us. 00:06:51.207 --> 00:06:53.334 How could they forget about you? 00:06:53.459 --> 00:06:55.753 That's what I'm saying. 00:06:57.505 --> 00:06:59.006 Careful. 00:06:59.173 --> 00:07:01.467 Got you. I got you. 00:07:01.592 --> 00:07:03.302 You okay? 00:07:03.428 --> 00:07:05.346 Yeah. 00:07:07.098 --> 00:07:08.766 I'm Lily. 00:07:10.017 --> 00:07:11.978 Well, pleased to meet you, Lily. 00:07:12.103 --> 00:07:13.688 I'm Gede. 00:07:16.774 --> 00:07:18.484 Hello? 00:07:18.609 --> 00:07:20.069 A little help down here? 00:07:39.714 --> 00:07:41.299 The water's warm. 00:07:41.424 --> 00:07:41.799 Okay. 00:07:42.425 --> 00:07:44.010 The floor isn't that comfy. 00:07:49.307 --> 00:07:51.559 I wish I went to work in a bathing suit. 00:07:51.684 --> 00:07:53.811 This isn't work. 00:07:53.978 --> 00:07:55.646 It's a partnership. 00:07:55.771 --> 00:07:59.066 With Dewi Danu, the goddess of the sea. 00:08:02.320 --> 00:08:05.740 All we have to do is understand her tides and moods... 00:08:07.575 --> 00:08:11.829 not throw plastic into her, not over-farm her, 00:08:11.996 --> 00:08:14.665 and she'll give us wonderful lives. 00:08:14.832 --> 00:08:16.792 Nature, god and people. 00:08:18.169 --> 00:08:20.713 Balance the three, and you have harmony. 00:08:26.636 --> 00:08:29.180 I am so out of balance. 00:08:31.599 --> 00:08:33.476 You can find it here. 00:08:43.528 --> 00:08:45.029 It's a savage commentary 00:08:45.196 --> 00:08:47.740 on the illusion of freedom in our society. 00:08:47.865 --> 00:08:50.034 But look closer, and you'll divine 00:08:50.159 --> 00:08:51.953 a fundamental compassion that... 00:08:52.078 --> 00:08:53.955 I think it's upside down. 00:08:54.997 --> 00:08:56.499 Really? 00:08:58.668 --> 00:09:00.294 Would you excuse me, please? 00:09:02.046 --> 00:09:04.382 I'm working, David. I really don't have time. 00:09:04.507 --> 00:09:05.967 Unless you became an oncologist 00:09:06.092 --> 00:09:07.843 since we last spoke, you got time. 00:09:08.010 --> 00:09:10.137 There you go, always diminishing what I do. 00:09:10.263 --> 00:09:12.598 What you do diminishes what you do. 00:09:12.723 --> 00:09:14.433 - Check your email. - I do check it. 00:09:14.559 --> 00:09:16.435 - You're blocked. - Lily wrote us. 00:09:16.561 --> 00:09:18.563 Whatever this is, it's your fault. 00:09:22.024 --> 00:09:23.568 She what? 00:09:28.656 --> 00:09:30.575 This is East Atlantic flight 576 00:09:30.700 --> 00:09:32.660 with continuing service to Denpasar, Bali. 00:09:32.785 --> 00:09:34.328 Thanks for everyone's patience 00:09:34.453 --> 00:09:36.372 as we welcome aboard our Los Angeles passengers. 00:09:36.497 --> 00:09:37.999 Can I get you some champagne? 00:09:38.124 --> 00:09:40.751 Two, please. 00:09:40.876 --> 00:09:43.421 I only drink when I fly. 00:09:43.546 --> 00:09:45.798 I'm Beth-Ann Flannery. 00:09:45.923 --> 00:09:48.718 I like to befriend my seatmates in case we crash 00:09:48.843 --> 00:09:52.138 so they're more inclined to pull me from the wreckage. 00:09:52.263 --> 00:09:54.390 I have two children and a dog... 00:09:58.853 --> 00:10:00.521 Okay? Okay. 00:10:00.688 --> 00:10:01.897 Excuse me, ma'am. 00:10:02.023 --> 00:10:03.524 I think your things are in my seat. 00:10:03.691 --> 00:10:05.484 BETH... Sorry. 00:10:05.610 --> 00:10:07.028 Come on. 00:10:07.153 --> 00:10:08.571 You've got to be kidding me. 00:10:08.696 --> 00:10:10.364 You speak English. 00:10:10.489 --> 00:10:13.034 You're still doing the Italian tourist bit? 00:10:13.159 --> 00:10:14.785 Excuse me, ma'am? 00:10:14.910 --> 00:10:16.454 I need to sit somewhere else. 00:10:16.579 --> 00:10:18.289 I'm sorry. It's a full flight. 00:10:18.414 --> 00:10:19.415 We used to be married. 00:10:19.498 --> 00:10:20.833 The worst 19 years of my life. 00:10:20.958 --> 00:10:22.168 We were only married for five. 00:10:22.209 --> 00:10:23.461 I'm counting the recovery. 00:10:23.586 --> 00:10:24.962 I can't sit there. 00:10:25.087 --> 00:10:27.131 There's nothing I can do. Well... 00:10:28.132 --> 00:10:29.925 I'll swap with you, dear. 00:10:30.051 --> 00:10:32.386 Just remember, in case we go down. 00:10:32.511 --> 00:10:34.972 BETH... You-you owe me one. 00:10:35.097 --> 00:10:36.891 Thank you. -I told you I was gonna go get her. 00:10:36.932 --> 00:10:38.351 In four days' time... 00:10:38.476 --> 00:10:40.227 Our daughter's gonna marry a guy she just met 00:10:40.269 --> 00:10:41.812 millions of miles from home. 00:10:41.937 --> 00:10:43.481 Excuse me, did the middle of my sentence 00:10:43.564 --> 00:10:44.857 interrupt the beginning of yours? 00:10:44.940 --> 00:10:46.025 She's throwing her career away. 00:10:46.067 --> 00:10:47.485 Just like her mother did. 00:10:47.610 --> 00:10:49.236 Which is why I'm the only one that can stop her. 00:10:49.236 --> 00:10:50.821 - She doesn't listen to him. - She listens to me. 00:10:50.863 --> 00:10:51.906 Did she respond to your email? 00:10:51.906 --> 00:10:53.115 Yes. 00:10:53.240 --> 00:10:54.784 And there she is. 00:10:56.827 --> 00:10:58.287 My God. Paul. 00:10:58.412 --> 00:10:59.705 Paul? 00:10:59.830 --> 00:11:00.247 I know you love a surprise. 00:11:00.623 --> 00:11:02.500 David. What are you doing here? 00:11:02.625 --> 00:11:04.543 I'm flying to Bali. What are you doing here? 00:11:04.669 --> 00:11:06.003 I'm flying you to Bali. 00:11:06.128 --> 00:11:08.422 I couldn't let her go alone. 00:11:08.547 --> 00:11:10.424 So I traded flights with a friend. 00:11:10.549 --> 00:11:13.427 Got to captain three long hauls to Uruguay next month, but... 00:11:13.552 --> 00:11:15.763 the things you do for love, right? 00:11:15.888 --> 00:11:17.515 - It's so sweet. - I know. 00:11:17.807 --> 00:11:19.392 Couldn't you just swim in them? 00:11:19.517 --> 00:11:21.602 They're blue. Big deal. So are my socks. 00:11:21.769 --> 00:11:24.271 And Frenchmen make such great lovers. 00:11:24.397 --> 00:11:26.399 That's a rumor they started about themselves. 00:11:26.524 --> 00:11:27.817 Keep telling yourself that. 00:11:29.026 --> 00:11:30.653 Champagne. 00:11:30.778 --> 00:11:32.113 Two, please. 00:11:32.238 --> 00:11:32.905 Just leave the bottle. 00:11:35.741 --> 00:11:37.451 Baby, I don't think that him 00:11:37.576 --> 00:11:39.286 tagging along on your trip is going to help. 00:11:39.286 --> 00:11:40.746 Well, that's a hot take. 00:11:40.871 --> 00:11:42.456 The last time David was actually helpful 00:11:42.498 --> 00:11:43.958 was the night we made Lily. 00:11:44.083 --> 00:11:46.794 There's an image I'm not crazy about. 00:11:46.919 --> 00:11:48.713 You live, you learn. 00:11:48.838 --> 00:11:49.046 You upgrade. 00:11:50.673 --> 00:11:53.342 Aren't you supposed to be flying the plane, Paul? 00:11:53.467 --> 00:11:55.261 At least not making out with the passengers? 00:11:55.428 --> 00:11:56.303 Just this passenger. 00:11:56.303 --> 00:11:58.305 It's a totally foreign concept to you, 00:11:58.431 --> 00:12:00.558 but Paul puts me first. He supports everything I do. 00:12:00.725 --> 00:12:02.435 That's because everything she does is perfect. 00:12:02.476 --> 00:12:03.853 He's exaggerating. 00:12:03.978 --> 00:12:05.438 Is he? Are you? 00:12:05.563 --> 00:12:06.731 I'm really not. 00:12:06.856 --> 00:12:08.357 - Sure, you are. - If you say so. 00:12:10.359 --> 00:12:13.070 The plane is actually designed to right itself in... 00:12:13.195 --> 00:12:15.114 Please go back to your seats. 00:12:19.660 --> 00:12:21.996 It's my house, my garden. 00:12:22.121 --> 00:12:23.622 My house. 00:12:23.789 --> 00:12:25.583 Why do I have so many pictures of my house? 00:12:25.750 --> 00:12:27.710 There's Charlie. He's my dog. 00:12:27.835 --> 00:12:30.546 Did I mention he's very old and unwell? 00:12:30.671 --> 00:12:32.047 Beth-Ann, it's gonna be all right, really. 00:12:32.089 --> 00:12:33.466 You're right. It's going to be fine. 00:12:38.596 --> 00:12:40.306 Maybe you should go, before they get out the pitchforks. 00:12:58.866 --> 00:13:01.160 This is the most incredible place I've ever seen. 00:13:01.285 --> 00:13:02.787 You know what's incredible? 00:13:02.912 --> 00:13:04.622 Hawaii, and it's in America. 00:13:04.747 --> 00:13:06.123 You've never been to Hawaii. 00:13:06.248 --> 00:13:07.500 You don't know where I've been. 00:13:07.583 --> 00:13:09.335 You've never been to Hawaii. 00:13:09.460 --> 00:13:11.337 Okay. Let's talk game plan. 00:13:11.462 --> 00:13:13.047 As much as this will pain us both, 00:13:13.214 --> 00:13:14.924 we have to call a truce to make this work. 00:13:15.049 --> 00:13:16.258 Yes, we have to be in lockstep. 00:13:16.300 --> 00:13:17.635 - No meanness. - No arguing. 00:13:17.760 --> 00:13:19.386 - We speak as one. - Exactly right. 00:13:19.553 --> 00:13:21.847 - When do we start? - Right after we see Lily. 00:13:23.891 --> 00:13:27.436 We tell her the wedding is off, and we'll bring her home. 00:13:27.561 --> 00:13:29.146 Well, you know whenever we say "don't" 00:13:29.230 --> 00:13:30.731 to Lily, she just hears "do." 00:13:30.856 --> 00:13:31.899 I say we go in 100% there for her in all ways, 00:13:32.066 --> 00:13:34.068 just supportive and loving, 00:13:34.193 --> 00:13:37.363 and that's how we trick her into dumping Mr. Seaweed. 00:13:37.530 --> 00:13:38.823 That's interesting. Now, I'm thinking 00:13:38.823 --> 00:13:40.199 about a Trojan horse sort of thing. 00:13:40.366 --> 00:13:42.034 We make her think we're okay with the wedding, 00:13:42.076 --> 00:13:44.954 and then once we're in, we get her to end it herself. 00:13:45.079 --> 00:13:46.747 That's literally what I just said. 00:13:47.748 --> 00:13:49.875 I don't remember anything about a Trojan horse. 00:13:55.965 --> 00:13:57.716 So, did you make a pact 00:13:57.842 --> 00:13:59.844 to not murder each other until you murder me first? 00:13:59.885 --> 00:14:02.221 Come on. Nobody is murdering anybody. -No, no. 00:14:02.346 --> 00:14:04.223 I mean, of course, we have some questions. 00:14:04.348 --> 00:14:05.766 We are your parents. 00:14:05.891 --> 00:14:07.309 We are here for you, my love. 00:14:07.434 --> 00:14:08.978 - Yes, we're in lockstep. - Yes. Right. 00:14:09.061 --> 00:14:10.688 Okay, 'cause I've been really freaked out about 00:14:10.729 --> 00:14:12.481 what you guys were gonna say... Especially you, Dad. 00:14:12.481 --> 00:14:13.858 I mean, you had a panic attack when I pierced my ears. 00:14:13.899 --> 00:14:15.693 - Yes. - Well, it's just about hygiene. 00:14:15.818 --> 00:14:18.195 And I know how much you wanted the lawyer thing. It just... 00:14:18.320 --> 00:14:19.905 - Well... - We-we just... we want you 00:14:19.989 --> 00:14:21.407 - to be happy, honey. - Yeah. 00:14:23.075 --> 00:14:24.994 Wow. Okay. 00:14:25.119 --> 00:14:28.122 - That is such a relief. - All right. 00:14:29.623 --> 00:14:32.167 Are you guys sure you're good with this? 00:14:33.460 --> 00:14:35.754 'Cause you know you could just tell me. 00:14:35.880 --> 00:14:38.716 You don't have to do a whole Trojan horse thing. 00:14:38.841 --> 00:14:40.426 Wh-What... Why do... What-what's... 00:14:40.551 --> 00:14:41.635 - What-what-what do you... - A what? 00:14:41.677 --> 00:14:42.803 What's that? 00:14:42.970 --> 00:14:44.722 Didn't you tell me that story, Mom? 00:14:44.847 --> 00:14:46.640 No, I told you. The Trojan hor... I told you that story. 00:14:46.640 --> 00:14:48.267 - Oy. It doesn't matter. - That was me. I-I did... 00:14:48.267 --> 00:14:49.268 Doesn't matter. 00:14:49.351 --> 00:14:51.395 We just are both here for you. 00:14:51.520 --> 00:14:53.272 Yeah. Lockstep. 00:15:14.585 --> 00:15:16.003 I don't see why 00:15:16.128 --> 00:15:18.088 we couldn't have gone straight to the hotel. 00:15:18.213 --> 00:15:20.925 Yeah, well, you were supposed to be here hours ago. 00:15:21.050 --> 00:15:23.010 - It wasn't his fault. - Pilot error. 00:15:24.428 --> 00:15:26.347 The engagement party kind of starts now, so... 00:15:26.472 --> 00:15:28.390 Who's gonna be there? 00:15:28.515 --> 00:15:29.934 Just close family. 00:15:33.062 --> 00:15:34.480 Okay. 00:15:34.605 --> 00:15:36.065 Time for a walk. 00:15:36.190 --> 00:15:38.275 Wait, what? 00:15:38.400 --> 00:15:39.818 We get back on at the top. 00:15:39.944 --> 00:15:41.779 It just can't make it with all these people. 00:15:41.904 --> 00:15:43.781 Unbelievable. I want my 4,000 whatevers back. 00:15:43.906 --> 00:15:46.659 You know that's like a quarter, right? 00:15:51.038 --> 00:15:53.832 Mom, Dad, this is Gede. 00:15:53.958 --> 00:15:56.710 Om swasti astu, Pa. Om swasti astu, Me. 00:15:56.835 --> 00:15:58.379 Om swasti astu, Gede. 00:15:58.504 --> 00:16:00.172 You learned that to make me look bad. 00:16:00.297 --> 00:16:01.966 You don't need my help there. 00:16:02.091 --> 00:16:04.134 Mr. and Mrs. Cotton, I welcome you 00:16:04.259 --> 00:16:05.886 to my country and soon to my home. 00:16:06.011 --> 00:16:08.472 Mrs. Cotton is his mother. You can just call me Georgia. 00:16:08.597 --> 00:16:10.849 As you wish, Georgia. 00:16:13.185 --> 00:16:16.063 Yeah, I'm good with Mr. Cotton. 00:16:16.188 --> 00:16:17.481 Hi, guys. 00:16:17.606 --> 00:16:19.024 Well, there goes Wren. 00:16:19.149 --> 00:16:20.901 Bye, guys. 00:16:21.026 --> 00:16:23.112 Georgia, perhaps I can give you a lift? 00:16:23.237 --> 00:16:24.530 Let's do it. Yeah. 00:16:28.033 --> 00:16:30.244 Bye. See you there. 00:16:31.286 --> 00:16:33.956 Isn't he amazing? 00:16:34.081 --> 00:16:35.791 Only if he drops her. 00:16:35.916 --> 00:16:37.501 - Dad. - Come on. Let's go. 00:16:43.632 --> 00:16:45.217 This is just close family? 00:16:45.342 --> 00:16:47.177 And the incredible thing is... 00:16:47.302 --> 00:16:49.471 is that they're all actually close. 00:16:49.596 --> 00:16:51.974 Okay. Remember, shoes off inside, 00:16:52.099 --> 00:16:53.600 eat with your right hand, 00:16:53.767 --> 00:16:56.645 and never, ever touch anyone's head. 00:16:56.770 --> 00:16:59.481 Why would I want to touch anyone's head? 00:16:59.606 --> 00:17:00.899 Hey, guys. Mr. C. 00:17:02.109 --> 00:17:04.069 This is Komang, 00:17:04.194 --> 00:17:06.488 and these are his tattoos. 00:17:06.613 --> 00:17:07.781 Nice to meet you. 00:17:07.906 --> 00:17:09.324 He doesn't know it, 00:17:09.450 --> 00:17:10.659 but we're gonna be having breakfast tomorrow. 00:17:10.701 --> 00:17:10.951 Hey. 00:17:11.869 --> 00:17:13.704 Is she coming to breakfast, too? 00:17:16.165 --> 00:17:17.666 I need to get one of those. 00:17:19.918 --> 00:17:21.754 Putri. 00:17:21.879 --> 00:17:23.881 - Hey. - What did he call you? 00:17:24.006 --> 00:17:26.633 It means "daughter." 00:17:26.759 --> 00:17:27.843 You're my daughter. 00:17:27.968 --> 00:17:29.219 My daughter. 00:17:32.556 --> 00:17:33.891 From here on, we will share her. 00:17:34.016 --> 00:17:35.517 We'll be united for all of time... 00:17:35.642 --> 00:17:37.061 - Yeah. - In the unbreakable 00:17:37.227 --> 00:17:38.562 bond of family. 00:17:38.687 --> 00:17:39.855 - It's us. - Okay. Yeah. 00:17:39.980 --> 00:17:41.065 You can let go anytime. 00:17:41.190 --> 00:17:43.233 - Good. - Yeah. 00:17:43.400 --> 00:17:44.693 Now give me your knife. 00:17:44.818 --> 00:17:46.612 My... my knife? 00:17:46.737 --> 00:17:48.197 Give me your knife. 00:17:48.322 --> 00:17:49.990 I didn't bring a knife. 00:17:50.115 --> 00:17:51.408 No knife? 00:17:51.575 --> 00:17:52.618 I didn't bring a knife. 00:17:52.743 --> 00:17:53.952 - No knife? - No, no. 00:17:54.078 --> 00:17:55.537 Okay. 00:17:55.662 --> 00:17:57.122 - No problem. - Wow. 00:17:59.041 --> 00:18:02.169 It is a Balinese custom that upon meeting, 00:18:02.294 --> 00:18:05.964 the two fathers must cut deeply into their forearms 00:18:06.090 --> 00:18:09.551 and each smear the other blood. 00:18:11.220 --> 00:18:13.013 You should really see your face. 00:18:22.689 --> 00:18:24.483 What's amazing is, with such a big family, 00:18:24.650 --> 00:18:26.276 there's always something to celebrate. 00:18:26.401 --> 00:18:28.570 But if not, they just celebrate that it's a big family. 00:18:28.695 --> 00:18:30.489 All right, well, I need to celebrate learning some names, 00:18:30.489 --> 00:18:32.116 because there's just too many people to remember. 00:18:32.116 --> 00:18:33.826 Yeah. I did make a spreadsheet. 00:18:33.992 --> 00:18:36.286 I haven't gotten most of them. I usually just smile a lot. 00:18:36.411 --> 00:18:38.622 You're in the kitchen. That's new. 00:18:38.747 --> 00:18:40.958 Lily. Meme. 00:18:42.376 --> 00:18:43.794 Mom, Dad, this is Gede's mother Suli 00:18:43.919 --> 00:18:45.295 and his sister Losi. 00:18:45.420 --> 00:18:47.047 Losi's training to be a doctor... 00:18:47.172 --> 00:18:49.383 Fantastic. Hi. Nice to meet you. 00:18:49.508 --> 00:18:50.717 Yeah. 00:19:11.488 --> 00:19:13.490 She says, "Welcome." 00:19:17.202 --> 00:19:18.662 The kids play football out here 00:19:18.829 --> 00:19:20.289 in the morning before school. 00:19:20.414 --> 00:19:21.748 You'd be welcome to join in. 00:19:21.874 --> 00:19:24.418 Not my game. I wouldn't count on it. 00:19:24.543 --> 00:19:26.253 How do you farm the seaweed? 00:19:26.378 --> 00:19:27.880 We use nets. 00:19:28.005 --> 00:19:30.132 Seedlings are tied to monofilament lines, 00:19:30.257 --> 00:19:32.759 then five weeks later, we bring them in. 00:19:32.885 --> 00:19:35.345 A distributor flash-freezes it and ships it out. 00:19:35.470 --> 00:19:37.222 Ships it to where? 00:19:37.347 --> 00:19:38.891 It used to be mainly Japan. 00:19:39.016 --> 00:19:41.059 Now all over the world. 00:19:41.185 --> 00:19:43.061 We just signed a deal with Whole Foods, 00:19:43.187 --> 00:19:45.355 so we're around your street corner. 00:19:55.908 --> 00:19:57.618 He says you are very beautiful. 00:19:57.743 --> 00:20:00.370 Well, tell him I said thank you. 00:20:03.999 --> 00:20:06.084 And now he is saying 00:20:06.210 --> 00:20:08.629 you remind him of a very attractive horse. 00:20:10.631 --> 00:20:12.674 - Really? - That can't be right. 00:20:19.640 --> 00:20:21.266 No, he... he did mean horse. 00:20:27.773 --> 00:20:29.274 Mr. Cotton? 00:20:29.399 --> 00:20:31.526 I must tell you, I love your daughter very much. 00:20:31.652 --> 00:20:33.779 I don't blame you. 00:20:33.904 --> 00:20:35.989 And I appreciate that it's happening really fast, 00:20:36.114 --> 00:20:38.617 and you and Georgia must be alarmed by that. 00:20:38.742 --> 00:20:41.828 Well, you two seem good together. 00:20:41.954 --> 00:20:43.664 Lily loves Bali. 00:20:43.830 --> 00:20:46.833 I can see her being happy here for a while. 00:20:48.252 --> 00:20:50.087 For a while? 00:20:50.212 --> 00:20:51.755 Well, nothing lasts forever. 00:20:52.756 --> 00:20:54.508 Marriage is supposed to. 00:20:54.633 --> 00:20:57.177 That's what I thought till I was sitting across from Georgia 00:20:57.302 --> 00:21:00.514 with a bunch of lawyers dividing up our stuff. 00:21:00.639 --> 00:21:03.475 So, enjoy this. 00:21:03.600 --> 00:21:06.353 Right up until the minute that Lily ends it, 00:21:06.478 --> 00:21:09.314 which she will because she's ambitious 00:21:09.481 --> 00:21:11.149 and she's endlessly curious. 00:21:11.275 --> 00:21:12.985 And as beautiful as this island is, 00:21:13.110 --> 00:21:16.863 and as pleasant as you seem to be, 00:21:16.989 --> 00:21:19.116 ultimately, it's just not gonna be enough. 00:21:20.909 --> 00:21:23.203 Bit of advice: Don't have kids. 00:21:23.328 --> 00:21:25.539 Makes it much more complicated when she takes them 00:21:25.664 --> 00:21:27.666 and she goes back to the States. 00:21:30.335 --> 00:21:32.838 I'm hungry. You hungry? 00:21:32.963 --> 00:21:34.339 Yeah, let's get something to eat. 00:21:34.464 --> 00:21:36.508 Let's get some food. 00:21:50.564 --> 00:21:54.151 Today, in honor of our guests of distinction, 00:21:54.318 --> 00:21:55.694 I speak to you English. 00:21:55.819 --> 00:21:57.571 I'm pretty sure you don't win anything 00:21:57.696 --> 00:21:59.406 for finishing the whole pig. 00:21:59.531 --> 00:22:01.742 Paul's such a lucky guy. 00:22:01.867 --> 00:22:03.952 All that judgment all to himself. 00:22:04.077 --> 00:22:06.538 Suli and I welcome with love and peace 00:22:07.247 --> 00:22:11.626 Soon also to be the home of Gede and Lily. 00:22:11.752 --> 00:22:13.462 - Or not. - And how proud we are... 00:22:13.587 --> 00:22:15.297 Gede is having second thoughts. 00:22:15.422 --> 00:22:16.882 I saw the two of you. What happened? 00:22:17.007 --> 00:22:19.509 I initiated phase two. 00:22:19.634 --> 00:22:22.012 We get out of the Trojan horse. We start killing people. 00:22:22.137 --> 00:22:24.473 We are nowhere near phase two. 00:22:24.598 --> 00:22:26.099 Maybe you're at a different party, 00:22:26.224 --> 00:22:27.684 but from where I'm sitting, 00:22:27.809 --> 00:22:29.770 we're about to inherit 150 new in-laws. 00:22:29.936 --> 00:22:31.980 God. You only ever see things your own way. 00:22:32.105 --> 00:22:33.899 Everybody only ever sees anything their own way. 00:22:33.940 --> 00:22:35.609 Explains why you walked out on me and Lily. 00:22:35.776 --> 00:22:37.152 I didn't walk out on Lily. 00:22:37.277 --> 00:22:40.530 Desa, kala, patra. 00:22:40.655 --> 00:22:44.910 For marriage, it must to be right place. 00:22:45.035 --> 00:22:47.829 It must to be the right time. 00:22:47.954 --> 00:22:50.123 It must to be the right circumstance. 00:22:50.248 --> 00:22:51.666 I wish someone had have explained that to us. 00:22:51.708 --> 00:22:53.835 We were for three. 00:22:53.960 --> 00:22:55.379 One for three. 00:22:55.504 --> 00:22:57.005 One for three. 00:22:57.130 --> 00:22:59.007 Wrong circumstance, wrong time. 00:22:59.132 --> 00:23:01.176 Right place. 00:23:01.301 --> 00:23:03.178 By the lake. 00:23:03.303 --> 00:23:07.432 So I announce that Gede will marry Lily 00:23:07.599 --> 00:23:09.226 in four days' time, 00:23:09.351 --> 00:23:12.854 as suggested by Ida Anak Lingsir. 00:23:14.940 --> 00:23:17.484 Mother of my children, do you agree? 00:23:24.991 --> 00:23:28.537 She gives her blessing, for now and for always. 00:23:28.662 --> 00:23:30.330 And, David? 00:23:30.455 --> 00:23:32.249 Georgia? Do you agree? 00:23:33.542 --> 00:23:36.753 Y-yes, we give our blessing. 00:23:36.878 --> 00:23:38.630 - Yep. - Y-Yes, for now. 00:23:38.755 --> 00:23:40.048 - And always. - And always. 00:23:40.173 --> 00:23:41.341 Great, great. Right. 00:23:41.466 --> 00:23:43.260 That's good. 00:23:47.681 --> 00:23:50.308 LILY That went great. 00:23:50.434 --> 00:23:52.269 Just great. 00:23:52.394 --> 00:23:54.062 Absolutely, it did. 00:23:54.187 --> 00:23:56.064 Could not have gone any better. 00:23:59.109 --> 00:24:01.319 What were you and my dad talking about by the beach? 00:24:01.445 --> 00:24:04.239 Seaweed, mostly. He had a lot of questions. 00:24:06.324 --> 00:24:08.493 He loves you. 00:24:08.618 --> 00:24:10.662 He loves you. 00:24:10.787 --> 00:24:13.081 They both do. 00:24:13.206 --> 00:24:16.334 Well, I'm the only thing they can ever agree on. 00:24:16.460 --> 00:24:18.920 Really? 00:24:19.045 --> 00:24:20.630 Good to know. 00:24:23.425 --> 00:24:25.719 Welcome to the Hotel Waruna. 00:24:25.844 --> 00:24:30.015 It is a very great pleasure to see your smiling faces. 00:24:31.183 --> 00:24:34.060 You, sir, are in 221. 00:24:34.186 --> 00:24:35.479 Really good room. 00:24:35.604 --> 00:24:37.814 Make sure I'm a long way from her. 00:24:37.939 --> 00:24:39.524 And you, madam? 00:24:40.525 --> 00:24:42.527 A very long way, please. 00:24:42.652 --> 00:24:46.072 222. Almost just as really good. 00:24:48.283 --> 00:24:50.035 Do you still snore? 00:24:50.160 --> 00:24:51.995 Do you know anybody that snores less 00:24:52.120 --> 00:24:53.538 when they get older? 00:24:53.663 --> 00:24:55.540 I'm gonna be listening to you all night, 00:24:55.665 --> 00:24:57.876 I'm gonna do it from the better room. 00:24:59.127 --> 00:25:01.213 You know you used to do sleep karate? 00:25:01.338 --> 00:25:02.964 You'd fling yourself around the bed 00:25:03.089 --> 00:25:04.758 like you were attacking it. 00:25:04.883 --> 00:25:06.384 I wasn't asleep. 00:25:06.510 --> 00:25:09.012 - I was attacking you. - There you go. 00:25:10.472 --> 00:25:11.765 Try to keep the snoring down. 00:25:11.890 --> 00:25:13.391 I have a nasal strip. 00:25:13.517 --> 00:25:16.102 It's a mystery you're still alone. 00:25:45.298 --> 00:25:47.217 Can I get another one of these? 00:25:54.349 --> 00:25:56.059 PAUL Hey, it's looking like I'm not 00:25:56.184 --> 00:25:57.978 gonna make it till the morning of the wedding. 00:25:58.019 --> 00:25:59.646 I-I'm so sorry, baby. 00:25:59.771 --> 00:26:01.898 - How's Lily? - Crazy in love. 00:26:02.023 --> 00:26:03.942 - That's fantastic. - It's terrible. 00:26:04.067 --> 00:26:06.194 I couldn't agree more. She's making a mistake. 00:26:06.319 --> 00:26:08.280 And now there's some kind of ceremony. 00:26:08.405 --> 00:26:11.116 Gede and Lily exchange rings. It's a whole thing. 00:26:11.241 --> 00:26:13.368 They're not doing the rings at the wedding? 00:26:13.493 --> 00:26:14.744 There's not gonna be a wedding. 00:26:14.911 --> 00:26:16.413 I won't let her throw her life away 00:26:16.538 --> 00:26:18.248 on some insanely handsome guy who happens to live 00:26:18.248 --> 00:26:19.916 in the most beautiful place on Earth. 00:26:20.083 --> 00:26:22.252 And yes, I do know how that sounds, but I'm still right. 00:26:22.252 --> 00:26:23.878 You're always right, baby. 00:26:24.921 --> 00:26:26.381 - We got action. - I'm really not. 00:26:26.423 --> 00:26:28.967 Got to go. 00:26:31.678 --> 00:26:32.971 - Talk to me. - All right. 00:26:33.096 --> 00:26:34.472 The happy couple's about to stand up there. 00:26:34.514 --> 00:26:35.807 The ring bearer brings two rings 00:26:35.932 --> 00:26:37.392 that have been blessed by the hat guy 00:26:37.517 --> 00:26:39.603 for them to exchange, but if they don't, 00:26:39.728 --> 00:26:40.937 it messes with the whole 00:26:41.062 --> 00:26:42.647 "right place, right time, right whatever." 00:26:42.647 --> 00:26:43.648 - So we steal the rings. - I was about to say that. 00:26:43.690 --> 00:26:45.108 But you didn't, so it's my idea. 00:26:45.233 --> 00:26:48.069 Okay, well, the ring bearer is Gede's cousin. 00:26:51.072 --> 00:26:52.449 Why me? 00:26:52.574 --> 00:26:54.034 Well, the hard stuff was always your thing. 00:26:54.034 --> 00:26:55.452 My thing was taking out the garbage 00:26:55.577 --> 00:26:57.120 and getting things off of high shelves. 00:26:57.203 --> 00:26:59.289 Not that high, really. And flattery won't work. 00:26:59.414 --> 00:27:01.791 - But you'll do it anyway. - Why? 00:27:01.916 --> 00:27:04.210 Because it was your idea. 00:27:13.803 --> 00:27:15.180 Hey, guys. 00:27:15.305 --> 00:27:17.265 You play chasing game with us? 00:27:18.224 --> 00:27:19.934 we eat bananas a little differently. 00:27:20.060 --> 00:27:23.688 We slice them before we peel them. 00:27:23.813 --> 00:27:25.190 Not true! 00:27:25.315 --> 00:27:27.067 Totally true. 00:27:27.192 --> 00:27:29.069 Here, I'll show you. Come here. 00:27:29.194 --> 00:27:30.862 Come sit up here. 00:27:32.280 --> 00:27:33.490 All right. See this banana? 00:27:33.615 --> 00:27:35.116 Totally normal-looking, right? 00:27:35.241 --> 00:27:36.868 - It's not cut on the outside. - Not cut. 00:27:36.993 --> 00:27:38.703 All right, so I want you to take it... 00:27:38.828 --> 00:27:40.080 Here, put your bag down. 00:27:40.205 --> 00:27:42.374 You're gonna take it and peel it. 00:27:50.924 --> 00:27:52.592 That's how it's done. 00:27:58.223 --> 00:28:00.100 So, the rings that we'll give each other 00:28:00.225 --> 00:28:02.102 have been blessed in the sacred water 00:28:02.227 --> 00:28:04.479 of Pura Ulun Danu Batur. 00:28:05.480 --> 00:28:07.440 I do the hard stuff. 00:28:08.483 --> 00:28:10.777 Can't believe they fell for the banana trick. 00:28:10.944 --> 00:28:13.363 Really kills you that you haven't figured it out. ... 00:28:13.488 --> 00:28:14.989 Maybe we'll show them to you. 00:28:15.115 --> 00:28:17.367 Ketut has them. Ketut? 00:28:17.492 --> 00:28:19.369 Here we go. 00:28:19.494 --> 00:28:21.246 Hey. 00:28:21.371 --> 00:28:23.581 Can you show us the rings? Yeah? 00:28:24.833 --> 00:28:27.419 Where are the rings? 00:28:27.544 --> 00:28:29.254 - There's nothing in there. - Shh. 00:28:29.379 --> 00:28:30.380 It's empty. 00:28:31.798 --> 00:28:32.882 It's gone. Okay. 00:28:36.678 --> 00:28:38.555 Losi! 00:28:41.057 --> 00:28:42.559 What is he saying? 00:28:42.684 --> 00:28:44.394 - I-I wasn't listening. - Cool. 00:28:46.521 --> 00:28:48.481 "We have to have the rings" 00:28:48.606 --> 00:28:50.024 for the circumstances to be right." 00:28:50.150 --> 00:28:51.484 Yeah. 00:28:51.609 --> 00:28:54.070 Now no one knows what to do. 00:28:54.195 --> 00:28:55.572 And Ketut is crying. 00:28:57.866 --> 00:29:00.368 Hey, sweetie, it's okay. Tell her it's gonna be okay. 00:29:00.493 --> 00:29:02.036 It's not gonna be okay. 00:29:02.162 --> 00:29:04.122 Look, if we don't have the rings, then we can't... 00:29:08.293 --> 00:29:09.961 You're right. It's not a problem. 00:29:10.128 --> 00:29:11.379 - We'll find other rings. - Yeah. 00:29:11.463 --> 00:29:13.047 Did you hear that? It's fine. 00:29:13.173 --> 00:29:15.300 We'll just do it another day. It's okay. 00:29:16.843 --> 00:29:18.762 How do they look? 00:29:18.887 --> 00:29:20.680 I'll do the stretch thing. 00:29:20.764 --> 00:29:22.348 The classic. 00:29:25.977 --> 00:29:27.270 Disappointed. 00:29:27.395 --> 00:29:28.688 - That's good. - Is it? 00:29:28.813 --> 00:29:30.273 What do you mean? 00:29:30.398 --> 00:29:32.066 I mean our daughter looks like her dog just died. 00:29:32.108 --> 00:29:33.985 I don't know if I feel great about that. . 00:29:34.110 --> 00:29:35.445 We're nearly there. 00:29:35.570 --> 00:29:37.405 Where? 00:29:37.530 --> 00:29:39.240 You'll see. 00:29:40.283 --> 00:29:41.743 I think he knows. 00:29:41.868 --> 00:29:43.411 He doesn't know. 00:29:45.371 --> 00:29:47.373 Okay. 00:29:47.540 --> 00:29:49.167 - Are they here? - They're here. 00:29:49.292 --> 00:29:50.960 Who's here? 00:29:55.965 --> 00:29:57.383 Are you kidding? 00:29:57.509 --> 00:29:59.677 It gets better. 00:30:00.220 --> 00:30:02.430 Yeah, I could go back and try and make a go of it, 00:30:02.555 --> 00:30:04.641 but I just know that, every second, 00:30:04.766 --> 00:30:06.601 I'd be dreaming of being here... 00:30:07.894 --> 00:30:09.354 with him. 00:30:09.479 --> 00:30:11.231 You know, it's like you always say: 00:30:11.356 --> 00:30:13.399 Why save the good stuff for later? 00:30:14.567 --> 00:30:16.569 Yeah, I do. 00:30:18.071 --> 00:30:19.364 I do. 00:30:19.489 --> 00:30:20.532 Excuse me. 00:30:20.657 --> 00:30:21.950 I'd like to get these. 00:30:22.075 --> 00:30:23.368 You're tourists, yes? 00:30:23.493 --> 00:30:25.829 Well, she is, but I live here now. 00:30:27.789 --> 00:30:28.456 Then we haggle. 00:30:28.456 --> 00:30:29.999 Then we haggle. 00:30:30.124 --> 00:30:31.417 No, we don't need to haggle. 00:30:31.543 --> 00:30:32.669 Just give me a fair price. 00:30:32.794 --> 00:30:35.004 Tourists like it when we haggle. 00:30:35.129 --> 00:30:37.131 Americans like make good deals. 00:30:37.257 --> 00:30:39.300 800,000 rupiah? 00:30:39.425 --> 00:30:40.677 Okay. 00:30:40.802 --> 00:30:43.471 No, no. You say 500,000. 00:30:45.265 --> 00:30:47.183 Just go with it, Mom. 00:30:47.308 --> 00:30:49.769 500,000. 00:30:49.936 --> 00:30:51.396 Enough, please. You're killing me. 00:30:51.563 --> 00:30:52.564 Seven. 00:30:52.647 --> 00:30:55.108 Six, or I'm walking away. 00:30:55.233 --> 00:30:56.401 We have a deal. 00:30:56.568 --> 00:30:58.528 Thank you. 00:31:00.238 --> 00:31:02.031 I'm just so crazy grateful for you, Mom. 00:31:02.156 --> 00:31:03.700 There's no need. 00:31:03.825 --> 00:31:05.451 Yes, there is. 00:31:05.577 --> 00:31:07.745 This is the biggest decision I've ever made in my life. 00:31:07.787 --> 00:31:10.123 You came halfway around the world to have my back. 00:31:11.749 --> 00:31:15.044 You are a very kind woman. 00:31:15.169 --> 00:31:16.462 Thank you. 00:31:16.588 --> 00:31:18.590 I'm really not. I... 00:31:21.259 --> 00:31:24.095 I don't know what this is, but I like it. 00:31:24.220 --> 00:31:26.347 Yeah, it's called a martabak. 00:31:26.472 --> 00:31:27.891 Martabak? 00:31:27.974 --> 00:31:29.559 in the Trojan horse the good guys? 00:31:29.684 --> 00:31:31.144 Good or bad, they won the war. 00:31:31.269 --> 00:31:32.812 And what was the war about exactly? 00:31:32.937 --> 00:31:34.731 - Don't do this, Georgia. - Do you think we're wrong? 00:31:34.772 --> 00:31:36.566 - We're not wrong. - I think we might be wrong. 00:31:36.608 --> 00:31:38.234 Remember when we agreed to do this together? 00:31:38.234 --> 00:31:39.652 To be in lockstep? 00:31:39.777 --> 00:31:42.322 Yeah, but that was before we saw her... saw them. 00:31:42.447 --> 00:31:44.240 You know... Great. 00:31:44.365 --> 00:31:46.200 Classic. You win again. 00:31:46.367 --> 00:31:48.036 - What does that even mean? - You know what? 00:31:48.036 --> 00:31:50.163 I had Lily one day a week and every other weekend. 00:31:50.288 --> 00:31:52.457 You had her all the rest of the time. 00:31:52.582 --> 00:31:54.751 I mean, she listened to you, she relied on you, and now 00:31:54.876 --> 00:31:57.128 you get to be the one that gives her everything she wants. 00:31:57.211 --> 00:31:58.880 I never get to give her what she wants. 00:31:59.047 --> 00:32:00.173 Yes, I was there for her. 00:32:00.298 --> 00:32:02.175 To make the rules, to fight with. 00:32:02.300 --> 00:32:03.551 You were fun dad. You would breeze in, 00:32:03.593 --> 00:32:04.969 take her where she wanted to go, 00:32:05.094 --> 00:32:06.721 buy her anything she wanted, then drop her off 00:32:06.763 --> 00:32:08.014 - and drive away. - I didn't want that. 00:32:08.014 --> 00:32:09.223 Well, then you shouldn't have left. 00:32:09.265 --> 00:32:10.350 - I had to. It was over. - Why? 00:32:10.350 --> 00:32:11.559 Because the house burned down? 00:32:11.601 --> 00:32:12.685 Because you didn't love me anymore. 00:32:12.685 --> 00:32:13.937 Well, you didn't even like me. 00:32:14.062 --> 00:32:15.355 You didn't have any respect for me. 00:32:15.355 --> 00:32:16.481 You've never had any respect for me. 00:32:16.481 --> 00:32:17.815 That is so unbelievably untrue. 00:32:17.941 --> 00:32:19.400 When you proposed, did you really want to 00:32:19.442 --> 00:32:20.860 get married, or you just didn't want me to take 00:32:20.902 --> 00:32:22.528 - that job in L.A.? - I wanted to be happy. 00:32:22.528 --> 00:32:23.738 - I wanted you to be happy. - Well, I am happy now. 00:32:23.780 --> 00:32:24.781 Good. So am I. 00:32:24.864 --> 00:32:25.865 - Good. - Great. 00:32:25.907 --> 00:32:27.075 Great. 00:33:07.115 --> 00:33:08.157 - Hi. - Hey. 00:33:08.282 --> 00:33:09.325 What time is it? 00:33:09.450 --> 00:33:10.493 The best time. 00:33:13.037 --> 00:33:14.998 You don't look like you were sleeping. 00:33:15.123 --> 00:33:17.667 I moisturize before bed. 00:33:17.792 --> 00:33:19.752 All right. Well, let's wake up... 00:33:19.877 --> 00:33:21.421 What's going on? 00:33:22.380 --> 00:33:25.258 - Hi. - Hi. 00:33:28.344 --> 00:33:32.390 Okay, I've got a little job for you guys. 00:33:32.515 --> 00:33:33.975 Come on. Let's go. 00:33:42.191 --> 00:33:44.777 I can't believe we're out here. 00:33:44.902 --> 00:33:47.613 I'm not sure you should be, with your wound. 00:33:47.739 --> 00:33:49.782 Sharks are drawn to blood. 00:33:55.455 --> 00:33:57.790 She listened to you always. 00:33:59.542 --> 00:34:01.085 What? 00:34:01.210 --> 00:34:02.587 She still does. 00:34:02.712 --> 00:34:04.297 She never needed to make me as happy 00:34:04.422 --> 00:34:06.215 as she wanted to make you. 00:34:09.093 --> 00:34:12.805 She's just... so like you. 00:34:12.930 --> 00:34:15.391 I think she's so like you. 00:34:20.188 --> 00:34:22.231 And I'll tell you something else. 00:34:22.356 --> 00:34:25.985 I'm looking at your pile of seaweed and at mine, and... 00:34:26.110 --> 00:34:28.237 and, of course, it's totally not a competition, 00:34:28.362 --> 00:34:32.033 but if it was... 00:34:32.158 --> 00:34:34.368 I'd be winning. 00:34:37.371 --> 00:34:39.040 Good thing it's not a competition. 00:34:39.207 --> 00:34:41.250 - It's a good thing. - Yeah. 00:34:50.093 --> 00:34:52.887 Hey, hey, gentle. You're supposed to be gentle! 00:34:53.012 --> 00:34:55.014 Get off me, get off, get off me! Excuse me. 00:34:55.098 --> 00:34:56.307 That's mine. That's mine. 00:34:56.432 --> 00:34:57.892 Get off. 00:34:58.017 --> 00:34:59.227 Hey! 00:34:59.352 --> 00:35:01.854 Get off. Get off! Get off! 00:35:01.979 --> 00:35:03.731 What are you doing? That was mine. 00:35:03.856 --> 00:35:05.358 That was mine. You took mine. 00:35:05.525 --> 00:35:07.610 - Will you stop it? - Get off. 00:35:09.028 --> 00:35:10.863 Well, this is getting weird. 00:35:17.078 --> 00:35:19.580 Well, that worked till it didn't. 00:35:19.705 --> 00:35:22.250 They got new rings. 00:35:22.375 --> 00:35:24.585 Thank you for helping with the harvest this morning. 00:35:24.710 --> 00:35:26.420 Who won? 00:35:26.546 --> 00:35:28.339 No, it wasn't a competition. 00:35:31.801 --> 00:35:33.594 You told her it wasn't a competition, right? 00:35:33.719 --> 00:35:34.929 That is exactly what I said. 00:35:35.054 --> 00:35:36.597 The hug is about something else. 00:35:36.722 --> 00:35:38.850 Oke deh. Metatah is beginning. 00:35:39.016 --> 00:35:40.143 - Metatah. - What? 00:35:40.768 --> 00:35:43.271 You're with me in this, right? Lockstep? 00:35:43.396 --> 00:35:44.605 - Lockstep. - In lockstep. 00:35:44.730 --> 00:35:46.399 - Absolutely. - Okay. 00:36:01.122 --> 00:36:02.999 How is this even a thing? 00:36:03.124 --> 00:36:04.667 They believe that filing down 00:36:04.792 --> 00:36:06.669 the canine teeth takes us away from the animals, 00:36:06.794 --> 00:36:09.505 so away from qualities that lead to an unhappy marriage. 00:36:09.630 --> 00:36:13.301 Takes away the ability to chew solid food, is what it does. 00:36:16.345 --> 00:36:18.431 I knew a guy who wanted to marry a Jewish woman. 00:36:18.556 --> 00:36:20.516 Had to get circumcised. This is worse. 00:36:23.603 --> 00:36:25.938 No, that's worse. 00:36:29.192 --> 00:36:31.736 I was overserved. 00:36:34.280 --> 00:36:37.617 I need some lemon water and some bacon. 00:36:37.783 --> 00:36:39.076 Hey, Paul. 00:36:39.202 --> 00:36:41.537 David, I thought this was... 00:36:41.704 --> 00:36:42.705 - Georgia's room? - Yeah. 00:36:42.872 --> 00:36:44.498 No, it's my room. That's her room. 00:36:44.624 --> 00:36:46.292 This is my room. Hi, sweetie. I thought I heard you. -Hi. 00:36:46.292 --> 00:36:48.127 - In that room. - Which is my room, this room. 00:36:48.252 --> 00:36:50.338 - But I thought the guy said... - No, we changed rooms. 00:36:50.338 --> 00:36:52.673 - So that this could be my room. - It's a much better room. 00:36:52.715 --> 00:36:54.425 - Yeah. - Great. C-Can I see it? 00:36:54.550 --> 00:36:55.509 Yes, but first... Baby, do you mind? 00:36:56.385 --> 00:36:57.428 Could you just get me a great big bucket of coffee? 00:36:57.553 --> 00:36:58.721 Yeah, yeah. Anything for you. 00:37:02.808 --> 00:37:04.477 You've been doing yoga. 00:37:06.103 --> 00:37:07.730 No, I just like the pants. 00:37:14.403 --> 00:37:16.656 Quick, we're changing rooms! 00:37:16.781 --> 00:37:18.908 Shit. 00:37:20.409 --> 00:37:21.869 Okay. 00:37:21.994 --> 00:37:23.746 If I had hesitated 00:37:23.871 --> 00:37:25.915 just one second... 00:37:26.040 --> 00:37:28.084 Well, let's just say there's 170 souls 00:37:28.209 --> 00:37:30.086 that are lucky I didn't. 00:37:30.211 --> 00:37:31.462 And me. 00:37:31.587 --> 00:37:33.297 So 171? Hey. 00:37:33.422 --> 00:37:34.799 Where have you guys been? 00:37:34.924 --> 00:37:36.384 - Did you see Paul's here? - He's literally standing 00:37:36.425 --> 00:37:38.135 - right next to us. - So, what's the plan? 00:37:38.261 --> 00:37:39.595 I was thinking we could visit 00:37:39.720 --> 00:37:41.097 the island of Nusa Penida. 00:37:41.138 --> 00:37:42.640 Best place on Earth to watch a sunset. 00:37:42.765 --> 00:37:44.308 That sounds great. 00:37:44.433 --> 00:37:46.394 Now, I've been reading in the guidebooks about, 00:37:46.394 --> 00:37:48.688 visiting the temple at Tanah Lot? 00:37:48.813 --> 00:37:50.147 I don't think that's... 00:37:50.273 --> 00:37:52.191 Okay, why don't I get us some cabs, okay? 00:37:52.316 --> 00:37:54.026 Get us a couple cabs! 00:37:54.151 --> 00:37:56.612 I think Nusa Penida would be better. 00:37:56.737 --> 00:37:58.572 We'll do that right after Tanah Lot, okay? 00:38:00.074 --> 00:38:02.702 Hi. Hey, do you know where Tanah Lot is? 00:38:02.827 --> 00:38:04.537 It's a temple. Yeah. 00:38:04.662 --> 00:38:06.539 Here we go, guys! 00:38:06.706 --> 00:38:08.207 Come on! Come on! 00:38:25.850 --> 00:38:27.226 We shouldn't be here. 00:38:27.351 --> 00:38:28.769 Why? 00:38:28.894 --> 00:38:30.646 Looks amazing. 00:38:30.771 --> 00:38:32.481 It's cursed. 00:38:32.606 --> 00:38:35.526 Tradition says any unwed couple that visits Tanah Lot 00:38:35.651 --> 00:38:37.903 will never have happiness in marriage. 00:38:39.405 --> 00:38:42.408 Well, my dad couldn't have known that. 00:38:42.533 --> 00:38:44.618 I'm sure you're right. 00:38:44.744 --> 00:38:46.287 Well, hey. 00:38:46.454 --> 00:38:47.955 Let's just go. 00:38:48.080 --> 00:38:50.624 - You sure? - Yeah. 00:38:50.750 --> 00:38:54.545 Bet it would take a lot more than a curse to mess us up. 00:38:54.670 --> 00:38:57.048 Maybe other couples who aren't so lucky. 00:39:10.394 --> 00:39:12.188 Apparently, these are called the snake caves. 00:39:12.188 --> 00:39:15.107 My God. It feels so good to get out of the sun. 00:39:15.232 --> 00:39:18.110 Feel like my hangover has a hangover. 00:39:21.030 --> 00:39:22.406 What are you doing? 00:39:22.531 --> 00:39:24.075 Georgia? 00:39:24.200 --> 00:39:25.618 Yes? 00:39:25.743 --> 00:39:27.828 I love you. 00:39:27.953 --> 00:39:31.582 You are gorgeous and kind. 00:39:32.958 --> 00:39:34.335 Funny and smart. 00:39:34.460 --> 00:39:36.212 You're everything I could ever want and need. 00:39:37.171 --> 00:39:39.882 Will you marry me? 00:39:40.007 --> 00:39:42.009 Paul. 00:39:42.134 --> 00:39:43.969 I'm so... 00:39:44.136 --> 00:39:47.473 I'm so touched and... and nauseous right now. 00:39:50.726 --> 00:39:53.479 How do I put this? 00:39:53.604 --> 00:39:55.064 David... 00:39:56.816 --> 00:39:59.527 David spent the night in my room last night. 00:39:59.652 --> 00:40:01.862 I'm sorry. 00:40:06.617 --> 00:40:08.244 I know. 00:40:09.703 --> 00:40:11.580 Men don't wear yoga pants, 00:40:11.705 --> 00:40:13.207 even when they do yoga. 00:40:13.332 --> 00:40:14.542 Okay. 00:40:14.667 --> 00:40:16.252 I mean, my God, nothing happened. 00:40:16.377 --> 00:40:18.504 It's not like that. It would just never be like that. 00:40:18.629 --> 00:40:20.923 - Stop it. Stop it. - Okay. Okay. 00:40:21.048 --> 00:40:23.592 - I trust you. - Okay. Thank you. 00:40:23.717 --> 00:40:24.760 Thank you. 00:40:24.760 --> 00:40:25.594 Why are you being weird? 00:40:25.719 --> 00:40:27.972 I think maybe I just got bit by something. 00:40:28.139 --> 00:40:29.098 Really? 00:40:29.223 --> 00:40:30.516 A snake. 00:40:32.560 --> 00:40:34.645 That's no good. 00:40:34.812 --> 00:40:36.522 Shit. 00:40:36.647 --> 00:40:37.815 My God. 00:40:37.940 --> 00:40:39.400 My God. 00:40:39.525 --> 00:40:40.901 - It's wet. - Where is it? 00:40:41.026 --> 00:40:43.988 My God, there it is! What do we do? 00:40:44.113 --> 00:40:45.614 - What do we do? - Do something. 00:40:45.656 --> 00:40:47.366 Okay. 00:40:47.491 --> 00:40:49.285 Anything. 00:40:49.410 --> 00:40:50.786 Okay. 00:40:57.585 --> 00:40:59.044 You're amazing. 00:40:59.170 --> 00:41:00.671 I think... 00:41:00.796 --> 00:41:03.090 I think I got most of it. 00:41:03.215 --> 00:41:05.301 I think I got most of it. 00:41:06.635 --> 00:41:08.387 Well, he will experience 00:41:08.512 --> 00:41:10.389 some numbness in his extremities 00:41:10.514 --> 00:41:13.309 and a little wooziness from the pills I just gave him, 00:41:13.434 --> 00:41:15.311 but no lasting effect. 00:41:15.478 --> 00:41:16.937 Not like getting bit by a dolphin. 00:41:17.062 --> 00:41:18.063 All right. 00:41:18.189 --> 00:41:20.608 You saved my life. 00:41:20.733 --> 00:41:23.110 I really didn't. 00:41:23.277 --> 00:41:25.738 We just heard. What an adventure. 00:41:25.863 --> 00:41:27.406 Are you okay? I'm okay. 00:41:27.531 --> 00:41:29.408 Thanks to my warrior queen. 00:41:29.533 --> 00:41:31.785 - My Georgia. - Okay. 00:41:38.959 --> 00:41:40.920 What are you talking about? 00:41:41.045 --> 00:41:42.922 Snakes. 00:41:44.298 --> 00:41:45.674 We should let him sleep. 00:41:45.799 --> 00:41:48.260 He's going to be fine, but don't do that again. 00:41:48.385 --> 00:41:49.970 All right. DAVID andLet's go. 00:41:50.137 --> 00:41:51.889 - Yeah. - Okay. -Okay. 00:41:52.014 --> 00:41:53.849 We'll let you get some rest, okay? 00:41:53.974 --> 00:41:55.476 But don't worry. I'll stay right here. 00:41:55.559 --> 00:41:57.436 You remember that 00:41:57.561 --> 00:41:58.854 important thing that I asked you? 00:41:58.896 --> 00:42:00.940 Yeah. Yep. 00:42:01.106 --> 00:42:02.775 What'd he ask you? 00:42:02.942 --> 00:42:04.818 To marry him. 00:42:06.654 --> 00:42:08.739 - That's wonderful! - What? 00:42:08.864 --> 00:42:10.824 Maybe not for everybody. 00:42:10.950 --> 00:42:12.701 Sorry, I get that he's nice and all, but... 00:42:12.826 --> 00:42:14.119 What's wrong with nice? 00:42:15.120 --> 00:42:17.331 Only that after a couple more years of it, 00:42:17.456 --> 00:42:19.333 you'll be begging to watch paint dry. 00:42:19.458 --> 00:42:20.834 - Excuse me? - I mean, Mom, 00:42:20.960 --> 00:42:23.254 you're-you're so amazing and educated, 00:42:23.379 --> 00:42:25.297 tough, smart and beautiful, but you're... 00:42:25.464 --> 00:42:27.466 you're never your best self with him. 00:42:27.633 --> 00:42:30.928 But yeah, he's kind and he's got those eyes, 00:42:31.053 --> 00:42:33.305 but it's not enough. 00:42:35.182 --> 00:42:37.851 Being loved is not the same as loving. 00:42:39.311 --> 00:42:42.648 Plus, the who-whole surprising thing? 00:42:43.649 --> 00:42:45.526 It's actually just a curtain between us, 00:42:45.651 --> 00:42:47.611 so I heard all of that. 00:42:59.081 --> 00:43:01.500 Like hearing an old friend you barely talk to anymore 00:43:01.625 --> 00:43:03.460 is getting married. 00:43:03.586 --> 00:43:05.713 You're happy for them, but... 00:43:05.838 --> 00:43:08.090 you don't feel the need to buy a gift. 00:43:09.717 --> 00:43:12.386 Since when were you guys old friends? 00:43:15.764 --> 00:43:17.266 That's the way it goes. 00:43:17.391 --> 00:43:19.727 Stuff happens... 00:43:19.852 --> 00:43:22.396 things change, and you move on. 00:43:26.108 --> 00:43:28.068 Just move on. 00:43:31.947 --> 00:43:33.616 Can you believe it? I'm sorry, baby. 00:43:33.741 --> 00:43:36.410 I'm a little woozy. Am I supposed to believe it? 00:43:36.535 --> 00:43:38.787 - No. - No. Right, I can't. 00:43:38.912 --> 00:43:40.456 I know you're thinking I'm a hypocrite. 00:43:40.581 --> 00:43:43.292 - Am I? - And you're probably right. 00:43:43.417 --> 00:43:45.336 - Good. - I mean, who are we to say 00:43:45.461 --> 00:43:47.838 that Lily doesn't know what's best for herself? 00:43:47.963 --> 00:43:50.424 And if she does, if she's truly definitively certain 00:43:50.549 --> 00:43:52.718 that she loves and is loved, then... 00:43:52.843 --> 00:43:54.762 David is with them. 00:43:54.887 --> 00:43:56.388 David is with Gede and Lily now. 00:43:56.513 --> 00:43:57.890 Right, so he can break them up. 00:43:58.015 --> 00:43:59.850 No, I don't want him to break them up. 00:43:59.975 --> 00:44:01.310 Damn this medication. 00:44:02.645 --> 00:44:04.188 I have to do something. 00:44:04.313 --> 00:44:05.856 Take this. 00:44:05.981 --> 00:44:07.608 I'm sorry. 00:44:07.733 --> 00:44:09.443 I'm sorry. This will help you sleep. 00:44:10.861 --> 00:44:11.862 All right. Cool. 00:44:11.987 --> 00:44:12.571 Feel better. 00:44:12.571 --> 00:44:14.073 You know, I'm a highly trained commercial pilot. 00:44:22.581 --> 00:44:24.291 The best place on Earth. 00:44:24.416 --> 00:44:26.502 GEDE Well, to be fair, 00:44:26.627 --> 00:44:28.462 I haven't been to all the other places. 00:44:28.587 --> 00:44:30.714 Your mother's gonna be so jealous. 00:44:30.839 --> 00:44:33.384 I'll send her a picture as soon as I get a signal. 00:44:33.509 --> 00:44:35.177 No need. 00:44:40.391 --> 00:44:41.725 Hey, I'm so sorry about before. 00:44:41.850 --> 00:44:43.769 I guess I was just surprised. 00:44:43.894 --> 00:44:45.521 Of course your choices are your choices. 00:44:45.646 --> 00:44:48.565 Well, I haven't made any choices yet. 00:44:51.527 --> 00:44:52.695 Okay. 00:44:52.820 --> 00:44:53.821 Hi, gents. 00:44:53.862 --> 00:44:55.739 Is, Paul okay? 00:44:55.864 --> 00:44:56.990 He's sleeping. 00:44:57.116 --> 00:44:58.659 How can you tell? 00:44:58.784 --> 00:45:00.828 God, look at this view. 00:45:02.204 --> 00:45:03.997 LILY Yeah. 00:45:06.125 --> 00:45:08.001 Is that my boat? 00:45:09.753 --> 00:45:11.797 Is it drifting? 00:45:12.798 --> 00:45:14.508 Nah, it's just rising with the tide. 00:45:14.633 --> 00:45:15.968 It's floating away. 00:45:16.093 --> 00:45:18.011 - You did tie my boat off? - Yeah, I tied it. 00:45:18.137 --> 00:45:20.139 Tied it to a log. 00:45:23.100 --> 00:45:25.018 That's not good. 00:45:32.192 --> 00:45:34.611 DAVID All right. You're the closest. 00:45:34.737 --> 00:45:37.531 I think it's closer to you than me. 00:45:37.656 --> 00:45:39.158 Okay. Hey. 00:45:40.159 --> 00:45:43.120 On my count. Okay? 00:45:43.245 --> 00:45:44.955 One. 00:45:46.915 --> 00:45:48.125 Three. 00:45:48.250 --> 00:45:50.127 Dad! 00:45:50.586 --> 00:45:52.880 What are you doing? We absolutely had it. 00:45:53.005 --> 00:45:54.590 I cannot believe you. 00:45:54.757 --> 00:45:56.091 You're the one that scared it away. 00:45:56.133 --> 00:45:57.676 That is not what I'm talking about. 00:45:57.801 --> 00:46:00.095 - What are you talking about? - She found the rings. 00:46:00.262 --> 00:46:01.388 Really? 00:46:01.513 --> 00:46:02.389 That's great. Where? 00:46:02.514 --> 00:46:03.599 In Mom's bag. 00:46:03.724 --> 00:46:05.058 I knew it. 00:46:05.184 --> 00:46:06.810 What? 00:46:06.935 --> 00:46:08.312 I knew it. 00:46:08.437 --> 00:46:10.105 And she obviously wasn't working alone, because... 00:46:10.147 --> 00:46:11.815 - Wait, what? - You left it in the bag? 00:46:11.940 --> 00:46:13.609 Wait, wait, wait. Wh-What do you mean, you knew? 00:46:13.650 --> 00:46:15.235 What was I supposed to do with them? Throw it away. 00:46:15.277 --> 00:46:16.779 Where? -I'm sorry. I couldn't tell you. 00:46:16.820 --> 00:46:17.529 In the trash, in the ocean, anywhere but... 00:46:17.654 --> 00:46:19.031 My God. 00:46:19.156 --> 00:46:20.783 Can you just stop talking about the rings, please? 00:46:20.783 --> 00:46:22.451 I cannot believe that this is happening. 00:46:22.576 --> 00:46:24.411 My own parents have been trying to sabotage my wedding, 00:46:24.411 --> 00:46:26.121 and my fiancé knew about it and didn't bother to tell me. 00:46:26.121 --> 00:46:27.206 We were just trying to do what's best for you. 00:46:27.247 --> 00:46:28.749 Yeah, but you had no respect 00:46:28.916 --> 00:46:30.667 for my opinion of what that might be. 00:46:32.503 --> 00:46:34.755 You're just like all parents, 00:46:34.922 --> 00:46:36.215 acting like you're giving your kid 00:46:36.298 --> 00:46:37.758 this great advice for their own good, 00:46:37.758 --> 00:46:39.384 but all you're really doing is talking 00:46:39.510 --> 00:46:41.428 to your young, dumb selves, trying to rewrite the past 00:46:41.470 --> 00:46:43.388 and not do whatever you did 25 years ago. 00:46:43.514 --> 00:46:46.099 - That's absolutely not true. - That's a hundred percent true. 00:46:47.267 --> 00:46:51.605 And I can't tell you how much I wish someone had been able 00:46:51.730 --> 00:46:54.191 to get through to me back then, 00:46:54.316 --> 00:46:57.110 stop me from making the greatest mistake of my life. 00:47:00.155 --> 00:47:02.199 I'm the greatest mistake of your life? 00:47:03.534 --> 00:47:05.619 Not you. Me. 00:47:06.870 --> 00:47:08.622 I'm the mistake. 00:47:13.544 --> 00:47:15.170 Hey. 00:47:33.105 --> 00:47:34.815 Do you think we've lost her? 00:47:37.359 --> 00:47:39.361 She's pretty pissed. 00:47:42.656 --> 00:47:45.117 I'll talk to her. I'll tell her it was my idea. 00:47:46.285 --> 00:47:48.161 I talked you into it. 00:47:49.329 --> 00:47:52.624 And if I'd listened to you, we wouldn't have done it. 00:47:54.793 --> 00:47:56.670 She'll be fine. 00:48:02.301 --> 00:48:03.760 You weren't a mistake. 00:48:06.513 --> 00:48:07.973 You weren't. 00:48:09.600 --> 00:48:11.643 It's been the story for years that you were the one to blame. 00:48:11.685 --> 00:48:13.854 It's not true. 00:48:16.690 --> 00:48:18.233 I... 00:48:19.443 --> 00:48:22.029 was loving being a mom. 00:48:24.281 --> 00:48:26.116 But I... 00:48:26.241 --> 00:48:28.869 started to feel like I was losing who I was, 00:48:28.994 --> 00:48:30.871 and I thought... 00:48:30.996 --> 00:48:34.583 if I stayed with you, maybe one day I would... 00:48:34.708 --> 00:48:37.210 not recognize myself at all. 00:48:41.632 --> 00:48:44.092 That was the mistake. 00:48:44.217 --> 00:48:45.427 Not you. 00:48:57.481 --> 00:48:59.650 You should've told me. 00:49:01.568 --> 00:49:04.446 Well, your dad thinks you deserve better than me. 00:49:04.613 --> 00:49:07.282 My dad thinks I deserve better than anyone. 00:49:07.407 --> 00:49:09.159 So do I. 00:49:11.954 --> 00:49:15.457 You gave up a lot to stay on this island. 00:49:16.625 --> 00:49:18.877 And you know I understand that. 00:49:20.712 --> 00:49:22.631 But what about me? 00:49:23.799 --> 00:49:27.344 In a year from now, ten years from now... 00:49:29.096 --> 00:49:31.139 will I still be enough for you? 00:49:33.225 --> 00:49:35.143 Are you kidding me? 00:49:36.812 --> 00:49:39.231 Hey, we're sitting here, 00:49:39.356 --> 00:49:42.526 and there's a moon and a waterfall. 00:49:42.651 --> 00:49:45.028 I'm in the most beautiful place I've ever been in my life, 00:49:45.153 --> 00:49:47.197 and all I can look at is you. 00:50:12.681 --> 00:50:14.016 Morning. 00:50:14.141 --> 00:50:15.392 Morning. 00:50:15.517 --> 00:50:17.227 How'd you sleep? 00:50:17.352 --> 00:50:19.813 You know, outside. 00:50:21.857 --> 00:50:24.317 I think this is my new favorite place on Earth. 00:50:26.486 --> 00:50:28.530 - Close second for me. - Yeah? 00:50:29.531 --> 00:50:31.742 What beats it? 00:50:33.827 --> 00:50:35.203 Our place by the lake. 00:50:35.328 --> 00:50:36.621 - Yeah. - Yeah. 00:50:36.747 --> 00:50:38.915 I still go there from time to time. 00:50:39.041 --> 00:50:40.250 Really? 00:50:40.375 --> 00:50:41.793 God, what did they build there? 00:50:41.918 --> 00:50:44.296 Please don't say some hideous McMansion. 00:50:44.421 --> 00:50:46.381 No, it's still vacant. 00:50:46.506 --> 00:50:49.426 Huh. I wonder why nobody ever developed it. 00:50:51.261 --> 00:50:53.263 'Cause I still own it. 00:50:57.142 --> 00:50:59.728 I meant to sell it. 00:50:59.853 --> 00:51:02.564 Took an offer once, but I couldn't do it. I just... 00:51:04.691 --> 00:51:06.485 I didn't want to. 00:51:12.866 --> 00:51:14.743 You-you got a... Yeah. 00:51:14.868 --> 00:51:16.912 An entire forest. 00:51:31.343 --> 00:51:32.135 - Yeah, that would not work. - That's bad. 00:51:32.177 --> 00:51:33.678 That's not gonna work. 00:51:33.804 --> 00:51:35.097 It's because we're in this romantic place and... 00:51:35.097 --> 00:51:36.473 No, it's the whole thing with Lily... 00:51:36.473 --> 00:51:37.724 - everything is heightened. - Yeah. 00:51:37.724 --> 00:51:39.059 I mean, maybe if we were younger... 00:51:39.059 --> 00:51:40.602 - We're not. - Which we're not. 00:51:40.769 --> 00:51:41.978 We know better. We know better. So, good, good, good. 00:51:42.020 --> 00:51:43.438 We can do better. Good. Good. Great. 00:51:43.605 --> 00:51:45.273 - Good and great. - Good and great. You know what? 00:51:45.273 --> 00:51:47.067 - Hey. Hey, hey, hey. - Good and great. Hey, hey, hey. 00:51:47.067 --> 00:51:48.276 Give me your hand. Give me your hand. What? 00:51:48.276 --> 00:51:49.152 - Okay. - Just like that. Okay. 00:51:49.277 --> 00:51:50.320 Mom. Dad. Yes? 00:51:50.445 --> 00:51:51.071 - Hey. Hi. - We're your parents. 00:51:51.196 --> 00:51:53.073 We got rides. 00:51:54.116 --> 00:51:56.660 Well, well, well. Hello again. 00:51:56.785 --> 00:51:58.870 Or should I say, "Ciao"? 00:52:10.632 --> 00:52:11.883 Thanks. Hey. 00:52:12.008 --> 00:52:14.219 Georgia, hey. Baby! 00:52:14.386 --> 00:52:15.137 I was so worried. 00:52:15.137 --> 00:52:16.555 You were right about getting some sleep. 00:52:16.596 --> 00:52:18.223 I can almost move both my legs. 00:52:18.348 --> 00:52:20.433 And look, one functioning arm. 00:52:21.434 --> 00:52:23.436 - Where have you guys been? - It's a long story. It's... 00:52:23.436 --> 00:52:25.355 Our boat drifted out to sea. 00:52:25.480 --> 00:52:27.816 That's not that long of a story. 00:52:27.941 --> 00:52:30.152 Yeah, well, it felt like a long story if you were there. 00:52:30.193 --> 00:52:31.653 - Hey. Where are you going? - Lily. 00:52:31.778 --> 00:52:33.613 To Wren's room to get ready, 00:52:33.738 --> 00:52:36.199 because this afternoon, I'm getting married. 00:52:37.492 --> 00:52:39.202 You can either get on board with that 00:52:39.327 --> 00:52:41.538 or have a nice flight home. 00:52:41.663 --> 00:52:43.331 Lily. 00:53:00.682 --> 00:53:02.559 Hey. 00:53:02.684 --> 00:53:05.020 Your tuxedo, sir. 00:53:09.441 --> 00:53:10.609 There. 00:53:11.610 --> 00:53:12.694 Are you okay, sir? 00:53:12.819 --> 00:53:13.987 Yeah. 00:53:14.112 --> 00:53:15.989 Everything is clearly terrific. 00:53:31.254 --> 00:53:32.923 Surprise! 00:53:33.048 --> 00:53:34.090 Why would you do that? 00:53:34.216 --> 00:53:35.467 - I got us brunch. - Okay. 00:53:35.592 --> 00:53:37.719 How long have you been out here? 00:53:37.844 --> 00:53:38.929 Not so long. 00:53:39.930 --> 00:53:41.681 Is it cold? 00:53:41.806 --> 00:53:43.266 I-I wasn't sure how... 00:53:43.433 --> 00:53:44.935 how long you would stay in the bath. 00:53:45.060 --> 00:53:47.479 I'm gonna be having that panic attack all day. 00:53:47.604 --> 00:53:49.189 Eat something. Eat somethi... 00:53:49.314 --> 00:53:50.732 Well, maybe not the eggs. 00:53:50.857 --> 00:53:53.235 They're a little congealed. But first... 00:53:53.360 --> 00:53:54.861 What? 00:53:56.821 --> 00:53:59.199 Take two. 00:53:59.324 --> 00:54:01.034 - Georgia. - Yes? 00:54:02.619 --> 00:54:04.746 I-I love you. 00:54:04.913 --> 00:54:07.332 You are gorgeous and kind... 00:54:07.457 --> 00:54:09.542 Okay, I... You don't have to kneel this time. 00:54:09.668 --> 00:54:11.127 - You want me to stand? - Yeah, I do. I... 00:54:11.127 --> 00:54:13.213 Come on! 00:54:13.338 --> 00:54:14.923 Are you okay? I'm s... 00:54:15.090 --> 00:54:16.633 I'm-I'm gonna get you some ice. 00:54:16.758 --> 00:54:18.134 No, I'm fine. 00:54:18.260 --> 00:54:19.344 You're so brave. 00:54:19.469 --> 00:54:20.720 God. 00:54:23.598 --> 00:54:24.808 LILY Stop crying. 00:54:25.809 --> 00:54:27.727 Why would I cry? 00:54:27.894 --> 00:54:30.021 It's not like I'm losing someone who's basically 00:54:30.146 --> 00:54:32.857 a substitute for my entire terrible family. 00:54:34.818 --> 00:54:36.945 Is my mascara okay? 00:54:37.070 --> 00:54:38.947 For a clown. 00:54:39.072 --> 00:54:40.949 Let me help. 00:54:42.617 --> 00:54:44.286 Do you remember when we graduated? 00:54:44.411 --> 00:54:47.539 Yes, because it was two months ago. 00:54:49.165 --> 00:54:51.459 You lied to me. 00:54:54.587 --> 00:54:56.381 I'm so, so sorry. 00:54:58.049 --> 00:54:59.551 It turns out a parent will do 00:54:59.676 --> 00:55:01.177 anything in the world for their kid 00:55:01.303 --> 00:55:04.389 except let them be exactly who they are. 00:55:07.142 --> 00:55:09.519 Your dad and I were gonna be different. 00:55:12.355 --> 00:55:14.482 We were gonna be better than this. 00:55:16.651 --> 00:55:18.737 I wanted to be better than this. 00:55:24.492 --> 00:55:26.703 There's no one better, Mom. 00:55:28.872 --> 00:55:30.582 No one. 00:55:31.583 --> 00:55:33.626 Yes, there is. 00:55:41.968 --> 00:55:44.304 Sweetie. Love you. 00:56:37.941 --> 00:56:39.526 Can you believe I didn't bring anything to wear to a wedding? 00:56:39.651 --> 00:56:41.694 There wasn't supposed to be a wedding. 00:56:43.113 --> 00:56:44.864 Doesn't look like a rental. 00:56:46.324 --> 00:56:48.284 You clean up pretty good. 00:56:55.291 --> 00:56:57.669 Okay. 00:57:47.802 --> 00:57:52.140 to show he and Lily will be ready 00:57:52.265 --> 00:57:54.642 to live together. 00:58:10.074 --> 00:58:12.869 Right place, right time, 00:58:12.994 --> 00:58:14.871 right circumstance. 00:58:16.164 --> 00:58:18.666 Sorry, but we don't have all three. 00:58:20.668 --> 00:58:23.838 Georgia, Mr. Cotton, 00:58:23.963 --> 00:58:27.800 we needed your support, your blessing, 00:58:27.967 --> 00:58:29.969 and we don't have it. 00:58:31.971 --> 00:58:34.641 When I push this knife through this mat, 00:58:34.807 --> 00:58:37.268 it is a declaration that 00:58:37.393 --> 00:58:40.313 this poem of a person and me 00:58:40.438 --> 00:58:42.315 are now a family. 00:58:43.650 --> 00:58:45.652 We can't be a family without you. 00:58:47.779 --> 00:58:51.241 So I ask you, please, 00:58:51.366 --> 00:58:53.743 for Lily and me, 00:58:53.868 --> 00:58:56.996 or we will not marry. 00:58:58.331 --> 00:59:00.667 You didn't want to run that by me first? 00:59:06.548 --> 00:59:08.800 You can do the hard stuff, too. 00:59:13.137 --> 00:59:15.640 You don't need our blessing. 00:59:15.807 --> 00:59:17.642 I mean, you have it. 00:59:17.809 --> 00:59:19.978 It's here, but... 00:59:22.146 --> 00:59:24.524 All you two really need is each other. 00:59:28.861 --> 00:59:30.572 If your mother and I had listened 00:59:30.697 --> 00:59:33.449 to her awful parents or my dumb-* friends, 00:59:33.575 --> 00:59:35.910 then Lily wouldn't be here at all, 00:59:36.035 --> 00:59:38.580 and I think we can all agree that 00:59:38.705 --> 00:59:42.125 the world's a lot better place with Lily in it. 00:59:42.250 --> 00:59:46.004 So... 00:59:48.131 --> 00:59:50.049 Yeah? 00:59:53.720 --> 00:59:55.888 I mean, your mother and I are on your side. 00:59:56.848 --> 00:59:58.975 Both of you. 00:59:59.100 --> 01:00:00.852 Now and always. 01:00:00.977 --> 01:00:02.770 Yeah. 01:00:13.448 --> 01:00:15.575 Shall we? 01:00:22.248 --> 01:00:24.083 Wait. 01:00:24.208 --> 01:00:25.627 What? 01:00:27.378 --> 01:00:29.172 I'm just kidding. Go for it. 01:00:32.175 --> 01:00:34.302 That's my daughter. 01:00:45.730 --> 01:00:48.608 Do you think if we'd kicked a coconut around a few times, 01:00:48.733 --> 01:00:51.027 things would have worked out differently for us? 01:00:52.654 --> 01:00:55.323 I'm sure some red and white string couldn't have hurt. 01:01:00.370 --> 01:01:02.038 Paul proposed. 01:01:02.163 --> 01:01:04.374 I know. 01:01:04.499 --> 01:01:06.959 This morning, he-he re-proposed. 01:01:08.544 --> 01:01:10.672 What did you say? 01:01:10.797 --> 01:01:13.841 I asked him for some ice because he head me. 01:01:16.636 --> 01:01:19.138 A lot of guys would've gone in for a kiss at that point. 01:01:20.973 --> 01:01:23.142 Let me see your nose. 01:01:23.267 --> 01:01:25.353 Let's see. 01:01:28.815 --> 01:01:30.608 I think you should say yes. 01:01:36.739 --> 01:01:38.741 Paul's a good guy. 01:01:40.118 --> 01:01:43.788 And if he makes you half as happy 01:01:43.955 --> 01:01:46.541 as we were when we were happy... 01:01:50.128 --> 01:01:52.213 then you should say yes. 01:01:54.549 --> 01:01:56.259 I don't know. 01:01:58.219 --> 01:02:00.722 Maybe I'm too old to feel young anymore. 01:02:00.847 --> 01:02:02.640 I... 01:02:02.765 --> 01:02:04.475 think I missed something critical, 01:02:04.600 --> 01:02:06.519 and now it's too late. 01:02:08.646 --> 01:02:10.982 Well... 01:02:11.149 --> 01:02:13.276 you look like you're in your prime to me. 01:02:18.406 --> 01:02:20.199 Even with that crooked nose. 01:02:38.217 --> 01:02:40.261 - Hi. - Hi. 01:02:59.447 --> 01:03:01.866 What are you doing out here? 01:03:01.991 --> 01:03:04.702 Just looking at this garbage. 01:03:04.827 --> 01:03:06.704 You call that a sunset? 01:03:22.386 --> 01:03:24.514 I belong here. 01:03:27.058 --> 01:03:28.768 I know. 01:03:39.278 --> 01:03:41.489 Will you come and dance with me? 01:03:47.662 --> 01:03:49.539 Let's go dance. 01:04:12.603 --> 01:04:14.146 Kick it! 01:04:14.272 --> 01:04:15.565 Kick it. 01:04:24.365 --> 01:04:26.576 Hold it up! Hold it up! Hold it up! Hold it up! 01:04:26.701 --> 01:04:28.035 No! 01:04:28.160 --> 01:04:31.080 Come on, more. More. 01:04:32.874 --> 01:04:34.458 Fudge! 01:04:34.584 --> 01:04:36.502 Now it's going. Now it's go... 01:04:36.627 --> 01:04:39.547 It's going! It's going! 01:04:44.677 --> 01:04:45.887 All right. All right, kiddo. 01:04:46.929 --> 01:04:48.180 Okay. 01:04:49.181 --> 01:04:51.058 Dad. 01:04:51.183 --> 01:04:53.519 No. No crying. 01:04:56.397 --> 01:04:58.524 Okay. I love you. 01:05:03.738 --> 01:05:05.531 And I love you. 01:05:07.408 --> 01:05:09.076 All right. 01:05:12.705 --> 01:05:15.541 I love you. 01:05:22.423 --> 01:05:25.009 I super love you. 01:05:50.242 --> 01:05:52.662 Sorry about Paul. 01:05:52.787 --> 01:05:54.622 - No, you're not. - Not really. 01:05:59.043 --> 01:06:00.544 I'm gonna miss her. 01:06:00.670 --> 01:06:02.630 Yeah. 01:06:04.674 --> 01:06:07.301 I see why she likes it here. 01:06:07.426 --> 01:06:09.470 Yeah, it's good. 01:06:10.763 --> 01:06:13.766 I could see spending some time here. 01:06:13.933 --> 01:06:15.685 Someday. 01:06:25.778 --> 01:06:28.489 Why save the good stuff for later? 01:06:28.614 --> 01:06:30.700 Yeah. 01:06:44.255 --> 01:06:45.715 What? 01:06:59.937 --> 01:07:01.772 - Yeah? - Yeah.